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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Boyfriend posts pornographic photos "girls of the week" I don't like it!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4661 days ago

21 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend posts up photos of porn girls and promo models in weekly blogs that he makes for his gaming group and stating that they are "his girls of the week." I find this so disrespectful towards me but is this over reacting? He claims the gaming group keeps pushing hi... (85 words)

His premature ejaculation is sexually frustrating me! What can we do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4673 days ago

21 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I feel sexually frustrated because of my boyfriend's premature ejaculation problems. I feel like I'm not allowed to be upset about it because he's the one with the problem and I get that but now, after two years of this, I find myself bursting into tears at the end of our ... (684 words)

Oral sex saved for a special occasion?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4686 days ago

21 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend has been asking me to give him oral sex for a little while, and I finally brought up the courage to do it for him the other day. It was spontaneous and romantic and everything I imagined it to be. Since then, He has asked me a couple of times about doing it a... (201 words)

Am I gay?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4687 days ago

21 February 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - Well my problem is im 16 and male and think i like guys because whenever im with my friend "aaron" i feel attracted to him and when we were getting changed for PE i got an erection when i saw him in just his boxer shorts. Am i gay? And if so how could i go about getting with ... (65 words)

I don't want a repeat of my last visit to Russia to meet my ex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4686 days ago

21 February 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - HI, I recently went back to russia to visit an ex girlfriend and her family. The last time i was there was 4 and a half years ago and she actually dumped me after 24 hours of arriving.I left early and came home. I forgave after a time and her family always kept in touch. I... (273 words)

Why can't I get this guy out of my head? Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4685 days ago

21 February 2012 (F)

age - A mutual attraction developed between a man I used to work with. I left the company. He was one of the bosses. It has been nearly two years and I can not get him out of my head. I am continuously dreaming about him. It is as if my subconscious mind is taking me some where ... (341 words)

Is it possible to gain someone's trust back after they lost it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4686 days ago

21 February 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I have a friend, love interest, that has stopped trusting me after I messed up a lot of times. When I first liked him I was afraid of rejection so I pretended not to like him. I finally told him my true feelings when it was too late: when he had a girlfriend. He then rejected ... (310 words)

5 months dating is too early to say I love you, isn't it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4687 days ago

21 February 2012 (F)

- Me and my boyfriend have been together for 5 months now, and saturday night he told me he loved me, I didnt respond and he went quiet but then we said nothing about it since. The thing is I have thought that I am falling in love with him, I do have very strong feelings ... (95 words)

I should be happy in my life but unhappiness with job is making me depressed

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4687 days ago

21 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear cupid, I am hoping someone can help me with this issue. I'm nearly 28 and engaged to a fantastic guy, we live together. Ive completed uni and been in a great professional job since uni. Over the past 6 months or so i feel like my mood is gradually getting worse. I've... (486 words)

I'm crushing hard on this teacher even though I have a boyfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4683 days ago

21 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so for the past 5 months or so I have fallen very hard for one of my teachers. I have had little crushes on a few before and they always blow over without any problem, but this one hasn't. Right now I am 18 and only have three months left of High School. I do not have his ... (204 words)

How to take my dating relationship to the next level?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4687 days ago

21 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been on 5 dates with this guy recently. He really likes me and I really like him, but he said from the beginning he wants to take baby steps and I'm fine with that. I really would like to take our dating to the next the next serious relationship level but I don't know how ... (112 words)

New relationship - Am I being silly or what?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4675 days ago

21 February 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Good afternoon all, I will give you a little background regarding my situation. I'm in my 40s and met a wonderful man a couple of years younger back in November while walking my dog. We actually live on the same street and we have been dating "secretly" now for three months. ... (467 words)

Is it appropriate for a man to ask a woman if she is bowlegged while at work when it is in plain view?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4687 days ago

21 February 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - My lady and myself are engaged in a heated battle so I left and found this site while trying to remain cool. I love my lady but at times she acts as though she doesn't have a clue. My lady is bowlegged and it is very noticeable. Is it appropriate for a man to ask a woman if... (245 words)

My partner did badly in his audition and now I can see all of plans going down the tubes

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4687 days ago

21 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My partner has just auditioned for uni in the states and it went very badly. He is an amazing musician but the nerves ruined his audition and now he fears he has blown his last shot at a serious education and career in music. I am very sad about it as not only do i know he is ... (325 words)

Have I done the right thing by starting to cut my friend out of my life?

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21 February 2012 (F) age 36-40 - I have recently fallen out with a friend. We have been friends for years and lived together, but she has changed dramatically to an individual overwhelmed by stress and anxiety. I feel sorry for her, and have offered support and encouragment, tried to help her get back int... (275 words)

After 20 years, I am tired and leaning towards just getting the hell out of this relationship! Need advice badly!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4686 days ago

21 February 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello People! I am having a small dilemma that I cannot talk to friends or family about due to the nature of this situation...so I am relying on unbiased strangers opinions. Here we go... I have been with my significant other for 20 years. We are not married, have 4 chil... (1560 words)

I'm pregnant and am wondering what is causing the little 'flutters'?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4687 days ago

21 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 34 weeks pregnent, 35 on friday, and today ive noticed that at the top of my vagina, im getting types of little flutters, and alot more in my belly then normal, also getting a bit of back ache, ive also been told by family that i have dropped a little is this what is... (71 words)

I'm turning into a jealous, paranoid person verging on control freak! How do I deal with this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4685 days ago

21 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I don't know why but lately I have become extremely paranoid about a girl at work who happens to also be a friend of mine....I know I am being irrational but kind of just need to get it out there.... My boyfriend and I work for the same company and ages ago I introduced him t... (345 words)

Why is he backing away from me! Help me understand!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4686 days ago

21 February 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Basically, me and this guy, are close, and really good friends. But like, he's admitted that we're more than friends. And we both say we love each other and he calls me names like 'beautiful' or 'sexy'. And I say stuff back too. The other day he kissed me, and now I'm just ... (170 words)

I hate the girl I love, so why do I love her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4686 days ago

21 February 2012 (M)

age - I am crazy about a girl but I also kind of hate. I have been single for 1 and a half years but I really like this 1 girl but in a way I hate her. She is a slag, she is cheating on her current boy friend she is can be mean and she never is single always seems to have a boy ... (114 words)

I want to lose weight the right way...any suggestions?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4686 days ago

21 February 2012 (F)

- Hi Everyone, I am 5 4 and 34 years old. I am a bit overweight for my height and frame. I've recently visited the doctor and he's definitely said that I need to lose at least 40 pounds in order to be at my ideal weight. I am almost 180lbs at the moment....I don't look bad..... (187 words)

She texts me all the time but she has a bf....I find this odd. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4684 days ago

21 February 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - hi guys,after 4 years i meet a highschool friend(female) in my college. she got admitted newly. i know she has a bf,when i asked her, she admits it too. she started texting me,we become close now. during our school days, we never talk to each other. now we text each other ... (196 words)

He seems off with me...is it because I live far away?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4686 days ago

21 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Well me and this guy have been talking for a while, the distance is a bit far (an hour), he seems so sweet and just so perfect! he also said that to me too! problem is, is that we've never met.. he texted me the other day saying 'i feel like we have a connection between us' and ... (180 words)

My girlfriend kissed one of our friends when we were on a break, I can't get over it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4687 days ago

21 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - hi there, please give me some advice i'm so upset! long story short, we had been together nearly 2 years. me and my girlfriend broke up in november, i broke up with her because she told me to go and die and showed me no respect. we were trying to work through it and it was ob... (248 words)

Should I ask my ex out on a date? I don't want to do it too early but don't want to wait till its too late!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4682 days ago

21 February 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Ive been broken up with my ex gf for about a month and a half and i miss her so much. she was the one who ended it because she had a guy she met and i guess you can say she got a crush on him. this happened to me as well a few years ago but i never acted upon it because i know ... (655 words)

Would most girls run away if they knew I had never been in a relationship at 27?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4687 days ago

21 February 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm curious as to what you women would think about a 27 year old guy who has no relationship experience and never had a girlfriend because he has experienced nothing but rejection, bad luck and simply didn't attract any interest from girls at all. The effort is there and I've ... (95 words)

If cheated on will the man suddenly find the woman sexually unattractive?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4686 days ago

21 February 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - If you made a mistake and was found out for cheating, can it make a man go from finding you very sexually attractive, into not finding you attractive any more? Can men change just like that? How do you pull them back? Any one ever been through this?... (48 words)

I'm being bullied at work by my boss who is also my husband!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4687 days ago

21 February 2012 (F)

- This sounds mad I know, but I am being bullied at work. The trouble is its my boss (who is also my husband) We have not been married long (6 months) and worked together for years before this and never had any trouble. I dont know what to do, he constantly makes me look an idiot... (134 words)

Our relationship was always a secret so her friends think I've been stalking her for 5 years! Despite this I know if it was all in the open I know it would have worked, what should I do?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4685 days ago

21 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend of 5 years walked out a few weeks ago. The reason was because after 5 years of her wanting to keep our relationship a secret, I told her we cant go on like this and in order for us to move forward as a couple we need to stop being a secret. Every few months she ... (351 words)

I want to break up with her, but I've never given her any indication that I have been unhappy. How do I approach this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4687 days ago

21 February 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello agony aunts, I'm in a bit of a bind. I've been dating a girl for a year now and everything has been going pretty well.... from her perspective. When we started dating I noticed she was incredibly quiet. I'm a very talkative person, so her silence made me uncomfort... (557 words)

I think he masturbated on me thinking I was asleep!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4684 days ago

21 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi... My boyfriend courted me for almost three months (said he's okay with it and he's glad to wait). I told him that if he ever break my trust, I'd break up with him. I also told him that I don't want to break my family's reputation because my father is one of the head of a... (303 words)

I feel I am trying harder than he is, and all this 'engagement' will ever be is just talk...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4687 days ago

21 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I are constantly coming up against obstacles in our path to engagement and marriage. I am frustrated to the point where I want to give up on the relationship and rather start over. We're LDR, he has to take a pay cut so I can't leave my job to go and live with... (365 words)

Will asking about his past open a can of worms?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 4684 days ago

21 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi there, I've been in a relationship for 6+ months, and all is going well. We are happy. We never talk about past relationships, we are both quite guarded people and are slowly opening up more over time. He has a lot of female friends. Which has been fine and has caus... (265 words)

My husband is taking strange vacations. Why is he acting the way he is?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4687 days ago

21 February 2012 (F) age 51-59 - hello am married for going for 19 years he is working in australia for going 6 years i feel he dry to me any more i mean he does'nt talk to me, and he take vacation in the philippines some picture he bring is this picture hes girl?an why he has phone book number like gand ... (113 words)

Why am I having so much trouble dating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4687 days ago

21 February 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi I'm 16 and for some odd reason I can't get a girlfriend I have good grades I'm not a nerd I play football I try asking them out and the always say "no" or "I'm not ready" then like a few weeks later there dateing someone else and or if they are dating me they cheat on me ... (61 words)

Could my baby look like my lover?

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 3041 days ago

21 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - If a woman is pregnant and sleeps with another man can the baby have features of the man who is not the father?... (23 words)

I know he is not having an affair, but I don't understand what is going on

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4687 days ago

21 February 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, I have been in a relationship for just over four years now , I have been engaged and split , married and divorced with 2 kids one of them leaving home in sept for universaty my other son suffers from ADHD and autism . My partners sons to his 20yr marriage which ended after ... (316 words)

Is this kind of behavior inappropriate for a married man? Does it mean he is attaracted to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4687 days ago

21 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Extremely confused by this older married man!? There is this man at my work who is constanly flirting with me. He is about 20 plus years older than me, I am only 22. We do not work together but cross paths a few times a week or more. I have known him for nearly 6 months now. ... (272 words)

Any kind of sexual activity leaves me exhausted, in pain, or both

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4687 days ago

21 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My current bf and I were each other's first sexual partners. In the four years since then, he's gotten skilled at making me feel amazing. Myself on the other hand, well,any kind of sexual activity leaves me exhausted, in pain, or both. Blowjobs make me gag after just two inch... (132 words)

Boyfriend knows I don't like his foot fetish but he doesn't care

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4686 days ago

21 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I am having a hard time wiith my bf watching foot fetish videos. He knows that it bothers me but he still seems not to care. I find myself upset and almost jeoulous that videos can turn him on in a way I can't. I am willing to try almost anything to be his focus in this ... (174 words)

Boyfriend has almost no sex drive and I have too much of one!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4687 days ago

21 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - In the beginning of my relationship my bf used to masterbate and actually have the urge to do so, but we ended up having a problem cause I would want sex later that day that he masturbated so he then had no interst in sex at all and this would kind of hurt me that I could not ... (322 words)

Should I risk our friendship by telling him of my feelings?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4685 days ago

21 February 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I have had a crush on this guy for the longest. We have been texting thing is I always am I first one and he replies and we text for hours. Looks like he enjoys and I think he flirts a lot with me. We had a bowling date but he couldn't make it so he apologize and we had to ... (132 words)

Do you think I'm still hanging on to the "what if" fantasy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4682 days ago

21 February 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - So dear Cupid... I used to be really great mates with this guy at my school when we was about 14/15 now that we are older and he has moved on to find trashy mates we don't see each other at all and I'm not sure if I'm feeling abandoned or betrayed or what ever but I can't get ... (341 words)

The more I do for him the less I get back. Is it time to leave him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4687 days ago

21 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - So for the last few months I been doing all these nicce things for my boyfriend like cooking and cleaning for him and I never even got a happy valentines day, I have told him a gift or something nice would be appeciated once and a while. He knows I have been stressed out ... (169 words)

Why was anal sex so comfortable for my wife but now its not?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4687 days ago

21 February 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I always fantasized about anal sex, and my wife used to give me a little anal, which kept me happy. But things have changed and I don't know what to do. Lets go back in history. Before our marriage, she told me that she wanted to save her vaginal virginity for the weddin... (473 words)

Is he still interested in me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4687 days ago

21 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been talking to a guy for a week now- 7 days. He was texting a lot and then we went out on a date saturday. It went well- there were laughs and flirtation. He drove me home and we text that night and throughtout the day sunday (facebook and text). But Monday, Ive had a ... (70 words)

How to actually deal with insecurities from a horrible past breakup?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4687 days ago

21 February 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Dear agony aunts... I need some practical advice on how to deal with insecurity rooted in past relationship rejection. My last relationship ended because my ex-girlfriend abruptly broke up with me. This literally was a case of "I love you" in the morning, to "I think we n... (759 words)

I'm 13 and have a controlling boyfriend. My friend say I can do better than him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4687 days ago

21 February 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - So.. Ive been with my boyfriend for 6 months.. And..im not trying to be concieted or anything but.. Im one of those pretty girls alotta guys like..im 13 and i dont rrally understand how love goes.. I thought i did ..but it led me into something i dont know if i wantto ne a part ... (166 words)

At what point would I be 'settling' versus being 'too picky' in this relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4687 days ago

21 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - How do you know when you are "Settling" in a relationship vs. "Being too picky". Both will get you in the end. "settling" for someone or a relationship in general that can't or won't meet your basic needs will leave you lonely, and unsatisfied opening the door for all kind... (689 words)

Wow! Cheated on twice in a row

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4686 days ago

21 February 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I am devastated to say the least. The guy I have been dating for the last year, I found out was cheating on me. I know that these things happen, but it seems like they are happenening to much TO ME! I don't know what I'm doing wrong? In a nut shell... I am 39, a success... (474 words)

We are both divorced. Originally intended to stay that way. How do I how bring up "marriage" as an option?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4687 days ago

21 February 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been dating a man for a year and we live together. We are very happy and love and respect each other the problem is we are both divorced and when we first met we both said we never wanted to get married again. I now feel like I would love nothing more then to be his wife... (76 words)

I'm worried not attending nasty sister's wedding could cause more problems in the family

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4687 days ago

21 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Will try and make this short. I've been married for 12 years. My husbands younger sister has always disliked me. I tried to build a bond with her early and had her as a bridesmaid in our wedding and she also lived with us prior to that so she could study. Whilst livin... (319 words)

I need to tactfully deal with this situation

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4687 days ago

21 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I have known this woman for a few years as our kids attend the same pre-school and school. During pre-school this woman would never give me the time of day or even acknowledge me ( I didnt really care ) Then 2 years later our children started school together so we ha... (437 words)

Am I actually in a good relationship for once??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4687 days ago

21 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - So my boyfriend and I have been together for about 6 months. It feels like we are settling into a "comfort zone" of sorts. Not in a bad way, I don't think, but I just want to get advice on if what's been happening are good signs that the relationship is indeed heading wher... (379 words)

What's his deal? He got cold feet and decided he wanted both me and the other girl. Is he commitment phobic?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4687 days ago

21 February 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I was dating this total sweetheart. He seemed to be everything I ever wanted in a guy and then some. However, we broke up a few months ago. He began dating another girl immediately but kept in contact with me, and eventually dumped the other girl so that he could be with me ... (151 words)

He's restless and he never tells me if he likes me. Is he Bf material or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4687 days ago

21 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I like this guy but I dont know if he likes me? When I told him I liked him he never told me if he like me. What bugs me is when we chill together he nenver talks but on the phone he constantly talks. The only time he talks a lot in front of me is when someone else is in the ro... (102 words)

My husband seems to be more interested in other activities that take him / his time away from me

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4687 days ago

21 February 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been married for almost eight years. We've had ups and downs but not quite like the down we are going through now. My husband seems to be more interested in other activities that take him / his time away from me. I do not think hes cheating as much as I feel like he just ... (214 words)

How to deal with my son's inappropriate actions?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4687 days ago

21 February 2012 (M)

age - Normally I am a very proud father who tries to stay out of my grown kids business but after a recent family vacation / wedding I am disappointed in my sons actions. My son Ryan is 23 yrs old and has been dating his gf Jill (20) for alittle over a year now. They live out of town ... (301 words)

I can't let go and I'm scared I never will

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4687 days ago

21 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey agony aunts.... I pray someone out there can help.. My ex and I broke up four years ago just after uni - it was a 4 year relationship. It was a messy breakup - he ditched me saying he wanted to be on his own and then I found out a week later he had actually started ... (193 words)

Why would she do all this texting, Christmas present, chatting, etc when I have been avoiding her and not returning the same to her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4687 days ago

21 February 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - I was dating a girl from work for about 8 months last year, but finished with her in December. The relationship was an emotional rollercoaster to say the least, but the last straw for me was receiving a text from her saying she was going on holiday with her friends and was at ... (716 words)

Is there something going on between my ex and one of our friends?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4687 days ago

21 February 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Arghhhhh! I need someone to calm me down a bit!!! My thoughts are running away with me and i'm totally freaking out!!! I'm trying to get over my ex at the minute, and it's going well so far, apart from this one thing that's literally torturing me!! Try and keep this sh... (349 words)