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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

She hasn't been as friendly since our walk, is she playing mind games or am I making myself cheap?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4659 days ago

17 February 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I have this female friend whom i really like and plan on getting into a relationship with. i went on a walk with her on sunday which was really worth it. after then i called, texted and even saw her, i noticed she hasn't been so friendly, jovial as she used to be towards ... (101 words)

He thinks that I should ask his permission before I go out with my friends!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4659 days ago

17 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - me and bf have been together for nearly six years both in twenties. we have been arguing really bad so i went up his house to try and sort it out but we couldn't resolve anything. i ended up going down my girlfriends house and going out clubbling. i hardly ever drink o... (310 words)

I have major problems with my boyfriend's personal choices!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4659 days ago

17 February 2012 (F)

- So I'm 21 and my boyfriend is 40. I know it seems like a big age gap but it has worked for us and we get along so well... Until recently. Basically he is a self employed builder and hasn't had work for a gd few months, he has been able to have bits and bobs but has not take... (312 words)

B/f broke up with me because of my behavior. Could we get back together?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4657 days ago

17 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So my boyfriend of 4 months (longest relationship of mine) dumped me on Valentine's Day because he was fed up with my behaviour. I won't lie and say what I did wasn't good (when I was upset sometimes I'd threaten to break-up with him, and sometimes tell him he was a bad ... (189 words)

Does anyone deserve a second chance?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4659 days ago

17 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - when someone has cheated, should you give them a second chance?... (11 words)

He wants a threesome! Isn't a twosome enough?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4658 days ago

17 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So my boyfriend keeps telling me about a fantasy he has of having a threesome. It'd be something like he would have sex with me and I fool around with the other dude at the same time. But that just seems so odd to me, I wonder why he wants to bring an outsider in to OUR ... (127 words)

I can't date her because of our religions...so what should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4659 days ago

17 February 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - I've gotten to know this girl around 8 months ago. We're both 16, in the same school, same classes, everything. Ive gotten to know her so well, and I spend every waking minute thinking about her. I really think I love her, but see the problem is that I can't date her, or ... (88 words)

Boyfriend has history of violence. Am I worrying too much?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4612 days ago

17 February 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Long story short, I found out over the last couple of days that my boyfriend has a really bad temper. I haven't been dating him for long and i've known hes had a bad temper for a while but i'm now getting a bit concerned. ... (612 words)

Should I break up with my FWB?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4660 days ago

17 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I am seeing this guy for almost 3 months. I realized we are not more than FWB..cuz we meet always x sex. Last week I went out with a friend of mine, I met a nice guy who asked my number and invited me to lunch...I said not. He asked me if I have a boyfriend..I said not..but I ... (228 words)

Am I too inexperienced for Love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4660 days ago

17 February 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I am a 27 year old man, and I have never had any relationship or sexual experience what-so-ever. I've never been on a date, held hands with a woman, kissed a woman, anything. I'm worried that I will never be able to get a girlfriend because I am so inexperienced, I feel that ... (83 words)

First date and my Mom is driving us! Worried this will be awkward..what can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4660 days ago

17 February 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - hi! i have a date tomorrow and we're going to the movies. but the thing is that my mom is driving us there. how do i make conversation with her without it being awkward. i may also need help on what to do for the remainder of the date because its really my first real date.... (60 words)

I deleted him off facebook. So should I message him and explain why?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4659 days ago

17 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a crush on this guy for three years now. Even though we never got together, the chance we did have was thrown out the window for a number of factor. (he went back to his country + was seeing other women). I decided to be just friends on facebook, but everytime he'd wri... (235 words)

Do I meet him and let him help me financially to be with him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4660 days ago

17 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have no idea how to start, i really have a big dilemma. I recently took a break from college due to some family problems. In this time i have had a lot of spare time on my hands so of course i overkilled the internet. It is at that time that i have met the most wonderf... (1275 words)

I don't want a baby right now, but it seems like my body is screaming at me to have one

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4659 days ago

17 February 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 16. I'm in a stable relationship with a guy who I adore (don't care how immature this sounds- he makes me the happiest I've ever felt and treats me like a princess). Ever since meeting him, I've become so broody. Like, I can't stop looking at babies in the street or ... (127 words)

Should I tell my g/f about my fetish

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4658 days ago

17 February 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi there. I'm a 30 year old male and have been going out with my g/f for nearly 4 year's now, we both love each other dearly, we are having our 1st child soon and I think she could be the woman I want to spend the rest of my life with. The problem is though. I haven't told ... (472 words)

My girlfriend is lazy in bed and doesn't start sex

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4660 days ago

17 February 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - So there are plenty of other forums and questions just like this but none with exactly my issues... My girlfriend and I have been dating for nearly 1 year. She is my fifth sexually, I am her 3rd-ish. My problem is that she is extremely lazy during sex. Neither of us ar... (207 words)

Boyfriend of 7 years says if I don't give him a child he will leave me

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4659 days ago

17 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - So, My bf of 7yrs has giving me an ultimatum that if I don't give him a kid he is going to leave me..Mind you he has a daughter who is being raised by her mother and he feels since he has no say he is giving up and wants to have one with me cuz he's been with me for so long. I ... (218 words)

He says move on, but I want to get back together. What do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4660 days ago

17 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm seperated from my partner for 8months and we've got 2 children together who are living with me. The children have said to him several times that they want us to come back but he said 'NO'. I've not had sex since then and i want to with him. He sometimes come to my house and ... (168 words)

Should I give my son's father another chance?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4659 days ago

17 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - my ex (we will call him Kyle) and I were together forever, we started "dating" in middle school (we were 13 I think) we were best friends and everything we did we did together. Shortly after graduation things went down hill. We were both in college and I guess you could say we ... (694 words)

He said, "when you've finished with your boyfriend, I'll take you out." Did he mean that?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4660 days ago

17 February 2012 (F) age 36-40 - A man i know said " where have you been hiding? " , because he hadnt seen me for a long time.I saw him when i was out with my new boyfriend in a bar.This man asked me if he was my boyfriend,as it was the first time he had seen me with him,and i said he was.He then said " When ... (178 words)

Body fluids tend to make me gag, how do I control this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4660 days ago

17 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - just a simpol thing that worries me slightly. Me n my boyfriend have been together for a year and our sex life is great but when ever my boyfriend cums and I see it I always seem to gag and I cant control it. (Altho when I give him a blow job it doesnt bother me at all) its ... (100 words)

Is it just me or does this whole thing with my G/f seem a little fishy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4660 days ago

17 February 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I were together for 2.5 years. Last night she called me, started crying, and said that she couldn't handle the anxiety feelings that were coming back and ended our relationship. She said she felt we were too young to be this serious (I'm 22 and she turns 21 ... (148 words)

Is my husband gay or bisexual?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4659 days ago

17 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok here goes... I'm 18, and my husband is 19. we've been married for 8 months. we have a daughter, who is 2 years and 2 months and i'm 11 weeks pregnant with our second child. Basically, i know in my heart that my husband is gay. He claims he is bi sexual, but he's... (267 words)

Clipped texts with no smileys, is he losing interest?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4660 days ago

17 February 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - What's with him? A day ago a guy (who likes me) whom I just met recently, used texted me slightly longer texts. And just recently, 2 of his recent replies with one/few words replies. It was kind of monotone and there's no smileys. A few days ago he would use a smiley o... (199 words)

My fiancé's ex wife still has some kind of power over him, she pisses me off with her ways and I hate the way she takes advantage of him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4660 days ago

17 February 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I´m engaged to the most wonderful man in the world. We have known each other for alomost 12 years, been best friends and have been together for 8 months. They were married for 19 years with no kids. They aren't divorced yet but seperated. Divorce is still months away because ... (910 words)

Found out the guy I was dating had a girlfriend and now I'm seeing his enemy, everyone thinks I'm being spiteful but I've liked him for a while! Am I in the wrong?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4660 days ago

17 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I was dealing with a guy for about a year. Towards the end of our thing I met his "enemy". Ive ran into him before but we never spoke. This night we actually ended up kissing. I was drunk and so was he. Any who the night ends and we exchange numbers. The next I day I was ... (185 words)

I don't know if I should be in a relationship with him, or just be his friend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4660 days ago

17 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm feeling anxious over a new relationship. I even feel like crying. I'm seeing a man who is 21 years older than me. Obviously, he has much more of a past than i have. He was married for three years when he was in his twenties, and has a son who is a year younger than i am. ... (353 words)

Should I ask my b/f about the message on his phone from a girl asking to catch up?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4659 days ago

17 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi. My bf cheated on me about 9 months ago and we're been a bit rocky since, but I decided to forgive him and he's been as good as gold since so I am building up my trust. I originally found out about it as I had an insecure moment and checked his phone (I know I shouldn't ... (136 words)

I don't want to get too attached to him because of the distance! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4660 days ago

17 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive been talking to this boy for a few weeks now and we've known each other for ages, the problem is that he's moved away. We both live in cornwall, i live in St Austell and he lives in Penzance, i sort of like him but i don't want to get attached to him, because he lives like ... (103 words)

How can I be happy being single?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4660 days ago

17 February 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Does anyone have any advice on how to get over a girl who has a boyfriend? And any advice on how to be happy being single? I have lots of friends and I'm busy with interests but have been single for 2 years now. I'm not happy anymore. I'm not actively seeking anyone - Iv tried... (120 words)

Losing your first love or soulmate? Advice needed!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4660 days ago

17 February 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey guys! I am 22 and have just lost my first love, someone I thought was soulmate. I always mingled with girls but only settled for this one because I thought she was special. Can anyone help? Long story short, I broke up with ny ex 2 months ago. I hurt her real bad when I ... (1189 words)

When it comes to sex its all about him and I'm sick of it

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4660 days ago

17 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - i have been married for 3 years and within that 3 years my husband and i have had 3 kids together i came in with 2 kids of my own but my husband hass cheated on me sooo many times we dont sleep togther and he rather masterbate then have sex with me and when we do have sex its ... (190 words)

He texts me and then no contact for days. Is this a guy game?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4660 days ago

17 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Alright... so I met this guy at work. I work days, he works the night shift. We only see each other if I work late. So, we're friends on Facebook, we text, we message, we even talk when we see each other at work on occasion. He told me he really likes me, and feels somethin... (313 words)

Boyfriend's fantasy of me being a teenager has freaked me out

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4660 days ago

17 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I have recently started dating someone and I'm having a pretty awesome experience with it. I'm really comfortable with him, we talk very personally, and its the first dating experience I've ever had where I wasn't nervous, and I was able to be myself all the time. The whole ... (293 words)

I wanted to marry my girlfriend and now I don't. Now what?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4660 days ago

17 February 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - This year will mark the 10 year anniversary of me meeting my girlfriend. Early in the relationship we talked of marriage, but neither of us really believed in it and we were trying to establish our careers - moving around and generally unstable. Eventually, we managed ... (440 words)

My girlfriend has had several threesomes and hook ups in her past: liberal open-minded girl or just a slut?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 4655 days ago

17 February 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Well, I know this topic comes up a lot but here I go anyways: I'm dating this girl for the last 5 months. She has been always open about her attitude about sex, and admitted to me that she has had a lot of threesomes, hook ups and ongoing on and off open relationships in her p... (295 words)

What makes someone ready to date?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4660 days ago

17 February 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay so I been thinking. What really makes someone ready to date? Please don't say you'll know. I want to know what will help me determined if I'm ready for a serious relationship.... (33 words)

Should I just see who I like more or should I tell my friends to stop trying to hook me up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4660 days ago

17 February 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello! I'm a 15 year old girl in highschool :) I like these two boys and I don't know who I like more. My friend is trying to hook me up with this boy in my 3rd block class and my other friend is trying to hook me up with my friend that I've known since the beginning of the s... (216 words)

Is there any way I can win my parents over to at least meet this guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4660 days ago

17 February 2012 (?) age 30-35 - So I have been dating a guy, M, for like a week and a day now. I was supposed to see him on Valentine's Day and hang out at my house so he could get to know my parents better but that never happened. Why? Well I shall get into it. So the day after M and I started dating, ... (559 words)

How can she love us both equally?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4648 days ago

17 February 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - If a women says she can't choose between 2 Men because she says she's in love with both so when I got out of my relationship and told her 2 Make a choice the other guy is her fiancé so she got so upset that she couldn't go 2 work for over a week she finally decided 2 end it ... (110 words)

Troubled relationship with mother and grandmother. What do I do?

This question has 29 answers - newest was posted 3783 days ago

17 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, This is a family orientated relationship problem. I am a 30 year old female. I am in contact with my grandmother and siblings. My father and I have been estranged for 10 years with very little communication in that time. Over the past 2 years I moved away fro... (1203 words)

Ex hubby changed with new girl??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4660 days ago

17 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - he is my ex husband. We divorced last year. We had a child together but he took the custody of her. He was really wealthy, really good looking, had a nice body, was quite well known and quite successful at his job. However he had been cheating on me repeatedly before and after... (521 words)

How do I deal with built up hatred for my ex? He just went missing when I told him I was pregnant and he never cared to check on me until months later

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4659 days ago

17 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - It has been about 4 years since I had an abortion. I had gotten pregnant by my ex. I had also gotten sick around the time I was pregnant. I had to make a choice to have surgery for my illness and lose the baby..or stay sick and keep it..I informed of ex of this and I ended ... (218 words)

My nipples have started to become sore, but I've never had sex!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4659 days ago

17 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm usually the first one to say "get checked by the doctor" but was hoping it could just be a passing thing. This is a little embarrassing but painful. My nipples have become hard and sore, i've never had sex so definitely not pregnant and period not due for another 3 weeks, ... (73 words)

What are my rights as a patient?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4660 days ago

17 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Sorry, this'll be a bit off topic. I moved to Canada last August and I've just signed up to a medical centre here. I found most of the staff to be extremely rude and they signed me up for all sorts of tests without telling me what any of them were for or would even entai... (294 words)

One minute I think he likes me and the next I have no idea.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4661 days ago

17 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I met this guy at a uni class I go to every week a few weeks ago and I am so confused! One minute I think he likes me and the next I have no idea. He insists on walking me home as class finishes late and it is dark, we have gone out for a drink and he held my hands and we got... (241 words)

Is it possible that he's become distant to me due to it getting close to the finalisation of his divorce?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4660 days ago

17 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, Hoping I will be able to get some answers here.. I've known a guy for nearly two years on and off (we are both in our 30s). We dated a couple of years ago, however he was going through a trial separation with his wife. During these months I did not sleep wi... (272 words)

Can you tell me how to kiss a boy Please!!!! Or how to find out how?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4659 days ago

17 February 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi everyone, Ok, I am 16 and as far as doing anything with a boy goes, the only thing I have done is hug one. Now there's this guy and we both really like each-other, I think. He is getting a little impatient, we aren't dating or anything but he told me he wants to kiss me ... (218 words)