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What could my parents do legally to my 19 year old boyfriend?

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8 June 2011 (F age 26-29 - I'm 15 years old 16 in a month, my boyfriend is 20. We had sex when he was 19. I got pregnant but he's been by my side through it all, my parents knew his age and never complained. Until recently when we told them that he will soon be getting a place of his own and that me and ... (138 words

Would my ex be hanging around giving me hope if he's with someone else?

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8 June 2011 (F age 41-50 - My ex boyfriend of 2 yrs broke it off with me n april..bcuz he couldn't stand my past..(cheated on my ex husband with 2 of my ex husbands friends 8yrs ago) and secondly I wuz txtn with another guy to prove to him I wuz no longer a cheater and I wuz worthy of his trust... the ... (427 words

How to forgive myself afTer an affair?

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8 June 2011 (F age 36-40 - I'm feeling so confused and remorsefull I'm hoping soneone can help me come to terms with my emotions. A month ago I dumped my married lover, I changed my number/email etc but he still turns up at my house, my sons school, leaves notes on my car, flowers etc. The reason we ... (282 words

He sees my body but doesn't show me his!

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8 June 2011 (F age 36-40 - I am currently in a new relationship with the guy I have been interested in for quite some time. We have been friends for almost a year now but have been dating for only two months. Things are going great apart from a possible sexual tension. We live miles apart and because I ... (264 words

I always feel like talking to him...but I think it'll only just hurt me more.

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8 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - About back in January, my ex boyfriend that lived 2 hours away dumped me because of the distance and the drive to where I lived..or so he said. We we're together for 3 months, we were so amazing for each other, we had the best of times, and it ended on good terms. I don't hate ... (997 words

We are such good friends but should we try to date?

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8 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - I am a girl and my best friend is a boy. A few years ago me and him never used to get on, we used to hate each other. But it's become in the last few years that we've gotten on so well! I've never really found him strongly attractive, and I still don't but I love his ... (385 words

Sex and spotting while on BC?

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8 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - Okay so I'm on birth control this is my 2 month and I'm on my 3rd week of my 2nd month but I'm spotting.. I've not missed any pills since starting but I don't always take them at the same time like I'll take it at 11 for two days the the 3rd day I'll wake up and take. It at 12 ... (80 words

Is it worth it to try a LDR again?

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8 June 2011 (F age 26-29 - I got speaking to this lad that i really like, we was speaking for a year then i finally got with him however we only lasted 6 months as the distance was too far. I live in leeds and he lives in birmingham. He recently asked me back out, and i would love to say yes its just the ... (116 words

Afraid of gotten my girlfriend pregnant by rubbing my finger that had touched my penis with pre-cum on it on her vagina. Please Help !

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8 June 2011 (M age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I were fooling around. I became excited and some pre-cum came out of my penis. I remember touching it and then rubbed my girlfriend's vagina afterwards multiple times. Her period won't start till the end of this month. What's the possibility that she's getting ... (150 words

I've loved my friend for 9 years but am afraid to tell him

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8 June 2011 (M age 30-35 - i love my male friend since atleast 09 years but i can't expose my heart feelings to him. when i see him i get frighten and nervous and also he is not so close to me. i think all time about him and can do anything for him what should i do? please give me a good suggestion ... (59 words

Allergic to latex..would sheep skin work?

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8 June 2011 (F age 26-29 - i am allergic to laytex and was wondering if anyone knew of some brand names of sheepskin condoms i could get :S and also, what are the cons of sheep skin? i dont fully know :S... (36 words

Part Two of "my girlfriend treats me badly and I'm starting to have feelings for her friend, what do I do?

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8 June 2011 (M age 30-35 - Ok i had written a problem before but i forgot to mention some stuff. Ok to begin with, ive been with my girlfriend 1 1/2 years, i feel under appreciated. She doest show effort, love. talks to her friends more easliy than she does with me. She has ignored me for her friends. We ... (393 words

I feel like something is stopping me from losing weight even thought husband wants me to!

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8 June 2011 (F age 41-50 - We've been married for 11 yrs, dated for 2 yrs. Ive always been very possessive about him. He lived it initially and later it started bothering him. I never liked him going out wit female coworkers for lunches or any other weekend group activities. Ive always told him to keep ... (296 words

G/f of 9 years cheated and says she doesn't know why!

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8 June 2011 (M age 51-59 - my gf of 9 years cheated on me and says she doesnt know why she did it, we have a 3yr old daughter together own a house, 2 vehicles and 2 buisness together. i feel very betrayed but how can i just up and leave with everything we have together. she says it was the biggest ... (126 words

Any suggestion on how to raise my status with the people I know?

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8 June 2011 (M age 30-35 - I made a really good friend at university. he was the first person I came out to, but in the last few months he's been off me and hanging around with someone else. I don't think he's become friends with this other person because of me, but because of this other friendship it's ... (255 words

BestFriends or Bf and Gf?

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8 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - Hi, I guess I should start at the beggining. I am a girl at 16 years old I went out with a boy who I'll call Simon (not his name) around a year ago but after a few months we got bored and broke up (which is understandable as we are teenagers (Well thats what my mum sa... (215 words

Should I tell my college room mates that I am gay?

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8 June 2011 (M age 30-35 - Ok, So Here I come again for some advice. Ok, So I'm 19 yrs old, a gay guy: I'm going to be attending college this fall. And well, I may be living on campus. But I dont know what to expect from all of this, since this is going to be the 1st time I'm going to be living in a ... (222 words

How do I know if my feelings toward pregnancy are normal?

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8 June 2011 (F age 36-40 - I am 25 years old right now going to be 26 years old this year, All 4 of my Best friends have Kids, and so i am a bit Confused about how i feel on wanting to have Kids, I feel scared when i think of me being Pregnant, I mean like i am confused on if i am Ready or not, also i ... (128 words

How do I get my boyfriend and brother talking?

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8 June 2011 (F age 26-29 - I have been with my boyfriend for over a year now, i get on well with all his family, but im finding it hard to get my boyfriend and my brother talking. Any suggestions? ... (34 words

Tired of getting snubbed by those around me. What can I do?

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8 June 2011 (M age 30-35 - I made a best friend at university. But now it's like he's been stolen from me and looks at me differently. I was best friends with him for months, but a while back he started hanging around with someone else in my halls and now it's all about them. Everyone sees them as joi... (217 words

No Sex - is he cheating?

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8 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - My bf and I have been dating for six months now. He is 25 and we have never had sex. What are the chances that he is cheating?... (29 words

I'm so heartbroken, and I don't know if he was telling the truth

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8 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - I met my ex-bf in a somewhat unusual way in July of last year. Because of the situation I really felt as though fate had brought us together; we were absolutely perfect for each other (and I truly mean that), and after about a month I couldn't even imagine my life without him. ... (305 words

Why do girls string guys along?

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8 June 2011 (M age 30-35 - Girls, why (or why not) would you string a guy along, long after you've been broken up and while in a relationship?... (22 words

Torn between guys!

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8 June 2011 (F age 26-29 - Im torn between 2 guys the first guy i have known since secondgrade and we have been a off and on again couple since 5th grade. I still have strong fellings for him and we have been broke up since september. The second guy i met this year and we have been in a strong ... (148 words

Using family in order to get closer to your ex?

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8 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - Why would someone befriend your sibling in order to get closer to you although you aren't interested in him/her anymore? The other part about it is that the sibling isn't aware of the ulterior motive of the other person; in fact, the sibling thinks that the other person is ... (76 words

Does he only stare at me because I stare at him, or does he actually like me?

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8 June 2011 (F age 26-29 - Hey everyone! So i'm in love with a guy who's in my school.. The first time we saw each other was in the city. I was walking with my friend when i saw him, so i whispered too her that he's cute. She looked at him then looked away, but i kept staring at him. He looked at me as... (348 words

What should I do? My marriage is falling apart.

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8 June 2011 (M age - Married 45 yrs-I can`t do anything right for wife anymore..No sexual relations now for 2 years--I`m not interested !! We constantly argue over unimportant things. I've tried very hard to keep the marriage going but I`m losing any motivation to go on... 1. Nobody else invo... (78 words

What should I do about my stingy boyfriend? We are to be married.

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8 June 2011 (F age 36-40 - Hi all, my bf and i have been dating consistently for 4 years now. I'm just a bit concerned and scared that he might be stingy. I'm not been ungrateful or whatsoever, but i really need to set things right before we get married. He hardly assists me financially, except when i ... (105 words

My BF gave a girl a wedgie and I got upset. Was I wrong?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4951 days ago

8 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - Is it ok for me to get upset that my boyfriend gave 1 of his friends that are girls a wedgie? I know its sounds kinda stupid but i don't like that he put his hands down her pants an touched her underwear and pulled em up?... (47 words

I had a distrurbing dream. What could it mean?

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8 June 2011 (F age 41-50 - Even though this isn't a relationship question, I would like to know if anyone knowledgeable is willing to help me interpret a very vivid dream I had recently. I dreamed that I saw two formidable looking snakes. I was standing by my front door and they slithered, side ... (174 words

I believe I am doing the right thing, but would like reassurance.

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8 June 2011 (F age 26-29 - Hello everyone, I recently posted a problem about how the internet conversations with this boy I met briefly were getting a little serious, and how I was confused being only 15 and getting myself into a silly situation without realizing it. Anyway I told him I wasn't sure wh... (466 words

Is it wrong to break up with a friend because you find their way of life offensive?

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8 June 2011 (F age 41-50 - It seems like to be a good friend means to be supportive. And we are all told we should not be judgemental. But what happens if a friend has habits you find offensive and which go against your value system? Are you a terrible person if you want to distance yourself from him... (412 words

Bf broke up with me, and then says he'll take me back...but only in 2 years?! What's THAT about?

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8 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - Hey.. I really need help.. I have been with this guy for 6 and a half months, we decided to have sex for the first time, and we did it a couple of times, then this one Sunday we did it and we were happily in love then on Monday he broke up with me. He had other reasons to but m... (148 words

My ex-gf told me she just wanted to be friends, and then got mad when I kissed another girl!!

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8 June 2011 (F age 36-40 - SO after my girlfriend not knowing what she has wanted for a month and taking a break with me she hates me now. Last Friday we were at a bar and she came up to me and told me she didn't want a relationship and she wanted to be just friends. My heart hit the floor and I got ... (232 words

How do I get over my past bad relationship experiences so I don't ruin my current one?

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8 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - Hiya, I've been in some bad relationships. I am only young (17) but I've been used, cheated on etc. Now I'm with someone who is different (I think!) and I've been with him for a while. Thing is my past relationships have really ruined it for me. I'm so jealous of any girl he ... (230 words

How can I ask my girlfriend to remove the unattractive hair on her forearm?

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8 June 2011 (M age 36-40 - How can I tell my girlfriend that I don't like the hair on her forearm. Is it too much to ask or inappropriate to request removing it?... (27 words

I just found out my husband had an affair with my friend 3 years ago. What do I do now??

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8 June 2011 (F age 41-50 - I just found out that three years ago my husband had an affair with a good friend of mine at the time. Back when it happened I had intercepted text messages between the two and confronted him about it at that point. He had admittedly said it was just texts and there was no ... (249 words

Am I safe from getting pregnant with a pill and if my bf wears a condom?

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8 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - I'm so scared about having sex that it's stopping me. I want to have sex with my boyfriend but my fear of pregnancy puts me off. I'm on the pill, we'd use a condom and i even said to him i might tell him to pull out early just to clear worries from my mind even more. ... (110 words

My gf is always so quiet and I have to be the one to initiatve conversation. Is there something wrong in our relationship?

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8 June 2011 (M age 36-40 - My girl friend doesn't talk so often. It is me always required to talk. If I'm silent then we are silent. Even when I invite her to talk things go bad. What should I do to make her communicative. Or is there any problem in our relationship?... (47 words

Why do I get sexually stimulated so quickly whenever I make out with my bf?

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8 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been together over a year and it's only been the last 4 months we've been sexually active. We've done everything but sex; masturbating each other, oral (inc. 69er). I just seem to get so horny as soon as we get in, he'll hug me or kiss me in a cer... (190 words

Is it normal to search the Internet for sexual content in my spare time?

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8 June 2011 (F age 26-29 - Is it normal if i have the tendency to search for sexual contents in the internet whenever I have spare time? I want to stop, as what I read or see keep popping out in my mind during my daily activities, but I just can't stop my "addiction". What to do?... (51 words

Husband of 15 years has just left me!

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8 June 2011 (F age 41-50 - Hi guys, I have just been left by my husband of 15 years and I have 3 kids with him. I am not coping very well, how am I going to get over him? Please, help me somebody! ... (38 words

I'm pregnant and sick of my boyfriend and his behaviour.

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8 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - hello everyone, I am 4 months pregnant and have a boyfriend currently living together, I am just getting sick of him constantly questioning me, having a high sex drive, just little things he does and people have said its just hormones but I felt like this before. I could ... (91 words

I have a boyfriend but I think I might have a little crush on another guy.

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8 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - So I have a boyfriend of almost a year. We're both 17 and he's my first ever boyfriend. We first became best friends before we finally got together. I love him soo much. He's my everything. The problem is I just started college and he hasn't yet. He's working at the moment ... (359 words

Boyfriend wants to have sex with other men saying that it's just sex

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8 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - Hello guys ... So, to start off directly, my boyfriend kind of asked for permission to cheat on me, if you can then still call it cheating ... and gave me this permission, too, which doesn't really interest me since I could never do this... The thing is, that I actually ... (253 words

He has a girlfriend but says he loves me, should I believe his words?

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8 June 2011 (F age 41-50 - I have been with a guy for 6 months now. When we met, it was supposed to be a one time sex thing. But we fell in love. I knew he had a girlfriend, she is 20 yrs younger than him. We recently had a talk about "us" and he begged me to stay with him and he will end it with her. ... (256 words

I still miss my ex and I am supposed to be meeting my new LDR boyfriend soon!

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8 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - It’s been 9 months and i still miss my long distance boyfriend… .i miss everything we had..i miss how it used to be..how he was my best friend and love in the same person..i miss the emotional closeness we had, i miss the care and understanding..i miss how perfect it was….... (145 words

He never wanted to be more than friends with me, and now he has a girlfriend I feel jealous and sad.

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8 June 2011 (F age 36-40 - I have this friend who was flirting with me for quite a long time, during which he has two girlfriends in different times and all end up breaking up. Complicated as it is, clearly we are attracted to each other. Recently we went out once and I asked him to hang out again ... (198 words

Was it wrong to give him her email? I'm feeling bad.....help..

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8 June 2011 (? age 36-40 - Hi friends...so this guy, who's my teachers friend, he kept asking about this girl who I know from my school but she doesn't know me. So I just asked him if he liked her. So he said yes. I gave him her email from facebook. Was if wrong. Because he had said he tought her piano. ... (126 words

My boyfriend is smoking weed everyday....Help!

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8 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - Ok so I have been with my boyfriend for nearly 3 years, I could not ever picture my life without him but for the past couple months/weeks he has been smoking weed/grass near enough every single day.. Every time he talks to me (texting) or even when he comes to pick me up he is ... (212 words

My boyfriend does not always say 'I love you too.' Should I be worried?

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8 June 2011 (? age 51-59 - Hi there. I tell my bf I love him a lot and he does not always say it back. He's like, well, I've said it, I dont need to keep saying it. He does tell me he loves me, just not that often. Sometimes I text him 'love you' and he does not text back. Should I be worried? I know... (80 words

Isn't this a little too serious a little too fast?

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8 June 2011 (? age 26-29 - My girlfriend freaks out every time someone comments on my photos on fb or writes on my wall. We've only been dating for about a week but whenever someone writes something on my wall or on a photo she panics and starts questioning me about it. She lives in Wales and I live in ... (165 words

How do I flirt with a very reserved man?

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8 June 2011 (F age 41-50 - Hi everyone ,can anyone give me some tips how to flirt with a very reserved man online ,also how can i tell if he likes me .He said i was a very nice person and i look good ,he asked me if i'm ok with emailing ,so i said yes ,he asks this question a lot . Thanks for reading ... (62 words

I'm not strong enough to get over her!

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8 June 2011 (M age 30-35 - I think you're all going to be sick of me by now :p Still, I'm really struggling to get over a girl atm, she's the one from my previous questions and I thought I'd managed to forget about her last week and finally found myself back on the mend. This week has been differ... (488 words

My mind is telling me to be with him but my heart is saying no...

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8 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - I just broke up with my boyfriend recently due to the fact that he's disrespectful, mistreats me, cheated 4 times while we were together, when we're having problems he doesn't want to talk about it, he either ignores me or get mad and tell me to shut up bc that's all i talk ... (533 words

Is my conscience is telling me to do something about my crush?

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8 June 2011 (F age 41-50 - For the past few weeks, I suddenly developed a crush on my class mate. I am especially attracted to his personality and how we share the same interests. This may sound out of the ordinary, but what made me notice him at first when we first met was after having a dream a... (277 words

Tips for dealing with stress?

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8 June 2011 (F age 36-40 - Hi there, I'm 23 and I'm looking for some tips to deal with stress because I'm really struggling to cope at the moment. My dad had a stroke last year and isn't doing to great, now his sister (my aunt) has had a stroke and two heart attacks last weekend. My best friend has ... (196 words

How can I make this playboy fall for me?

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8 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - How to make playboy fall in love with you? I love my friend. I am 16 he is 23.He is a playboy, he sleep with any girl. He told me that. But I still love him. He said that he can just keep a sexual relation with me. He cares for me.He is not forcing me.He said I can leave if I ... (121 words

Should I add him on Facebook? I feel if I don't do it now I'll always wonder what could have been....

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8 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - "He stares at me and at times avoids me. He told me before that he used to have a huge crush on me but i found out he had a girlfriend and stopped talking to him. He dumped his gf but didn't approach me because i kindof avoided him, not really meaning to but its just a defense ... (361 words

I am driving myself crazy being paranoid!

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8 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - Hey everyone. This has been troubling me a lot these past couple of days and I am seeking advice on how to deal with it. I am stressing myself out about my boyfriend cheating. I have no reason to believe he is, he is never defensive of his phone (I don't go through it anyways ... (230 words

How can I just be at peace with myself and enjoy this good relationship that I have?

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8 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - I feel like theres a constant battle about my relationship inside my head ever since the honeymoon phase ended. It's always about the same old thing: he has a good life: good friends, family, good balance between all aspects of life. I'm not so lucky. I don't have really good ... (388 words

It feels like I am making most of the effort in this relationship.....

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8 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for two years. We do not live together, but we go to the same uni. I feel like I need to see him more than he needs to see me. I think I initiate to spend time more than he does. He usually says yes when I ask, and that's great, but if I don't ... (206 words

How can I tell if my FWB is ever going to turn into something more?

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8 June 2011 (F age 41-50 - I have known this wonderful guy for four years. He always was so nice and made me laugh, both were in relationships at the time. But for the last four n half months we have been making hot passionate sex with kissing and cuddling and spending the night together every weekend. ... (200 words

When is it the correct time to ask a girl out before they say "we are just friends"?

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8 June 2011 (M age 30-35 - i have fallen into this situation many times. i always meet new girls and well i get to know them but then when i ask them out they say that im just a friend. is it because i know them to much? when is the correct time before i get in the "friend zone"?... (55 words

Am I doing the right thing?

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8 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - Hi! I just recently graduated from High school last month. Before I graduated I made an agreement with my parents about college. I told them I didn't want to go to college right after high school. So we agreed on me not going till the Spring. I want to have the time to well ... (100 words

Is it wrong for me to read these books even though I'm technically more pure then most girls my age?

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8 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - Hello! I'm going to get straight to the point and not beat around the bush. I'm a 18 year old virgin and I love to read romance novels. Not just the nice sappy ones, I like to read the sexy intense one with wild sex in them. I love historic novels the most. I was wondering if ... (119 words

I'm angry at her for replacing me so soon!

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8 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - So, just to let you know that this is gonna be long... My ex girlfriend had just broken up with me recently(about a month in a half ago) and we decided to be friends..well best friends, but then she started dating someone else a month after we broke up, which really hurts me ... (243 words

Should I risk losing this guy to find a 'better' one just because I'm bored?

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8 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - I have been in a great relationship for over 2 years, but I am getting so incredibly bored. This is by far the longest relationship I've been in, but usually I drop the guy for a new and exciting one after only a month or so. I now find myself considering doing the same thing ... (141 words

I saw my boyfriend kiss another girl!

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8 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - i saw my bf kiss another girl but he conntinues to kiss and hug he, but im not sure what i should do because i know he loves me but after i saw that im now not so sure. we have been going out for 3 years and he made me wear a promise ring that i wouldnt cheat on him and i dont ... (79 words

Can anyone advise me on how to deal with my godmother, who is constantly bombarding me with emails, calls and facebook messages?!

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8 June 2011 (F age 41-50 - Can anyone advise me on how to deal with a family member who is constantly bombarding me with emails, calls and facebook messages?! My godmother is in her 40's and since she signed up to facebook she has been more of a nuisance than ever. She lives in another city from... (598 words

How do I communicate better with people?

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8 June 2011 (M age 30-35 - Hi. I am 19 and finished my first year at university. I always thought I was shy because I never talked to anyone, but now I realize that I am not shy - just boring... I have met a few good people at school this year that I am friendly with. The problem is i NEVER have any... (164 words

My girlfriend treats me so badly I have started having feelings for her friend.....what should I do?

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8 June 2011 (M age 30-35 - Hello, I am 17years old and have been dating a girl for about 1 1/2 years already. Since after our one year ann, things have not been as high as i expected. Ok i feel under-appreciated, and feel like a third wheel when around her friends. I mean cmon, i try to be the perfect ... (382 words

Is he using me?

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8 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - I like this guy so much and i think he likes me too but i'm still not sure, we flirt a lot and every time he got a chance, he would come over and talk with me. He loves to tease me, he always text me on MSN and stuff like that. The other day when we were spending the afternoon ... (187 words

I'm going to be living with her next year and I want to tell her how I feel, but I don't want it to become awkward.....plus she has a boyfriend!

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8 June 2011 (M age 30-35 - I'm not sure what to do about a girl i like, it's quite complicated but i'll try to keep it short. I'm at university and have been for a year, there's a girl i really like, we're pretty close friends and i'm living in the same flat as her next year. I think it's quite o... (246 words

I think my parents already know I'm gay but I'm not sure, how do I approach them about this?

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8 June 2011 (M age 26-29 - I'm a 15 year old, male, homosexual and I'm still in the closet. Here lately I feel this erg to come out to my parents but yet haven't because I fear how they will react. I love my parents dearly but honestly we have never been close and they are not very supportive of me and ... (217 words

My ex threw away 7 yrs. of our life & what we had built up for our future, for another girl, only to be deceiving her too!

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8 June 2011 (F age - How do I get over these angry feelings I'm having for my ex? It's been almost 13 mths. now since my ex left me after 7 yrs. together and shortly there after became involved with someone else. No explanation was given at the time other than he was unhappy. I do know now that ... (464 words

Is it possible he acts this way because he's a shy type of guy or that he's just not that into me?

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8 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - We talk often enough. We go to the same college but right now are in different cities because of internships. The only thing is is that I don't know how much he is into me because we'll have long conversations that can last hours but for the most part i'm the only initiating ... (106 words

Is he after 9 years growing apart? We love each other but what is going on?

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8 June 2011 (F age 36-40 - I have a problem, my bf and I have been together for 8 years going on 9 years. I'm currently going to school and he is to. we are both finishing school in a couple of months. Anyways, there was a time when he and I where very close. He would hug me, kiss me and want to be ... (557 words

So Many Messed Up Things About this Relationship. Please can I have some ideas on how to get over this?

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8 June 2011 (M age 36-40 - Hello all, I just broke up with my 17 yr old girlfriend. thats right, 17. I know most of you probably think im a scumbag but please hear me out. I dropped out of college in my junior year and moved to the east coast from way out west, and lets just say things are veerryy ... (1547 words

How can I get her step-father to accept the relationship?

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8 June 2011 (M age 26-29 - About a year ago me and my girlfriend got caught smoking weed, and we broke up, anyway i stopped doing drugs a few months after and a year later, we started dating again, but her parents won't let us see each other, her mom started warming up to me, but doesn't want us to hang ... (150 words

Confused about someone I'm beginning to like

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8 June 2011 (M age 30-35 - Greetings dear cupid, i am a male and 20 years old. I am very confused about someone i am beginning to like. The other problem is i have a girlfriend as well. It all began when my sister got back in contact with her old childhood best friend name Sarah. Sarah lived in the oppo... (650 words

What went wrong here?

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8 June 2011 (F age 26-29 - Okay, a few days ago (literally) me and my boyfriend broke up. We had been going out for almost a month but before we went out we'd had a a thing for almost two months though. He is having to go away for the entire summer to florida to live with his dad and he had said that ... (172 words

He's calling me less often, and I'm not feeling the connection

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8 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 10 months and he has started calling me less and it's driving me crazy! It began during my exam period (it's been 2 months now). He claims he was giving me space to do my own thing and that he's busy too with work. He used to call and... (229 words

How did we go from being the closest of friends, to nothing at all?!

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8 June 2011 (F age 36-40 - This guy from my town added me randomly on Facebook almost a year ago (I already knew of him so he wasn't a complete stranger) - we got talking, and would talk literally every night till the early hours of the morning for several months without fail. We met up a few months ... (368 words

She turned me down, but I still can't get over her. How can I move on? Complicating all this I am already in a relationship.

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8 June 2011 (M age 30-35 - I'm currently in a relationship with this girl, but I can't stop thinking about my best friend. I was, and still am deeply in love with her. It is stronger than anything I've ever felt. I already told her this a year ago and she already turned me down back than. Not so long ... (152 words

How do I take control? I'm feeling traumatised. My Bf just dumped me. He hasn't been supportive.

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8 June 2011 (F age 41-50 - Hi Need some help please as I just don't know which way to turn. My dad had a horrific heart attack a few weeks ago and we nearly lost him. He has just undergone surgery and I am pleased to say he is on the mend! However, in my time of need, my boyfriend wasn't there. We ha... (200 words

How can I convince her that I do truly love her a lot? She has doubts about me.

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8 June 2011 (M age 36-40 - Hey all i have a lovely girlfriend and we have been together for 2 months and recently she has been having doubts about me, for chatting to girls behind her back and flirting with girls. the thing is, i love her a lot and i show her my feelings all the time, i tell her what ... (345 words

Do you think we could have a chance? All of my friends think we should go for it

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8 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - What should i do? My friends keep throwing me at him, saying that we should go out or something. Everyone says that we'd be a perfect match. I mean, yes, i like the boy, but it annoys me when they tease. It makes both of us uncomfortable, although he takes care of it most of ... (644 words

I can't tell if my friend likes me in that way!

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8 June 2011 (M age 30-35 - I am bi and i am really confused,because i like a friend that i know a long time ago and i'm not sure if he likes me. It all started a couple years ago after an unsuccessful relationship with a girl and then i suddenly fell in love with him. He is not gay,because he likes girls ... (166 words

What do you think about my LDR, ex girlfriend?

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8 June 2011 (M age 36-40 - Well I have been with this, girl for almost three yrs now, and I'm not sure on really what she want's? She ask's for me back said she want's, to move on before but she can't, get over me. Why can't she get over me, I mean she said, she has wanted to move on before, did not talk ... (299 words

He's 15 years older, went through this age gap thing before, what should I do??

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8 June 2011 (F age 36-40 - Hi aunts and uncles ofcourse :) For 4 years I was with a man 17 years older than me, from the age of 16 until I was 20. I decided to end the relationship because it had ran it's course and i knew it would never be more than what it was.. I guess I grew up. I swore i would ne... (205 words

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