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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Does he sound like a sociopath

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4688 days ago

18 February 2012 (?) age 36-40 - He and i were fwb in the past but we're just friends now. I went to see him at his place because he's going away for a month and we wanted to see each other before he left. We've always been pretty flirty around each other but nothing has happened since our FWB thing ended ... (292 words)

Three is a crowd!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4689 days ago

18 February 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - Hey everyone I have a very complicated problem. There is this girl that I have relly liked for a long time and I'm kinda sure she likes me too. The only reason I haven't asked her out yet is each time im about to I freak out to much about her saying no. So then a week ago at a ... (253 words)

Is my ex only keeping me around because I know his secret?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4690 days ago

18 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I've recently got into casual relationship with an ex-boyfriend of mine. There was no big reason for breaking up, we were in a long distance relationship at the time and barely got to see each other. We live pretty close now, 25 minutes. I was at his place last night, thin... (255 words)

I'm engaged, but I no longer feel like I love him.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4689 days ago

18 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Help! i'm engaged but i no longer feel like i love him. he was my boyfriend and my best friend. even after he moved away for school, we made it work. he visited me each time he could and those were moments i truly treasured. after i graduated high school he proposed to me. i ... (220 words)

Should I feel bad about not attending my sister's wedding considering the circumstances?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4688 days ago

18 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi guys, I've been a long time contributer on here for others problems and I was wondering what others could suggest on my situation concerning my sisters' marriage. I'm not sure how I feel about this as my family isn't so close and is rather disfunctional, but that sa... (760 words)

I only see this guy at parties and I don't even have his phone number, so how can I get to know him better?

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18 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, so my story: I have a pretty big crush on a boy i met a few months ago. When I run in to him on party's we always hug and he is very flirty, but we never really talk about serious things. I am getting very interested in him because of this and I really want to know w... (187 words)

Ex told me my penis was too small and now I have serious confidence issues

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4688 days ago

18 February 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Confidence. I'm a guy with a average to small penis. I've always been fairly good in bed using what I got. When I was in the process of breaking up with a girl I was absolutely in love with she said "Well you're a guy with too small a dick" for some reason coming from her it ... (96 words)

Ex and I slept together but he says he can't offer me a relationship right now

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4688 days ago

18 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, I split up with S in Dec 2010 i just didnt feel close to him despite me loving him he was so hard to know?, hes not good at showing his feelings, we remained friends and went out as friends but i just didnt think he wanted a relationship with me again, he neve showed any ... (332 words)

He's quiet and not very demonstrative, but does it sound like he may be interested?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4689 days ago

18 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm into one of my friends here at college, and he's an odd boy but I'm an odd girl so it works out. :) He's very quiet, and doesn't seem to be touchy-feely at all, and it's hard to read him, but I'm wondering if he is interested or is considering being interested in me. We ... (427 words)

I slept with a married man and now he doesn't call me

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4688 days ago

18 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I slept with a married man a week ago. It was only once but I've been feeling terrible since. I had known him for three years. After that night, he texted me once or twice mentioning how great that night was. I texted him back but I tried to distant as much as possible. He ... (102 words)

I want my ex to change his opinion of me so he'll take me back

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4689 days ago

18 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend of five years and I broke up. We're still trying to be friends but it's really hard. I miss him like crazy and would love for him to be a part of my life again. It sucks not having him around. We were living together for a year and during this time I lost my j... (260 words)

I want to ask LDR b/f what is happening but I'm afraid he'll lie to me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4678 days ago

18 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi! I'm in a Long Distance Relationship, and everything is going so well, it has been 6 months now that we're datin. We love each other so much, and we care about each other. We talk every single day just before we go to bed, because durin the day I study and he works. We're ... (260 words)

I've chosen my path- no sex yet. How can I slow him down, and make him not want more?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4687 days ago

18 February 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey again. Recently, me and my boyfriend have practically done everything mouth-to-mouth wise but he wants more.(and i don't mean sex, i mean touching) I've told him that I'm not ready to do it and he said he's ok with waiting, even though I know he isn't. He is really sweet... (109 words)

He acted interested but now he's not. Should I ask him to hang out tonight?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4689 days ago

18 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Please read i need help! Sorry its a little long but i need to tell the whole story. So i met this guy while out with my friends. Hes someone i went to school with but never talked to until now. He said he wanted.to take me out but we didnt exchange numbers. The next week we... (416 words)

My hubby see whatever I say as a personal attack on him and becomes aggravated and rude, his rudeness is lowering my esteem each day, what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4690 days ago

18 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been married for a 7 months and having problems with my hubby .he is generally a good person. however, he can really be rude. He would say I ask too many unnecessary questions, when am asking a genuine innocent question, he would also just unexpectedly just snap a mem ... (295 words)

How do I stop this guy from being boring and getting upset so easily?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4688 days ago

18 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi people! I really need help with this one. I've been in a relationship with this guy for 3 weeks now. He was a very mysterious type in the beginning but now he's soo boring now. He's a quite romantic guy but he keeps saying the same things over and over.. and like.. I ... (171 words)

Is it fair to say someone never loved you just because they hurt u

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4690 days ago

18 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Is it fair to say someone never loved you just because they hurt u. I have recently come out of a two year relationship where I thought we loved each other. I am now questioning if he cared for me at all. Looking back over his past behaviour I can see now he was not the man I ... (94 words)

What can I do to win back my ex boyfriend's affection?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4686 days ago

18 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I broke up six weeks ago. I moved out and stopped talking to him. A couple weeks later he initiated contact. We hang out sometimes and things go very well. He still surprises me with dinner and chocolates and we do other nice things for each other. I'm a ... (177 words)

He's confused, I'm confused, what's going on?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4690 days ago

18 February 2012 (F)

age - I am 47 and my boyfriend of five years is 60. We had a wonderful relationship and I know he loves me very much. He recenlty started pulling back without explanation. He then told me he didn't think he cared as much as he use to. We broke up and over the next couple of weeks I ... (236 words)

My passion is steadily cooling and I'm wondering if I should breakup with boyfriend because hes selfish sexually?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4689 days ago

18 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - my bf is 36, I am 21. he was my first and at first it was exciting. but I have only been able to come once in our 2yr time together...Now, he does little foreplay and goes right in. Hard and fast. Done. He has stamina and no problem getting/staying erect, but his style doesn't ... (211 words)

How do I tell this guy I don't want to play his games any longer?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4689 days ago

18 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Why does he keep doing this? how do I tell him i want to forget him? ? There's this guy I use to work with. I liked him a lot and I use to stare at him a lot of times at work and each time I looked at him he'd be looking at me too. So I got the impression that ... (301 words)

How can I tell if a strong silent type guy likes me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4690 days ago

18 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi guys I just wanted to know if there's any signs to look out for to see If a guy likes you. Especially of there the strong silent type Thanks :)... (37 words)

I have feelings for my best friend which aren't returned. I don't want to lose her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4690 days ago

18 February 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - So I've been best friends with this girl for 3 years now. I've had 'extra' feelings for her for a long time now, on and off. I told her about these feeling about 18 months ago, but got totally shot down. Our friendship wasn't shaken though and we're still really strong ... (238 words)

I have health problems but I still would like to have sex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4690 days ago

18 February 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi Iam a 31 male. I have a health problem. Iam digonised with SMA 3(MOD NOTE: Spinal Muscular Atrophy). Due to this, Iam not mobile on my own. So socializing is problem. I have been advices not to get married. Iam still a virgin but feel the need for my physical pleasure. What ... (72 words)

What do I do when my boyfriend ignores me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4690 days ago

18 February 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - what to do when my boy friend ignores me a lot and does not meet me nor does answer my call nor texts me and just avoids me what do i do ? ... (37 words)

My husband would rather watch porn and get an erection and masturbate than have sex with me! Where did I go wrong?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4688 days ago

18 February 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been married to my husband for almost 14 years and over the last 6 months to a year I have noticed he is into his porn more than he is into me. He came home early one afternoon and asked me if I wanted to have sex with him... I jumped at the chance and said hell yeah, ... (329 words)

The cleaning lady is coming on to me, how do I proceed from here?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4690 days ago

18 February 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - So the cleaning lady comes over every Friday to the house and i kind of have a crush on her. There are times when were home alone together and i swear i get the feeling that she wants me! She's like 45-46 im 19. She's always sparking conversation with me, making comments about ... (210 words)

How do I get back my confidence after finding out my wife had an affair?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4690 days ago

18 February 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - I have been married for 18 year to my college love. I just learned that she had an affair with some one that she use to date before me. I have forgiven her and want to move on with our life together but I am badly hurt. My ego and self esteem is very damaged. What can I do ... (124 words)

Is this girl interested? She puts off seeing me but didn't say no

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4690 days ago

18 February 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I just phoned up this girl I have a crush on and I asked her out to dinner (it took a lot of nerve on my part but I won't go into that). When she asked who else is coming I said that I was thinking 'just you and me'. And she said, 'You and me hm? Interesting.' But the... (184 words)

I'm so hurt my husband told me that I suck in bed!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4686 days ago

18 February 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Im so hurt my husband has told me i suck in bed and he would rather masterbate to porn. he does it often and locks himself in the room for 2 plus hours but im lucky if we spend 30 mins having sex. im so hurt and dont know what to do. He doesnt think i should be up set cause he ... (96 words)

Friend gives lame answer and then no reply, what should I do?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4690 days ago

18 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I asked a friend to catch up for my birthday. But he said he had no money, but can't he just borrow money from his family- who he lives with? He's used this excuse before, but I mean it's my birthday tomorrow. And I'm having my wisdom tooth removed next week.... (51 words)

I know he's shy, did I come on too strong?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4690 days ago

18 February 2012 (?) age 26-29 - Well, :) I hope every New Orleanian is having a happy Mardi Gras so far I kinda got a little brave today and tried talking to my crush more than I usually did. I was passing out flyers that had to do with an exciting event going on involving my creative arts schoo... (492 words)

Should I ask to stay in contact with my teacher after he retires once I graduate and if so, when and how should I ask?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4690 days ago

18 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I want to keep in touch with my freshman algebra teacher who retired in 2009 and he's kind of shy and likes his privacy. When I asked one of his friends who still works at my school if she could ask him if I could contact him (this was when I was a sophomore) he said through ... (209 words)

Boyfriend says he will not take advice from a girl

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4688 days ago

18 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - When waiting for a take away once with my ex boyfriend, I was reading a magazine with a sex positions article in it. Being flirty, as a joke I showed it to him and he put it back on the table and said angrily I'm not taking sex advice from a girl! What is your opinion on why he ... (66 words)

Does he still want to be with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4690 days ago

18 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So I've only known my boyfriend for about 3 months and we started dating about a month and a half ago and him and i are 5 years apart. He doesnt seem interested in me as much as he was when we were just friends, at the beginning of the relationship he said he wanted to ... (160 words)

I'm so afraid I'm going to cheat on my fiance

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4640 days ago

18 February 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I have a great finacee but her sex drive has never matched mine and I'm fine with it...I love her and we've been in love for years were getting married this upcoming March. I masterbate every morning after my girl goes to work (she works in the medical field so she's up at 4... (525 words)

My b/f moved out and now I don't know how to act around him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4689 days ago

18 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hii y'all, so my bf and I decided on him movinv out for a little while, he moved in with his sister and her bf, I went over to their house and couldn't stop crying, I miss him to much, I'm used to living with him and this is a complete change for us, I couldn't manage to tell ... (91 words)

Does my ex have feelings for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4690 days ago

18 February 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I've liked this guy for really long and we dateed for a while a few years back and now I like him again. He told my friends that he liked me also and we kissed at parties and stuff but wee aren't dating cause both of us just got out of realationships. Yesterday I'd gone for a ... (195 words)

Its been almost 6 months since we broke up yet it still hurts like it was yesterday

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4686 days ago

18 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend of 2 years and I split up in September 2010 and yet I still don't seem to be over it. I still find myself thinking about him and the 'what ifs' and whenever anything goes wrong and I need a cry I always end up using it as an excuse to let out my heart ache. I'm ... (471 words)

Why does my boyfriend not trust me or want me to go to the library?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4690 days ago

18 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi guys. Just looking for some advice. My main questions: Do you think this is acceptable in a relationship? Am I in the wrong? What would you do if you were me? Any other comments? Ok so the situation: I work part time/full time student. Last week, I had ... (647 words)

Why is my ex messing with me like this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4691 days ago

18 February 2012 (F) age 30-35 - I was with my ex for two years, he broke up with me unexpected, we are both hot tempered.he told me he wanted it over as we were living together i said i refuse to hear this threat anymore just do it. he did. moved out. as we work together initially i was finding it very ... (372 words)

My college lover: Should I continue with him or cut all ties?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4690 days ago

18 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - i am in college; A guy and I has been on and off friends for about 2 years, during that time we have had intercourse and also tried become more than friend. During one of our periods of being apart he got into a relationship, but his girlfriend doesn't know about me. We are ... (79 words)

It's really disappointing that my boyfriend isn't coming to see me perform anymore!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4689 days ago

18 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - i am a musician and i perform on weekends. my boyfriend used to always come watch me perform and it really was the sweetest thing. i felt really good knowing he was there supporting me but the last few weeks, he has chosen not to go to my performances and stays home playing ... (135 words)