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26-29,
*rinityHunter
writes:So this question is a follow-up of my previous question about this guy Cody. Well whenever me and my sister showed up at the dance, he was smokin' weed in his truck. I was so astonished that he would do somethin' like that in public, especially on a "first date" Of course he had already told me that he smoked weed. But anyways, the whole night he was makin' sexual comments to me like askin' me to leave with him and touchin' all over me and doin' stuff with his tongue, if you know what I mean. It all left me speechless. And then he kept wantin' to hold my hand. But what got me was after the dance. He was in his truck rollin' up another blunt. I didn't really want to be around him at that point 'cause there were cops all around. So, I was just like "we leavin'" and turned away. He called to me "I don't get a hug or nothin'?" I turned back to hug him and as I went to put my arms around him, he leaned in to kiss me. I backed away and he just smiled and said that he was sorry. Well our ride wasn't there yet so he got out of his truck and waited for our ride so we "wouldn't be alone" I thought it was really sweet and when my mom got there he was really respectful and polite. Well, we've been textin' alot and he never mentioned anything about why I wouldn't do anything with him. He's always got whores writin' on his Facebook wall and I'm sure he's done slept with MANY girls, and I don't want to be just another girl in his never endin' line of girls. So I really feel like he's only interested in that stuff when he's high because after it wore off was when he apologized just for almost kissin' me. What should I do? Is it wrong to want to be with him when he only wants sex from me when he's high but really sweet when he's not? I REALLY need y'alls advice before I get too involved and get used for that reason.
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reader, PerhapsNot +, writes (20 February 2012):
 Being high doesn't turn someone into someone who is sexual. This is actually who he IS when high, drunk or completely sober. You have feelings for him and he is mapping out a plan to get into your pants. Look at it this way: he already has a reputation for sleeping with women casually and then he approached you like a piece of meat before he realized that you don't like it. So he changed his tune a bit. He will have a different kind of a game play where he will pretend to be sweet and romantic and say things that you want to hear, so he can get some action. OR he will give up because it's too much work. It will be one or the other.
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