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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

He didn't give me any reason for breakup...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4693 days ago

15 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear cupid My bf broke up with me yesterday. We had our share of ups and downs. I wanted to make the relationship work, but he doesn't want to. He did'nt give me any reason for breakup, he just said that he doesn't want to see my face or hear my voice anymore and that I... (151 words)

He pushed me down. Its just not like him.

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4687 days ago

15 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So my boyfriend and I have been together about a year and a half. We've known each other for nearly 7 years...it just took a while to make it official. Once official, things went fast. Within 2 months we were (practically) living together...within 6 we really were. I'm his ... (536 words)

This man just can't take no for an answer

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4691 days ago

15 February 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I am divorced. I have put my house up for sale. My realtor came up a few weeks ago. He caught me off guard and stated that he was getting a divorce. On Valentines day he sent me flowers. I wrote him a email and stated I do not date married men (fyi he still has a ring on) he ... (147 words)

He's 20 years old, but he looks 17...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4692 days ago

15 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello! My question seems quite silly, but it's something that's been bothering me. I'm in a relationship with someone who I've been with for a year, and I just don't seem to fancy him as much anymore. I feel so terrible and shallow:( he's 20 this year but only looks about 17,... (77 words)

Is this relationship worth it? There are alot of problems going on

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4684 days ago

15 February 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - My relationship with my girlfriend so far was a mess. I have known her for just short of 5 years, but we have started going out only a year ago. I am 21, and she is slightly older. We have both been in rather long, serious relationships before. We live really far apart, but ... (1283 words)

Simple question, who would you choose?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4548 days ago

15 February 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Simple question - who would you choose? Person 1- lets call him Froddo. So i have fancied 'Froddo' since year 8 (age 12-13 for others) (im in year 11 now - age 16-17) and we fell out a few times, but we always made up. He's a lovely guy. Recently, i spoke to him, and he said... (382 words)

We hung out together, nothing happened and now he's totally ignoring me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4691 days ago

15 February 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - There's this guy who is 3 years older than me. I'm a freshman and he's a senior. I REALLY like him and he's known that I like him and we're like literally best friends. He called me beautiful and even asked me to chill alone with him. We were at my house alone. He didn't even ... (135 words)

I'm seeing my ex tomorrow and don't know what to say to her

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4693 days ago

15 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, so my ex is my bestfriend and we broke up months ago, but nothing in our relationship changed, except intimacy. I still spent everyday with her, until recently when she moved in october but I was staying at her house week by week coming home weekends, until december when ... (269 words)

Does meeting his mom and sister mean he wants to be more than friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4692 days ago

15 February 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi everyone: Hope you guys can give me your opinion. I have been good friends with this guy for awhile. Last week his mother and sister showed up at an event where I was with him. It was unexpected on my part but he knew they were coming. Do you think for him to be introducin... (91 words)

Do his flowers mean he's serious about me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4692 days ago

15 February 2012 (F) age 41-50 - I just started dating a guy and received flowers for valentines day. Does this mean he's serious?... (18 words)

7 weeks pregnant, two guys involved, not sure what to do, which one to chose

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4689 days ago

15 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - im currently 7 weeks pregant and involved with two guys who i think the world of that im seeing, i know it s wrong i just can't help it, I know who most likely the father is and that guy i have literally known a month. Hes indian and not got a british citenship. The ... (522 words)

Am I overanalyzing his actions or just settling for someone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4693 days ago

15 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 4 years and although we are both in our careers I feel like things have somewhat changed (or I’m just overanalyzing as I usually do) He’s a police officer and has weird shifts that are constantly changing, and I work at a ... (482 words)

Is he not as attracted to me anymore?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4693 days ago

15 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone, I'm worried about my bf not being sexually interested in me. We have been together for about a year and a half, and we live together. We used to have sex a lot and it was wonderful, we were both each other's firsts. Of course it started out clumsy, but it got m... (243 words)

Our sex life isn't working out very equitably

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4679 days ago

15 February 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I know I'm a dick for getting frustrated about this and I know that it's my fault, but I don't know what to do. I consider myself pretty good when it comes to sex. I've only had sex with my girlfriend, but I'm usually able to make her cum like 2 or 3 times a session. The... (349 words)

Boyfriend doesn't try in the relationship yet he wants me to move in, should I?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4693 days ago

15 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I need an outside opinion badly cause this issue is never going to get resolved! I've been with my boyfriend for 2 1/2 years and the last 7 months have been downhill. I found sexual emails (to another man) which he dismisses, he's lied to me about where he goes sometimes a... (196 words)

Are these actions totally fine or are they a little inappropriate?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4690 days ago

15 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm not sure what to think about some of my bf's interactions with women/female friends. First of all I want to say that I'm not an overly jealous person but I'm very perceptive. My bf is a very outgoing and chatty person. He's the kind of guy who walks up to strangers at a ... (621 words)

This was a bit vulgar to say to me on Valentines day, should I be offended?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4692 days ago

15 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - So I've been dating this guy for a few months. Everything has been going pretty good for the most part. Then yesterday, he kind of threw me for a loop. He sent me a text that said "Blow jobs are like flowers for guys on Valentine's Day". I was taken by surprise - especially ... (164 words)

I'm addicted to porn and masturbation.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4692 days ago

15 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm addicted to porn and masturbation. Hey! I'm going to turn 18 in the next month, and I've had sex twice till now. I stopped because I felt too guilty of doing these things, (coming from a conservative family ) and wanted to be celibate. But its getting a little harder f... (259 words)

Is it worth waiting for him or should I just move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4693 days ago

15 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I was seeing a guy for a couple of months and really liked him although neither of us discussed how serious it was or where it was going until I brought it up last week. He said he wasnt ready for a relationship properly as hed just got out of a 6 year relationship and didnt ... (183 words)

My husband blew off Valentine's Day--does he not care about me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4692 days ago

15 February 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been with my husband for over 20 years and he has never been the romantic type but this valentines day he completely blew me off! Not even a card! Money is not an issue for us, he had the day off so he had time, and he didn't forget! I am hurt not because I wanted stuff, ... (120 words)

Female hygiene question....

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4689 days ago

15 February 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - hi a question for the ladies on dc. This is a question on female hygiene. How uncomfortable is it for you the day after a night of sex if you dont have time for a shower in the morning. I bring this up as my partner said she didnt want sex after she had washed because she didnt ... (68 words)

How can I tell if he is cheating? What should I look out for?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4693 days ago

15 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I think my fiance Is cheating on me wth his colleague,he's always sending her messages claiming to me that it work related.so I would like to know what to look out for,how can I be sure that he's cheating,I want to know the signs becouse he once cheated on before,before I ... (69 words)

We had only slept with each other, but during the 3 months we were apart he slept with 3 other women, including the girl he cheated on me with! What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4693 days ago

15 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - please can someone help me, im completely devestated and have no idea what to do :( my ex and I have been dating since we were kids and have been best friends for years. we've had our problems and have often worked them out, but have split up a few times when things got too ... (252 words)

Working so hard during term time means I always get ill during the holidays! How do I stop this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4693 days ago

15 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm at college and need some advice. I work really hard all year to try and get the best grades that I can. At the moment I am working at grades A and B however whenever the holidays come around I always get ill. I usually stay behind at college till around 5, come home, get ... (127 words)

I lost my fiance because of online dating sites! Why do I do this to myself and how do I get out of this hole I've dug for myself?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4692 days ago

15 February 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been on and off dating sites now for over 4 years. almost 2 years ago my fiance walked out on me after catching me on them again after giving me several chances. Since that, I have met guys off the sites but nothing ever came of them, I was just used sexually and I ... (147 words)

How do I end this conflict at school?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4693 days ago

15 February 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Er.. hello there. well, my problem is this: this guy in my school is by known by everyone and has like 850 friends on fb. he also hangs around with the really cool girls in our year.i'm in love with him but hate that i love him so i be mean to him when ever i can. he's in loves ... (229 words)

He has no money because of a failed business deal and child support, so I am paying for everything! Do I keep on like this because I'm his fiancee, or can I tell him I've had enough?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4691 days ago

15 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My fiance and I have been living together for two years and we planned to get married this year. He was involved in a business deal before we met which last year started to go bad and for the past 6 months he has been using most of his salary (from his regular job) to pay off ... (211 words)

I want to stop. How can I get over my strong desire to download porn?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4693 days ago

15 February 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi I am a 14 year old gay teenager, and I think im addicted to porn Recently ive been watching a lot of porn and I've tried to stop several times, but I can't. I use my iPod touch to download it via app. I've deleted the app to attention to get rid of the habit, but I alw... (79 words)

I'm scared. First Date. What do I do? Will he suspect this is my first date?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4693 days ago

15 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so lately i've been asking a lot of questions about me and my crush, and thankfully many of you helped me out.. ..so valentines came along and he finally did ask me out. he gave me his number and said that he wants to meet up when i'm bk home on holiday (4 days to go yaayy... (203 words)

He flirts with me when he's drunk. Is that why he visited me, at 6am? How can I interest him more?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4693 days ago

15 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi! I have a bit of a problem regarding a guy I think I like. Sometimes I sure, but then I think about our many differences and wonder if it would really work, and if I really like him or not. I guess I'm also a bit scared to open up to people..maybe that's part of the ... (314 words)

How can I improve things at home? I'm lonely. My spouse has ED issues and will not talk to me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4693 days ago

15 February 2012 (F)

age - My husband doesnt talk to me. he sits in front of the TV all evening and only wants to eat. if i talk to him he says he is missing his program. but his programs go on all night. he even comes to bed and watches in the room. he cant get a erection and is not interested in sex a... (76 words)

Problems at home were affecting me, when I made a comment that hurt another. How do I now rebuild their trust in me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4693 days ago

15 February 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - There is a group of girls who are my type, but they all hate me because of something that I said to someone: I told someone that I didn't like them when I was going out with them, then all of her friends in that group hated me. I think they like me now, but no-one wants to... (117 words)

How do I create the opportunity for a future romance to develop with my Lecturer?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4693 days ago

15 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I am very aware of my lecturer’s professional boundaries and respect that. The rapport between us is very good and I do believe he is interested in me too. I expect that there is about an 8 years age difference. And he doesn’t wear a wedding ring. He is my supervisor on my pr... (105 words)

Hoping to enjoy something denied me until now. How can my Bf make my birthday really special when we make love?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4693 days ago

15 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My 21st birthday is on Friday. And I know I'm going to have the best sex of my life. I'm probably going to be drunk, but I hope not too drunk where I cant remember it. My problem is, though, I've never had a vaginal orgasm before. My current sex partner, the one I'll be getti... (120 words)

I can't hurt my parents but I can't leave my boyfriend either

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4693 days ago

15 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend loves me so much and I am his first girlfriend ever. He is the type that one woman for one life. I am also similar but I had my ex bf whom I broke up before I met this guy. My first sex was with my ex and it hurts my present bf. He cries a lot and gets angry with ... (451 words)

We are married but strangers and I'm bored with him

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4693 days ago

15 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Please help me out here.I'm going through hell my husband is a very quiet kind of person he is not even romantic.while we were datin I think he a lil better compared to now wen we got married and had a baby.I dnt knw his dreams he doesn't knw mine.his lazy to talk.he prefers ... (367 words)

My boyfriend is boring and doesn't satisfy my emotional needs

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4693 days ago

15 February 2012 (F) age 36-40 - My boyfriend is boring ! We've been in a 1 year relationship in which about 8 months has been distant coz of my voluntary work for a good cause.At d beginning,he would jus melt away even at d sight of me n I could read dat in his face and i loved it though he didn't say much. ... (171 words)

Is there really another girl? Or is this guy just saying that?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4692 days ago

15 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm starting to like this guy in my class and I'm not sure if he has the same feelings towards me. First off we have ALOT in common, he's always asking what my plans are for the weekend, he also invites me to go out to a Bon fire but I already have plans of my own. We flirt ... (185 words)

B/f and I broke up and my family is talking about it behind my back

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4693 days ago

15 February 2012 (F) age 30-35 - my boyfriend and i broke up three weeks ago and i decided to accept reality.however as away of getting over the situation i decided to talk to my mum about it.After a short while i have come to realise that my mum told some relatives and these relatives are going on and on ... (154 words)

I have a student who says she loves me and will wait for me. What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4693 days ago

15 February 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - If I tell you our whole story, it may help you to find more helpful advances on our issue! I’m a teacher at an adult’s language school and I have been teaching here for more than two years now! Two years ago, when I was 26, I started to work in this school and as an adult sc... (1466 words)

I don't think I should go out with this boy because people will pick on us!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4693 days ago

15 February 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - well hello agony aunts I am new as you can see and I'm pretty sure i will ask you a lot more questions in the future: but here is my question: it's this boy that i like a lot i liked him for 3 and 1/2 years i like him and he like me.i know he like me because every time I loo... (161 words)

Boyfriend has a diaper fetish and I'm at a loss for what to do

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4693 days ago

15 February 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I just found out a few months ago that my boyfriend of 2 years has a diaper fetish, he explained to me that he is a "diaper lover" rather then an "adult baby" in the past he has acted out some of my fetishs so Im prepared to take part in his But I have no idea how to go about... (76 words)

Should I apologize? it still hurts.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4693 days ago

15 February 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Last year, me and my best friend who I used to love broke out due to I couldn't cope with the pressure when she was going out with another guy for three months. Those three months was not easy for me to go through. If you want to know how painful it was then just imagine your... (238 words)

He suddenly just stopped communication and then started it again. Does he like me and where do I go from here?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4693 days ago

15 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone, Any help would be greatly appreciated as I'm very confused right now! So I've been dating this guy, we met through a mutual friend and things have been going well. He would constant text me, call me 'pet names' and compliment me. So we went on a proper date and... (183 words)

Is my secret lesbian relationship with my best friend doomed?!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4692 days ago

15 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Help/ opinions will be really appreciated. Sorry for such an essay but I can't talk to anybody about this. I'm 22 and have always been with guys. Around 3 years ago I met *A now 20 we soon became best friends. Even though she was also 'straight' I had a feeling she like... (451 words)

Ex says I don't deserve her. Should I fight for her or move on?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4688 days ago

15 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex and I broke up last month. Less than a week later she tells me she's seeing someone new. I have had time to work on myself and want to give it another shot with her. However, she doesn't. Today she told me she still loves me but can't let herself get hurt by me again, ... (88 words)

I feel that my association with this girl is just screaming 'pedophile' even though it's legal

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4693 days ago

15 February 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey, In a weird situation right now regarding a girl's age. So the backstory is, I was out at a club with my friends, ended up talking and dancing with a few girls. As standard, try the whole 'are you coming back to mine thing' haha to which she said she can't and she... (281 words)

I know he is interested in me, but why does he ignore my gestures for us seeing each other again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4654 days ago

15 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello all, guys and ladies advice needed mainly guys. So I have been talking/dating a man for about 8 months now, mainly on the phone, because we live in diffrent states, we would text every single day. He always has been the initiator and I've just been following his lead. He ... (558 words)

The ex cheated, wasn't there for me and I ended things. Was I too hard on him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4694 days ago

15 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid I recently split from my ex we lived together for a year and then spent another year together but living apart . It was a messy break up he cheated I was very upset and thought if I kept sleeping with him I was keeping close to me. Needless to say that didn't work ... (172 words)