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Is the shape of my vagina normal?

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Question - (19 February 2012) 5 Answers - (Newest, 6 March 2012)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *onfused_123 writes:

Okay, I'm done worrying about this, so I'm just going to ask a few questions about my vagina and whether or not it sounds unusual.

I've always thought I looked odd down there, but i figured that was just the way it was meant to look. I find vaginas incredibly ugly anyway.

Everyone's different, right? But then when I started shaving I realised you could see it far more clearly from the front, even if i stand with my legs apart.

Firstly, is it normal for you to be about to see the vagina from the front? Not all of it obviously, but some of it. I also think my clitoris might be oddly large as you can see that from the front too and it hangs down a bit and I worry it might resemble a penis slightly.

The inner flaps are about 2cm, but you can't really see them from the front.

I'm usually fairly articulate, but I'm just having trouble accurately describing myself. :L I've looked in all sorts of vagina galleries, trying to find out whether I'm normal, but the pictures are always with the legs apart. Never from the front.

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A female reader, Shelbyy-x United States +, writes (6 March 2012):

Shelbyy-x agony aunti feel the exact same way about my vagina as you do. plus i just had a baby so now im more self conscious.

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A female reader, Miamine United Kingdom +, writes (20 February 2012):

Miamine agony auntYour in the UK, how about you go to the family planning clinic and have a vaginal check up. You'll be able to ask the doctor's and nurses there about what is normal and they will be able to give you reassurance.

The thing is, how many vagina's have you seen? You can't know what is "normal" unless your a doctor or gynecologist who is used to seeing hundreds of women. If you've been looking at porn, you will have a distorted image about how most women look. Like film stars and models, women in porn are chosen based on a certain look, and many of them have surgery to make sure they get employment.

Normal is "does your vagina work", do you have periods, is sex possible, any abnormalities which cause pain or discomfort... everything else is totally normal. Abnormal means there is something wrong and you have to have surgery. Just like noses, toes and ears, everybody has something different. Will guys say "your vagina doesn't look right", only if they is silly, young and ignorant.. most guys will just say "pussy.. yumm... let me in", they don't see our bodies as ugly like many women do.

Like many women who just can't love and accept themselves, you hate your vagina for no good reason at all. Only age will change that, no matter what anyone says, you'll still say something on your body is wrong. If you shave you will see more of your vagina, because there is no hair to frame it. It cannot resemble a penis, unless it's the male average 5inches long, then you'd have go to the doctor and check your DNA for possible gender reassignment.

It's normal, but go to the doctors and let them tell you that. Please also check out this website. Read the articles look at the pictures of real women and how they look. http://www.the-clitoris.com/f_html/nav/body_indx.htm

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2012):

Yes it is normal to be visible from the front. In fact, that's the way most girls are. To find pictures, check out magazines like playboy. You can find a lot of naked girls standing up.

And your clit seems to be normal too. It's a little big, which makes it more fun to play with. Don't worry. You are lovely just the way you are.

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A female reader, Honeypie United States +, writes (20 February 2012):

Honeypie agony auntThey all look different and I agree they aren't exactly pretty lol

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A male reader, Bigking Zambia +, writes (19 February 2012):

I think vaginas vary in shape from girl to girl. they can't all be the same just like dicks. And for me as a guy, I don't think there is anything like an ugly vagina. Your vagina is very beautiful and attractive the way you've described it. Same goes for all other vaginas. So don't stress.

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