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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How do I make him care?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4661 days ago

12 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been dating my boyfriend for almost 19 months and we've had our share of ups and downs. Recently, we have been in a spot where it's not really good nor bad. I'm crazy in love with him and he generally makes me really happy. But the other half of the time I feel ... (227 words)

Why is my B/f trying to make me feel guilty when he is the one at fault?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4664 days ago

12 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - About 5 days ago,I hung up on my boyfriend due to his behavior.He was intoxicated, not nice with his comments etccc...He hurt my feelings by the way he was acting so I hung up on him. 2 days ago,I had cooled off and felt guilty to hang up on him so i texted him ( btw..he had ... (284 words)

What's up with this attraction to a historical figure?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4664 days ago

12 February 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Is it possible to be in love with someone who has been dead 67 years? I have recently seen a picture of someone who died at the age of 18 during the holocaust and ive found myself pining for him. i cant seem to let him go. what is this?... (50 words)

Is it reasonable to be angry about this behaviour from the baby-father?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4664 days ago

12 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so I have a one month old baby. Me and the father were debating on getting back together and becoming a family when out of nowhere he texts me and says my son is about to have a little sister. The other woman only has 4 months to go until she gives birth. That was ... (212 words)

Is my ex jealous that I have met someone else?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4664 days ago

12 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Is my ex boyfriend jealous that i have met someone else?. The guy i am currently dating is a lot older than me, but me ex is a bit younger than me. My ex sent me a text message saying " The old dirty b*****d can have you. I wash my hands of you ", and my ex said that he wants ... (186 words)

What do you think of older adult virgins?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4665 days ago

12 February 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - I have to admit I am a little over 40 and still an adult virgin. I am a little naive and socially awkward guy but I believe that being a virgin for so long, that I probably have shot myself in the foot, figuratively dating wise with any future woman. I think I can work... (124 words)

Why am I not enough for him? Why is he active again on those dating sites?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4655 days ago

12 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, I need some advice and I hope you can help me. Me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 years now. We've had our ups and downs, but for the most part (at least in my mind) it's been good. I've enjoyed spending time with him and he's always made me laugh. I've love... (394 words)

How do I know for sure that she likes me more than friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4662 days ago

12 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my close friend are both bi. We are pretending to date but have done stuff with each other in the past. I like her more than friends and feel that she feels the same. By the way she acts and flirts with me. She has told me before that she would date me but she fears it ... (82 words)

Why should I feel guilty over leaving him for a guy that loves and respects me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4665 days ago

12 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so first a little background story. I met this guy through my sister, and all she did was speak great things about him. He had wanted to go out with her when he met her but she didn't like him, she liked his friend. So when I went to visit her she decided to hook us up. ... (895 words)

Boyfriend is leaving for the Navy

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4664 days ago

12 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years. We are both in our early 20's and in a very serious relationship. He just joined the Navy a couple of months ago and is leaving for boot camp in August. I know that he will be assigned to a different city once he has completed ... (170 words)

Boyfriend having a hard time staying erect.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4664 days ago

12 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been seeing a guy for a couple months now. Everything is great and we have a great time together,he's very sweet and thoughtful. But there seems to be a problem in the sex department,which I have just recently found out. We were not sexually active until the past c... (472 words)

Should I contact my ex, who hurt me or wait for him to contact me?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4644 days ago

12 February 2012 (F)

age - I'm curious if any men out there ever wished they could get their ex back after leaving them for someone else and then a yr. or so later realized you had made a huge mistake or the one you hooked up with ended up dumping you? Were you too much of a coward or feared rejection ... (557 words)

I love her but she has a husband!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4665 days ago

12 February 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Need more help please advice my friend whom i love more than anything still hurting me. Me and my friend r coworkers. She was my schoolmates for two years but we don't know each other very much. when she joins she has a boyfriend who is going to marry someone else the... (508 words)

Do I suggest our St Valentines day outing first, or wait for her to text me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4664 days ago

12 February 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - So, I've been on two dates with a girl now, last week Sunday and Friday this week. The first was good, walk and coffee, last around 4 hours. Second we played snooker, then had dinner, Chinese, her favourite. I chose the second, she did the first date. We get along okay, I... (182 words)

My girlfriend is being distant

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4665 days ago

12 February 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I need help on what to do, My girlfriend is being distance I know she's usually quite distance anyway but more recently she's been more distance, she's at college while I'm at home. I don't suspect she's cheating as she isn't the kind to do that. It's just the fact I can n... (375 words)

I have fallen desperately for my ob-gyn

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4664 days ago

12 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I am 37 and gave birth to my second child by Cesarean Section 7 weeks ago. Ever since I came back home from the hospital, I have fallen desperately for my ob-gyn. I spend all the time thinking about him, dreaming about him and imagining myself with him. This is driving ... (429 words)

I never want to talk to my father again

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4663 days ago

12 February 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello, I need help very soon please xx. Ok before I get into this problem you need a back story. Ok my mom and dad split when I was two so I'm used to the two home lifestyle. I have a stepdad I had a stepmom. Her. The stepmom is the issue. I was an accident, my mom was 19 m... (302 words)

His balding is becoming such an obsession lately...how do I get him to embrace it?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4664 days ago

12 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been dating my guy for hitting 2 years now. I am 29, he is 35. His hair is thinning, just as it was when I first met him. It has become such an obsession with him over the last six months, and its driving me nuts. He has stopped going out socially and is convinced peop... (201 words)

Am I being scammed?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4664 days ago

12 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I need some advice or guidance with this problem.. I will explain the situation and why I feel worried now I met a Turkish man on Facebook (he is 37 and I am 35)and we have been talking for about 1 year 2 months. The conversations is usually about various world events, sp... (872 words)

How can I stop my father controlling me when I'm 18 and an only child?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4662 days ago

12 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. So simply as im going to put it... I'm 18. An only child still live at home Have a controlling father who yeah, you could say...im scared of... So, my father thinks he has the right to control me, given I still live at home... He thinks he has the right to... (249 words)

Feeling pressure to be straight

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4664 days ago

12 February 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi Agony Aunts! I think I'm gay and have thought that I am for over a year but I can't help feeling that I might be bi. The thing is I don't see straight porn attractive I see gay porn attractive I don't like boobs but I am slightly attracted to girls asses but I am att... (177 words)

I want to stop being infatuated with my friend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4664 days ago

12 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - First, a little about me: I'm 24 in university and one year ago I broke up a five year relationship. It was one of the best dcions I've made and I don't regret although I miss sex and kissing, especially that. I'm shy and don't really know how to deal with boys... I haven't ... (441 words)

Did my boyfriend ditch me, or am I completely overreacting?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4665 days ago

12 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Yesterday, I took lunch to my boyfriend of 6 months while he was at work. He mentioned catching a 7:30 movie, and that he would talk to me when he got off work. So, I assumed that we had a date, just like every Saturday night. Usually, we go out and then spend the night at his ... (593 words)

Is it too early to be discussing marriage and children?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4665 days ago

12 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years, we are 23 and have discussed moving in, but he says hes not ready yet and mayb in a year or 2. Also he says at the minute he doesnt want kids or marriage in the future. It is something i would probably want, but mostly I just want to ... (182 words)

I absolutely adore this lady but she says she feels no sparks. What do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4662 days ago

12 February 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - i've met this woman 8 months ago.we're both separated and get on brilliant.she has 4 wonderful kids and i have 1.at first we were friends and still are but i have strong feelings for her and she knows that.she even told me 3 weeks ago that she was falling for me big time,but ... (117 words)

How can someone so into sex go completely cold like the way my partner has?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4665 days ago

12 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Partner not interested in sex. At first he was all over me, told me I was beautiful, kissed me, hugged me wanted have sex often. I was always up for whatever he suggested. I'm not sure what happened but he stopped being interested and now its down to 'come on let's get on with ... (262 words)

I want to break up with my b/f and get back the money he owes me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4665 days ago

12 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I gave my boyfriend about US$3,600 when it was equivalent to GBP £2,000 few yrs ago. He abused me a lot verbally and mentally so I am thinking to break up with him. I want that money back but should I ask him in dollar or in pound? Coz if he converts GBP £2,000 its just about ... (86 words)

Boyfriend will believe rumors over what I say and it will cause a fight!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4665 days ago

12 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok so my boyfriend is getting out of jail this month and I've been right by his side the way thro it. Now there's rumors about me but the things their saying I never did. We broke up for 2 weeks then got back together. But while we were broken up me and this guy kissed and we ... (179 words)

Why did he regret kissing me? Why is he behaving in this manner?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4665 days ago

12 February 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello:) I've got a few questions, but first, here's a quick overview. Basically i'm almost 16 and i had my first kiss last weekend. It was at a party but the guy and i had been talking for about 3 hours, during which time i had tested him to make sure it wasn't... (325 words)

Should I give him a present for Valentine's Day?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4665 days ago

12 February 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - There's this guy called M whom I just met recently for the first time, introduced to me by a close female friend of mine called C. About a week later, I went out with C. C said that M told her that he likes me. Before she told me that I could somewhat tell that he like... (162 words)

Are we moving too fast?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4665 days ago

12 February 2012 (F)

age 22-25 - So me and my boyfriend have been together for almost two weeks. The other day, he said I love you. Now, this is only one of my many questions, but was it too early to say those three little words? Also, is it too soon for a first kiss? I'm 13 years old by the way. Please reply ... (62 words)

My feelings of love for her overwhelm me and even after so many years, I cannot stop loving her.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4665 days ago

12 February 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - i am in love with my cousin's wife. the thing is we all meet on the same day as soon as i saw her is like i went to heaven. now my cousin always been the player type u know get a bunch of different girls they end up liking him and he just splits. now i always been the timid ... (755 words)

Any tips to make sex go a little smoother?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4665 days ago

12 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend of six months recently tried to have sex..and failed. We didn't try for very long bit he just didn't fit.inside me. I don't know if it was just bad angles or am I to.tight?? Any ideas to make it go smoother?... (45 words)

I am against drinking but b/f has started to drink! How do I deal with this?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4665 days ago

12 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I was wondering, how much action i should take or not take with my boyfriend and alcohol. hear me out. I was raised in a very religious home, i have never even SEEN alcohol outside of TV/ads/in the store. In highschool, I never was around the kids that drank, in college,... (334 words)

Boyfriend doesn't answer phone or want to hang out with me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4666 days ago

12 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend barely wants to hang out with me. It was totally fine the first week we were dating but now he barely responds to my texts and doesnt answer his phone when I call but if I call off of someone elses phone he answers. Im kinda scared that he is gunna break up with me ... (89 words)

My gf cancelled our date last minute. Could this mean she doesn't like me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4665 days ago

12 February 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - This may be a stupid question but it's been on my mind all day. I've been dating this girl now for a little less than 2 months. Due to our busy schedules we have only gone on 4 dates so far but we communicate when we have time in between. Today was supposed to be our 5th da... (225 words)

B/f rarely gives me any time but yet when with his ex they were always together!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4653 days ago

12 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend has only had one previous relationship, and in this relationship he fell hard and fast. They were together all the time, but after a year they broke up and it absolutely devastated him. From mutual friends and himself I've heard it took him a very long time to ... (203 words)

My girlfriend is much more casual about sex than I am. Can we make this work?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4665 days ago

12 February 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - My girlfriend and I are both in our 40's and we are not virgins. However, she is much more experienced (I was in a relationship for a very long time) and has a much more casual attitude about sex than I do. I am really wary about sleeping with a girlfriend. I really have to... (283 words)

My sister-in-law is a cougar and I think it's unwise

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4664 days ago

12 February 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - My sister-in-law is a 43 year old single mom to an autistic son. He is now 15 years old. Now that he is getting older she is getting back into the dating scene. She has been divorced for more than 10 years now. Good for her, I think. The problem is that the guys she is ... (343 words)

Would it be okay to date my ex's friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4666 days ago

12 February 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I met a girl at a party of an ex-girlfriend. Me and my ex are on pretty good terms now, although it ended with her fooling around with my best friend at the time. I don't know if I should be too worried about the feelings of my ex, however I do worry about the impact on ours ... (141 words)

How can I pursue this relationship without going over the top and pushing the girl away?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4665 days ago

12 February 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I find myself becoming obsessed with certain women I date and I feel it always messes up anything that could be. I am in this situation right now again. I am 32 and a good looking guy. When I meet someone I am extremely attracted to I tend to think about (obsess) them all ... (224 words)

We had a date I broke it and now he's ignoring me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4665 days ago

12 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Basically, I've known this boy for months and i met him from a boy who i was seeing, the night i met him my best friend slept with him. About 7 months later, he messaged me on Facebook and we got talking and meeting up, i haven't told anyone this especially my best friend, but ... (198 words)

Huge family bombshell dropped..i don't know what to think!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4664 days ago

12 February 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, i'm 15, and when I was 13, my grandmother died of cancer. We found out a week before she died. She had a very, "i don't care. You wanna hurt me? You wanna kill me? I dare you." attitude. She was sometimes a bit cold, a bit mean to her daughter in laws, but regardless she ... (331 words)

Broke up messily now unsure what to do about the "bad pictures".

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4665 days ago

12 February 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey guyz My ex gf has kinda "bad" photos of me and i have some of her. We broke up on pretty messy terms because she cheated and lied about it but i feel really uneasy about her having those pictures. Should i keep hers archived, hidden on some disc in case she ever tries... (150 words)

He won't show me any affection but always wants sex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4665 days ago

12 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone- Me and my boyfriend of four years on and off are back on I guess. Here's the problem he doesn't want to hold hands or kiss me in public or infront of his friends just bc its " akword" to him. He shows me no affection at all unless were at my house alone. He wont ... (188 words)

I like my best friend's younger brother and he likes me too, but my friend knows nothing about it.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4665 days ago

12 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - hi. i am haveing a little trouble with this. i like my best friends little brother and he like me too. i am going on 20 and he is a year and a month younger then me. i met my best friend when we were 15 and her brother has liked me since then and i started liking him when i was ... (118 words)

The Contraceptive Implant

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4661 days ago

12 February 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - Hello, me and my gf are both 16 and i would like to ask a few questions about the contraceptive implant on her behalf, i have researched a wee bit so i know a bit about it, i would just like to know the answers to a few questions i couldnt find an answer for. Her mum is ver... (193 words)

Did he ask me out for a date on Valentines Day because he likes me? I'm anxious about it.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4666 days ago

12 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Today I went to lunch with this guy that I like, he asked me out on valentines day but I am very anxious about it. I've been on one date with him, well if you call it that since it was casual. But I'm not sure if i'm supposed to get him something, or arrange anything? Also,... (95 words)