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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I think I'm in love with my male best friend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4681 days ago

26 February 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey, so, I'm a seventeen year old guy, living in the UK, and in short, I think I'm in love with my male best friend. I've known Ryan for about ten years. We've been best friends since first school, and we played together all the time. Around three years ago, he left for six ... (559 words)

My sons are angry and think I am a bad mother when all I tried to do was give them a good life

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4681 days ago

26 February 2012 (F)

age - I have just had a very heated conversation with my teenage sons aged 17 and nearly 20. Both them feel they have had terrible childhoods because I use to smack them and threaten them with implements when they were younger and according to them also steal their money. I ha... (956 words)

Why did he pull up my bra strap?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4681 days ago

26 February 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I have a gay friend, who I will call Mark. He has on older brother, who I will call Malik. Well I was over at Mark's house and when Malik walked by me, Malik pulled my bra strap up, that had fallen onto my shoulder. I'm not to sure what he means by that or if I'm just reading ... (89 words)

How can I stop letting the past creep up on me and make me upset?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4681 days ago

26 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and i have been through alot! we have a 7 month old daughter, i dont know where to start. few the past few weeks things with my boyfriend and i have been great! they couldn't be better. he is super nice he tells me he loves me every minute of the day. he says im ... (372 words)

Are we in a good position to be making these plans for our marriage in the future?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4680 days ago

26 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi so really this a question to get people's opinion. here's the back history of me and my boyfriend first so you know where I'm coming from :-) I've been going out with this boy now for 4years he's 19 (20 in september) and I'm 18 (19 in April) we've been together since I was ... (348 words)

Is being able to cook a turn on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4681 days ago

26 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I work as a cook in a kitchen for the last 3 years and recently (like the last year) my work load has gotten larger because I went through a semi-promotion if you will. Because of the work load I've lost 40lbs. The work load entails a lot more cooking on my part so I'm more ... (150 words)

I want to meet my LD crush but my parents don't want me to be alone

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4681 days ago

26 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi ! I'm a 17 year old girl and I have been talking to this 18 year old guy on Skype for the last 2 weeks because we are both in college ( I graduated highschool early ) we could meet until the summer but we talked about it a couple times we enjoy each others company and we're ... (134 words)

Didn't want to be lead on -- was this the right way to do it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4681 days ago

26 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I met this guy not too long ago. He kept trying to talk to me and i kept blowing him off cuz I was busy. Finally he got my attention and we talked and exchanged numbers. we texted a lot and went out a few days later and had an AMAZING time. We kissed. we hung out again a few ... (207 words)

I really like this guy but he is a player. Should I walk away now before I get hurt?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4681 days ago

26 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been seeing this guy for around 4 months now. I know he is a player and just sees the whole thing as fun but i have fallen for him and i dont know whether i should talk to him about it or just leave and walk away? i really care for him but im pretty convinced he doesnt ... (133 words)

I'm married, and falling to pieces because I had sex with another woman. What do I do now?

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 4680 days ago

26 February 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello. I did something really stupid. I had sex with another woman, therefore cheating on my wife. It only happened once and my wife doesn't know. I have no idea why on earth I did it. There's no chance that I'll ever see the woman I had sex with again. I don't know what to do. ... (87 words)

Why hasn't he asked me out yet?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4682 days ago

26 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone, Well my story is going to be pretty long please have the patience to read it.. So 2 years ago I met this guy thru a common friend at the time he was dating a girl for nearly 6 years,they were in a long distance relationship..so when I first saw this guy I found... (205 words)

He knows I have a bf. What's his problem?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4682 days ago

26 February 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey. well, this is confusing so just bear with me :) I met a guy in year 7 and he was in year 9. We were great mates and teased each other and so on and I only thought of us as mates. Wasn't sure about him though. Then in year 8 we started meeting up. I didn't call it "da... (194 words)

I feel like I should go farther with my 18 y.o. b/f

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4681 days ago

26 February 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I just started dating this guy I've liked for a really long time. He's 17 turning 18 next month and I'm 14 turning 15 in July. I know it's a huge age difference but I do really like him and according to his friends (who are also my friends), he really likes me too. And he tells ... (161 words)

Any way to get him to move faster?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4682 days ago

26 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I really like this guy. We have been talking for 2 weeks and met a week ago for the first time. Have been talking everyday. He says he wants to see me again and is making all the right noises so to speak. I am getting tired of waiting to meet up with him again though. Is there ... (69 words)

Am I just seeing things or is my boss into me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4682 days ago

26 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I work for a mostly all male company with a female accounting office. I am the only woman in office under 30 and have been working there for 3 years. I have been noticing lately that my boss, our company president, has been treating me differently compared to the other ... (578 words)

Does my tutor like me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4681 days ago

26 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have engaged a private tutor to help me with my degree, as it is a very tough course. He was not what I expected. He is about two years older than me and completed his degree the year before. We have met up twice now for sessions and I like him but I am not sure if he l... (1213 words)

How can I use this money to make more money quicker?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4682 days ago

26 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi all, I do hope somebody can offer some advice on my situation as I'm feeling rather down. I went on an expensive luxury holiday 6 months ago and had the ussual holidays blues after getting back as we all do. I waited and waited for these to wear off but quite frankly th... (167 words)

Are women like this even worth my time?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4677 days ago

26 February 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend of 2.5 years is difficult to deal with. We have a 22 month old son together and argue all the time but talked about it and both agreed work on it. Yesterday, she was flipping out about her sewing machine not working. I asked her if she wanted me to call the place ... (301 words)

Should I just let b/f call me when he feels better? I think he blew off our date because he was drunk

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4682 days ago

26 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - After 3 weeks of NC(my boyfriend needed time to get his life together!), my "boyfriend" contacted me telling me he was missing me,wanted to see me, apologized for not being around because he was going through hard times and did not want me to see him depressed( he is an ... (245 words)

My gf and I don't want to have sex anymore, is time to break up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4682 days ago

26 February 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - we been together for just over 2 years now, at the start was good and we have sex all the time, after 6 months she moves into my place and the sex goes down hill right away. in the past year we hardly ever have sex, from once a week down to now once a month or less if we really ... (371 words)

How can I help my boyfriend get over my past?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4682 days ago

26 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been seeing a guy for about 3 months who I am completely in love with. Everything was going great until about a week ago. He found out that I had slept with a guy in his group of friends around 7 years ago. He had always told me he has problems dealing with the past and ... (219 words)

Haven't heard from him in 2 weeks - confused

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4680 days ago

26 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been dating this guy (we are both in our late 20's) about 3 months and prior to our first date we talked nearly every day one the phone for a month. It's been 3 weeks since we've seen each other and 2 weeks since I've heard from him. We had been getting along quite ... (202 words)

Is he really happy for me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4681 days ago

26 February 2012 (?) age 36-40 - Me and a guy friend were talking on Facebook: Him: Congratulations :) *comes online an hour later* Him: Hey you Him: Not long now till I'm back Me: Hi, yeah I know Him: So, congrautlations again - facebook official! :O Me: Thanks Him: Hehe, so, whats he like... (217 words)

I didn't enjoy seeing my wife kiss another woman. Is there something wrong with me?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4679 days ago

26 February 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm a guy. I've been married for 2 years. Tonight my wife was out at a friends. I know she's dabbled in lesbian sex, and I'm ok with the idea, or thought I was. Tonight her friend was with kissed her while I watched. (I was at home we were on cam) I'm not sure how to feel, is ... (110 words)

Can someone explain these boys to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4681 days ago

26 February 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Heyya :) There are three boys in the year above me, and I walk home with them sometimes, and wait outside school with them and see them around school alot too and we talk. All of us are good friends. Right over time I have grown to like one of the boys, lets call him A. Anot... (516 words)

Every conversation with husband turns into an argument!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4499 days ago

26 February 2012 (F)

age - My husband of four years is a generally nice and kind man but has very firm views about things. I have tried over the years to put my views forward on things that I am not happy with in the relationship but my views are always walked over or ignored and then I am labelled as ... (318 words)

Would someone really hold back and push you away if they really did have feelings for you?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4682 days ago

26 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Would someone really hold back and push you away and say they don't want you if they really did have feelings for you? Like for example if they weren't ready for the relationship or whatever, even though they can have a relationship with others perfectly fine. Because in this ... (139 words)

Should I get back with my ex boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4682 days ago

26 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex boyfriend broke up with me in 2006.I did not see it coming because we were getting on fine.I was terribly hurt by the breakup. He recently contacted me in december 2011 saying he wanted us to get back. He sent me a love song and was telling me he had not changed.I told ... (109 words)

Why can't she even look at me anymore?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4678 days ago

26 February 2012 (F) age 30-35 - I'll apologize ahead of time for the length, but I can't stop dwelling on this and I'd like some input on what it could be. Basically she'd rather look at the ceiling than me, and I'm not over exaggerating (we work together). We dated for a few months and became very clos... (604 words)

How can I help my friend after her divorce?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4682 days ago

26 February 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - My friend was married and now she has devorced her husband because the husband was cheating with her friend he got pregnant ,how should i help my friend to go through the devorce anger ,loss and loneliness ?... (38 words)

He stood me up for no reason

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4679 days ago

26 February 2012 (?) age 36-40 - Me and this guy friend arranged to meet up this weekend; his idea actually. We do have a bit of a history. We've never dated but we did have a bit of casual "fun" when we were both single. I ended up developing feelings for him but I think that was just because he was my first. ... (310 words)

My boyfriend gets upset when I don't answer the phone

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4681 days ago

26 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - i am 46 single and live in uk and my muslim boyfriend is 26 years old, we met on a dating site. I look much younger than my age,we are planning to get married. My boyfriend gets really upset with me, when he cant get hold of me on the phone. He seem to think i am cheating on h... (75 words)

Should this change how I feel about my husband to be?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4682 days ago

26 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My Fiancé is a very inspiring person: born very poor single mother who had troubles with "the drink" (one Christmas he told me all he got was a black eye). Yet, he's now finishing a medical residency and has put everything behind him from his past, so I thought. I love him ... (448 words)

Should I go to her party when her boyfriend doesn't like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4682 days ago

26 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in trouble of misunderstanding and I feel like my friends are avoiding me. They talk when they have to and avoid important talks with me. I just can't describe what my feelings say. It might be a long story, but I reaaallly need an advice:( We are 4 girls close friend sin... (891 words)

What are your thoughts on what he really meant, when he said (possibly not sober at time) that he loves and hates me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4671 days ago

26 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, So I've met a very sweet shy guy who I've been out with on 7 dates and we've been texting daily so in total 3 months. I received a message stating that he hates me but loves me at the same time! Then an hour later another message apologising that he didn't mean any har... (103 words)

Need to break up with my LDR. But how do I tell this other guy in a subtle way that we should be together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4683 days ago

26 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been in a relationship for approximately one year and eight months. For a year now, it's been a LDR. I made it rather clear to my current bf that if he moved away, this relationship will most likely fall apart. I said this because I know myself. I get bored with men rath... (708 words)

I'm a guy and like one of my straight friends. What things should I do to manage this situation tactfully?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4682 days ago

26 February 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - Hello. I like one of my best guy friends, and I too am a guy. I've been close friends with him for 3 or 4 years. We didn't really talk to each other for the first few years, but became close as we had classes and talked to each other more. It was nice. But now we go to sep... (219 words)

This is an Unwanted Love Triangle. How should I be reacting in this situation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4680 days ago

26 February 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - My good friend, C, introduced me to a guy friend of hers, M. Apparently M started liking me. He would ask me out almost every week to hang out. I just go with the flow and went with him. Unknowingly, it seems that C likes M. I had that feeling. I would always asked he... (304 words)

How do I get over this breakup when I have such strong doubts that he has been flirting with other girls?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4682 days ago

26 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - it hurts me a lot that i broke up with my boyfriend yesterday, because i ve loved him so much.. but i can't also live with a doubt because I think he flirts ... (36 words)

My ex and I split 2 years ago. I've always loved her. Should I contact her or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4682 days ago

26 February 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I split with my ex just over two years ago. I still think of her and I sent her a message just before xmas a couple of months back and she replied the same day telling me she wasn't so good and that she started a new job and didn't feel herself and asked how I was. I replied ... (325 words)

I make friends with girls more easily than boys!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4683 days ago

26 February 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi i am a 16 yr old boy i was wondering why is it that im not shy of girls and i have mostly girls as friends and not much boys as friends but i seem to be very shy of boys i can easily make friends with girls but with boys is quite difficult i would like to know what that ... (63 words)

What was he thinking? What was this kiss all about?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4683 days ago

26 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Not sure if he was trying to kiss me or take advantage or what. My best friend and I were hanging out at his place when it happened and we have dated before, but it didn't work out and we were better friends than lovers. Well I was at his place and I was upset because he has... (222 words)

He has the ring. When will he find the right moment? Should I wait?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4677 days ago

26 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years this June. We have a great relationship and have lived together for the past 2 years. I trust him and he has never given me a reason not to. We are very close and are best friends and lovers. 2 1/2 years ago I found an engagement ring ... (253 words)

Which one? The one who likes me? Or the one I'm kind of into?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4683 days ago

26 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - There is this guy X who's in a class I'm in. And I’m kinda into to him. We talk in class sometimes but he’s extremely shy. We talk on Facebook at least once a week and he is the opposite of shy when we talk then. But I feel like I’m always the one starting conversations. Even... (116 words)

Is it to be expected that I would be insulted by his disbelief in me? How can I also suggest new things?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4683 days ago

26 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I've been seeing this guy for about 6 months now, we're not official but things are getting more serious between us as time goes on... He's the first guy I've ever been sexual with, I've given him a handjob and a blowjob. Now I've only given him a blowjob on... (345 words)

He doesn't answer if I use my phone, but did when I used a phone unknown to him. Is it over?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4682 days ago

26 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I need advice. My boyfriend and I have been dating for just over two years. He is currently studying for the bar exam. He's had an attitude with me for the last week which I let go because he's under a lot of stress lately. Yesterday, I had my grandmother's birthday party to a... (338 words)

He's amazing, but he belittles me and doesn't trust me. Calls me goody-two-shoes. Do I end this relationship?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4677 days ago

26 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - This is hard for me to write, its hard for me to come to terms with, but i think im near the end of my 20 month relationship. Since the day i meet him we became inseparable, he is my first serious boyfriend and its been a wonderful and life changing experience. Hes more tha... (555 words)

He can't go, so says I can't go? Am I being selfish wanting to take this big trip with my mother to see sister in Oz?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4682 days ago

26 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - There is quite a bit going on at the moment I don't know what to do, but my main objective is to go and see my sister in Oz (who I am quite close to). She moved to the other side of the world last year and so me, my mum and my boyfriend were all planning on going to visit in a ... (381 words)