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Wife Said Top Fantasy Is Another Woman

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1 June 2011 (M age 51-59 - My wife and I were sharing fantasies. I thought mine were fairly normal and things we could do together. However, My wife's number 1 fantasy is sex with another woman. I was shocked! I am actually not part of any of her fantasies she listed. I think this is a very bad ... (70 words

Weed cost me my girl, what should I do now?

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1 June 2011 (M age 26-29 - Hello guys I'm in a bit of a dilemma here. I have met this girl at my local youth group and she's lovely and extremely beautiful and I found out she liked me and things went from there like flirting but not bf and gf then just recently I got caught in the wrong crowd and ... (179 words

Should I treat this as a non-issue or does he have other intentions?

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1 June 2011 (F age 36-40 - Hello Cupid! I've been separated from my ex-boyfriend for a little over two years now and we've known each other for over five years. We've both managed to move on and date other people as mutual friends even though it wasn't easy, we still maintain contact on an infrequent... (539 words

Running out of things to talk about need help!

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1 June 2011 (M age 41-50 - Ok so I've started seeing this woman who I really like a whole lot, we'll be going out again soon. The problem is its almost as if I'm running out of things to say. Does anybody have any conversation starters topics to discuss on your 4th or 5th date? ... (55 words

I am hooked on bad relationships

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1 June 2011 (F age 36-40 - I have a serious issue with relationships and commitment. I have had 17 sexual partners since i was 16(im 25 now) 3 of which were serious relationships. Well, that said, the first one was a serious relationship, he left an ex girlfriend for me and we eventually had a son ... (213 words

How do I get this creep to leave me alone at work?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4958 days ago

1 June 2011 (? age 36-40 - There's this guy at work who's pretty creepy and pervy. He's 32 and whenever a new, young girl starts here he immediately tries to get her number and says disgusting things about her. I've been working there for 4 years and for all that time he's been after me. I finish my sh... (380 words

Why would gay sex turn me on?

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1 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - I'm a bi-sexual, 21 year old female with a straight boyfriend of the same age and we've been together for a year. We're both open minded about watching porn and sometimes, we even watch it together. We find it's more educational for us and it spices up our sex life a little ... (179 words

How can I not care about receiving male attention.. when I'm so used to it!?

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1 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - Before i start, what i have said may sound cocky or sure of myself, but honestly i don't mean it like that. I just don't know how else to put it. When i go out in the evening, I normally get ALOT of male attention and like anybody else i love it! It's fun and makes me feel gr... (277 words

My relationships with men are abnormal, what is wrong with me?

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1 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - What the hell is wrong with me? I'm smart and pretty and I have confidence but when it comes to men i have some bad habits and I have no idea why. I crave male attention in an unhealthy way. I'm not slutty at all but I like to be noticed by men and I like to have a few ... (185 words

Feeling unwanted and depressed....

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1 June 2011 (M age 36-40 - I'm a 25 year old guy and seem to be terminally single. I've never so much as held hands or even kissed a girl let alone anything beyond that. I just don't get it. I hear from others that I'm a good looking guy. I stay fit, have a good sense of humor and get along with most ... (398 words

How to take it slow with ur ex bf...after being in a 2 yr relationship him

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1 June 2011 (F age 41-50 - How do u take a relationship slow with ur ex...after being 2gether for 2 yrs..... :-/... my ex bf broke up with me last month after givn him some time in april to decide if he wanted to stay with me.. cuz he couldn't take the fact that I cheated on my ex husband with my ex ... (176 words

Why do I have bad feelings?

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1 June 2011 (M age 41-50 - recently i post about my wifes infidelity and I'm still with her but not on so good terms shes said she sorry and is trying to change i guess but the damage is done and i don't feel nothing for her so i went out with some friends and i met this nice girl and exchange numbers. ... (236 words

Had Affair, Now Months Later This Guy Won't Leave Me Alone!

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1 June 2011 (F age 36-40 - Hi, really need some non-judgmental advice! I am engaged to a loving man and have been with him for 8 years, we have a gorgeous little boy together. I haven't felt completely happy for a long time. I have stuck in there for my son and also because my fiance is a good guy and ... (828 words

I Love My Man but I Am Not Ready for this Baby Now

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1 June 2011 (F age 41-50 - Hi 23 I'm seeing this guy who is 31. I've known him for over a year but only started dating about 3 months ago, I'm now about 3 weeks pregnant with his child, he had 2 kids whom, he doesn't know if they are alive since where they lived was hit by a hurricane and he hasn't h... (186 words

Are His Mom and Friend Driving our LDR Apart?

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1 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I have been with my boyfriend for almost a whole year (our 1 year anniversary is in 5 days) in the beginning we were like best friends, we loved each other so much he was always there for me i was always there for him, we had sex but stopped about a month ago be... (263 words

My girlfriend is stressed up? or am I stressed up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4953 days ago

1 June 2011 (M age 36-40 - hey all im in a relation ship and its been going on for 3 months now..ive been knowing her for 3 years because she is a work collage too..we never actually spoken for long time together, but 5 months ago we got out together and shared our feelings, we spoke about things a... (365 words

What is the deal with this girl?

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1 June 2011 (M age 36-40 - So I saw my ex this weekend. We have been broken up for 6-7 months and had agreed to cut off all communicaiton with each other. Nevertheless, she made the extra effort to come and see me at a bar with some mutual friends. She was well aware that I was there and the first th... (347 words

If I'm just seeing him, can I still go on this holiday and kiss other guys?

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1 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - What would you say if a girl you had just started seeing say for about a week, told you she was going on this kind of holiday. And you knew that she will probably get with guys when she's out there.. would you end it or stay with her? Because I'm going on a girls holiday th... (170 words

Do most girls like a certain type of scuzzy guy?

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1 June 2011 (M age 51-59 - Do all girls think that scuzzy-looking barfly guys are hot or is it just a certain type of girl? All of my girlfriend's ex-boyfriends look like the type of dark-haired scuzzy bar-hopping, goateed, jewelry-wearing guys I would, as a woman, stay far, far away from. I am not s... (469 words

Why has she stopped being interested since I told her that I like her?

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1 June 2011 (M age 30-35 - So I like this girl, and she liked me for a time, we were talking, texting, meeting up. But all of a sudden since I told her I liked her she doesnt seem interested and is always too busy to meet up. I feel I've lost my chance with her but is there anyway I can tell this is so ... (66 words

Can anyone else relate to this horrible experience?

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1 June 2011 (M age 41-50 - I have the most terrible guilt over cheating with another man at work. It happened a year ago. We were both very drunk and one thing lead to another. Within a couple of days I admitted my infidelity to my partner and we had a long period of tension between us (to put it ... (269 words

His comment about my weight were rude and uncalled for, what should I say to him?

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1 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - I've been dating my bf long distance for almost 15mths now. Since I've met him, I've gained about 10-15lbs. Two nights ago, we were texting and I mentioned that I had started a new workout the day before and my body was achy because it was so intense and he responded back b... (199 words

Kissed another....Should I tell my hubby???

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1 June 2011 (F age 41-50 - I've been married 2 years, together for 9. Last year I kissed another man on 3 separate occassions. I felt disgusted about what I did and put an immediate stop to it. I never told my husband. I was able to live with it up til now. We just bought a house and we are trying to ... (231 words

What does she wants from me?

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1 June 2011 (M age 30-35 - I don't understand why she acting like this on me. We started as friend and then eventually becomes very good friend. I have been there to support her all the way from when she went out with a guy who was using her and I was the only one who was stupid enough to stand up and ... (429 words

30 year old virgin - got no one to talk to or ask for advice

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4954 days ago

1 June 2011 (M age 41-50 - Hello everyone, I'll get straight to the point. Im a 30 year old virgin, dont know how but i am. Its sad and im ashamed of it. I get nervous when im close to women, i feel i have no experience. Im average looking, workout in the gym alot, got a good body, my face is average,... (616 words

He treated me bad when we were together so why can't I move on?

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1 June 2011 (F age 41-50 - It's been so long, over a year and his image still in my memory and my heart... Is this love? He's with someone else now, if you read my old posts you know how the story goes... I'm seeing someone new now too, and he's a great guy but gosh! ... I cannot forget HIM! I'm trying ... (318 words

Bad Tempered Boyfriend

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1 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - Hi! I am 19 years old, still studying and i have this boyfirend for 8 months already. He is cool, funny, romantic. However, when it ocmes for him to get moody, he will say all the great things happening on me are bad for him. for example today, he was detained by a te... (300 words

Is this 36 year old man worried because he has feelings towards a 16 year old girl?

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1 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - So, this is kind of an akward question and i don't really know where to start..i know i'm going to get alot of comments on something that this question isnt about! Okay, so basically i'm 16 and i've had a 'crush' on my ex neighbour for around 2 years now..a couple of months... (387 words

I was falsely accused of a crime, and my girl hasn't treated me the same since it happened!

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1 June 2011 (M age 36-40 - We been togther for just over 4 years. For first two years we had sex almost everyday where ever we could, and when we both had the same days off work we spent the entire time in bed having sex. She held my hand everywhere we went, wasnt bothered who saw us together, we kissed ... (458 words

Should I pursue him even though he is in a relationship?

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1 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - I think i seriously need help, i'm in love with this guy but he has a girlfriend but we are really really close. it all started last year with a text, he and his girlfriend was still new at that time. after countless texting and hanging out with him i grew to like him. at first ... (179 words

She has inexplicably blocked me and I can't help but feel rejected. Should I give up on online dating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4938 days ago

1 June 2011 (M age 36-40 - A girl I met online and have been talking to for the past couple of months has inexplicably blocked me. I say inexplicably because we had been getting along just fine (so I thought anyway) and had established a while ago that we'd like to meet up some time. Why? She messaged me ... (159 words

Did my daughter have sex while she was visiting a friend? Or am I over-exaggerating things?

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1 June 2011 (M age - I am a father to a 17 year old girl. A little over a month ago i gave her permission to stay at her friend's house during Easter recess. She DID go, because i called one day and spoke to her mom who then passed the phone. Fine. I was proud of her. NOW, last week i overhear... (768 words

I want to be more than sex to somebody but it seems that's all men want from me! Should I just accept it?

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1 June 2011 (? age 36-40 - I am a young woman, does get hit on when I'm out and I've been called "hot" etc but I just feel hideous compared to everyone else. It just seems like guys only want one thing and aren't interested in getting to know me. I wonder if this has anything to do with me feeling ... (192 words

Do all virgins bleed? My boyfriend is now doubting that I'm wasnt a virgin because I didnt bleed!

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1 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - I am 20 and had my first sex with my boyfriend, but my boyfriend doubt that I was not a virgin just because I didnt bleed.. Do all virgins bleed??? has my virgnity gone because I used toys before I has sex with my boyfriend??... (45 words

Why does my ex always get mad when I get a new boyfriend?

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1 June 2011 (F age 26-29 - First let me apologize for this being so long. I don't get it! My ex boyfriend told me to move on when he dumped me and I have, but whenever I get a boyfriend he always gets so mad! We broke up the beginning of April (2 months ago) and he got a new girlfriend the day we broke... (312 words

Why did he disappear after I finally agreed to go on a date with him?

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1 June 2011 (F age 41-50 - Dear Cupid A guy who was 7 younger than me was asking me out for the past few weeks, i couldnt accept since i thought we might not have any future. He was keep on pertering me and 2 days back i kind of said ok. After that i didnt hear from him at all. I called him, he i... (129 words

Does he really want me to leave him alone or is he just being stubborn?

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1 June 2011 (F age 36-40 - my ex and i got back together after a break up of a year.he finished things then asked me back so we gave it another go.we've been together 4months now and its been goin good up until recently.hes been quite distant and doesnt text as much.he blames it on tiredness when i ask ... (199 words

We have only been married for 6 months and he has already lost interest in me!

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1 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - Its been 6 months I have been married to my boy friend, but he is not interested in me nor in sexlife,he never enjoys my company to chat nor to have sex with, he is always in his own world working hard, we rarely have sex which is neither enjoyable nor satisfactory, he doen't ... (221 words

Does she still like me and is simply busy at the moment, or have I put her off by texting her too much?

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1 June 2011 (M age 30-35 - I like this girl, I told her so but I was in a relationship at the time, now previous to telling her we were having a conversation about similiar topics and she said something like "if you like someone thats in a relationship, you kinda have to try and not like them" and when I ... (205 words

My cousin is going to blackmail me unless I do sexual things with her, and she's only 13!

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1 June 2011 (M age 30-35 - help cupids! im in a really BAD situation. basically, my cousin is blackmailing me for not doing sexual things with her. let me explain. my cousin admitted to me she loves me (though previously, i think she just adored me and now i know its just a crush). BUT she took it a... (205 words

Should cuddles only be reserved for your lover?

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1 June 2011 (M age 30-35 - Aren't cuddles just meant for your lover as it's an initmate thing, what do you think of this, is the action of cuddling friends accpetable? (I don't cuddle my friends nor my family as I find it werid)... (38 words

My girlfriend is controlling and needy and it causes us to fight. What can I do?

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1 June 2011 (M age 36-40 - My girlfriend is very needy and controlling and it causes us to fight. I do not know what to do about it please help. We have been dating for 2 years, living together for 1 year and things are going great other than this. Wherever I go, my girlfriend must go. Wherever she ... (521 words

Did I do the right thing in dumping my ex? Am I really in love with my friend?

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1 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - Hi, I am very confused. Did i do the right thing? Am i really in love or is it just a rebound? Am i the one to blame for all that happened? Well, I met my ex boyfriend when i was 16. Few months after our relation he moved out of town. We had a LDR for 4 years. We had a ... (891 words

Should I ask her out? How do I act when I meet her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

1 June 2011 (M age 30-35 - so i really like this girl and i think she likes me as well. we both went to the same party at the weekend and i kept talking to her and putting my arm around her. we both had a really good time and when i got home i sent a text to our mutual friend to tell her she looked ... (225 words

Why do guys keep hurting me like this?

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1 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - Why does this keeps happening to me? what is wrong with me? Am all cried out! I've had 4 boyfriends who I felt really strongly about. I did everything a good girl would do. I wasn't easy, I stick to the rules and made them all wait a reasonably months before I got int... (242 words

What she is telling me and what I have found online doesn't add up, how do I know if she is telling the truth?

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1 June 2011 (M age 41-50 - my wife is abroad for about 2 and a half years. i don't know if she is telling truth or not that she is not having sex with another man. i hacked her yahoo and facebook id. i found many mans ids and their reaction was not positive. how can i know that she is telling truth?... (57 words

We broke up. Should I send this mail and poem to my ex? I miss her so much.

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1 June 2011 (M age 36-40 - She broke up with me more than 2 weeks ago. We were with each other for 2 years, physically 1 year and 10 months. She didn't give me any real reason, but I think the main reason is long distance. Actually she's just 6 hours away from me by plane. She's 21 and I'm 26 years old... (851 words

Our sex life has dwindled and she now has problems having an orgasm, what is going on?

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1 June 2011 (M age 30-35 - Hi guys. My question will contain sexual references-just a forewarning. So I have been with my girlfriend for over three years now. We are still in love and there are rarely moments we have major arguments. My problem is our sex life. When we first got together it was... (238 words

I want to be friends with this girl even though things didn't work out?

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1 June 2011 (M age 30-35 - Long story shot, there was this girl that I use to like and we had a thing going on with each other and then one thing led to another, she just wasn't that into me anymore and i felt like she led me on and all this, i got over the fact she did and any feelings of seei... (284 words

What to do when a girl keeps flaking?

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1 June 2011 (M age 36-40 - So,there was this girl I used to  date (note: first and only girl ive ever dated past a first date)... I liked her a lot.  If i had a list of everything I wanted in a girl, it would have been her. We dated for like a month and a half...but she was always busy, and I could never ... (425 words

My girlfriend experiences pain when we are fooling around, will sex be even worse for her? Is there anything I can do to help?

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1 June 2011 (M age 30-35 - When I finger my gf, I don't actually finger her I just rub her clit, because she is so tight it hurts her to go in even a little, she seems to feel pain the second my finger starts to enter. Also, I recently gave her oral for the first time. I had looked at some tips online... (179 words

Would my girl friend want to be with me more if I posed nude for her? Is this a good idea?

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1 June 2011 (M age 36-40 - I'm a guy. Would posing nude for my girl friend bring us closer? I want to pose nude for my girlfriend of a year. We aren't very intimate now, as we were, and I want to bring back our regular intimacy. Would this make her want to be with me more? What do I do? Would the age ... (70 words

How can we begin to be around each other's family again?

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1 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - After 8 long months of life contemplation and finding happiness without him, I am a stronger individual. However, my ex and I started talking again. He came to me first, we started hanging out about once a week, until he was seriously injured and I took care of him. Need... (309 words

It's been over a year and my heart still hasn't healed...

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1 June 2011 (F age 26-29 - I really need help its been one year in a half that ive been broked up with my ex I am suffering for him still I cry alot over him its just hard to forget about him why?what can I do?is it love?omg im confused I cant be happy with other guys because of my ex that I cant forget ... (75 words

I want him but just as a FWB, can this work?

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1 June 2011 (F age 26-29 - I'm in a bit of a complicated situation. This is a really long story, fair warning... I suppose this all starts back at the beginning of this school year. I met this guy who we'll call T. T was quiet, had below average attendance, and generally sat at the back of the clas... (514 words

Should I wait for her to make the first move??

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1 June 2011 (M age 41-50 - My ex-fiance broke up with me about a year ago, and just recently i just found out that she was asking about me, if i was dating or still single. I was shocked to hear about that because i never thought to hear from her again, but i can honestly say i still have feelings for ... (334 words

I gave up everything for him and he still says he can't trust me, what should I do?

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1 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - hey there... i've been having a rough time lately... i've been in a serious long distance relationship for 4 years. Even though I never cheated, he can't trust me! he said that he's had bad experiences with his last gf, and admits he has trust issues. i love him very m... (219 words

Pain after sex

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1 June 2011 (F age 36-40 - No, I don't have an STD. I just get sore after sex. We used to have sex til he couldn't help coming. Now we have sex til I'm too sore and then I tell him he has to come. It's sad. And I'm all sore later in the day/the next day so it just kinda makes things difficult... ... (99 words

Awkward Virgin Moment

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1 June 2011 (M age 30-35 - So, I'm having a little problem with something that's been bothering me for a while now. I am a virgin, 18, that was dating my first and only girl last year. We got along great and connected prefectly! Then one night, her parents went out of town and we pulled the classic, "My ... (184 words

Is he bullying me? If so what should I do?

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1 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - So I broke my crush's trust and maybe his heart. I was dishonest with him and kind of deceitful and lead him on. Some of his friends found out about it and since he has an ego and seems to care what they think that made it worse. A few weeks after the incident I tried... (182 words

Why does he always invite our friends everytime I ask him to hang out with me?

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1 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - I met a guy about 6 months ago, and from the very first conversation we had, our chemistry was great and we got along wonderfully. For a long time, we would see each other maybe once every couple of weeks (in group settings), but the connection was always there. A little over a ... (290 words

I want it all the time, she doesn't.... what should I do?

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1 June 2011 (M age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend get along great, except when it comes to sexual things. (I say sexual things instead of just saying sex because were in the "anything but" stage right now). I feel like we barely ever get time alone to be physically intimate, but she seems to sometimes feel ... (337 words

I'm afraid to tell my mom I want birth control...

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1 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - im 18/f and my boyfriend is 19/m My mum has told me in the past, before i ever had a boyfriend, that she's aware that i'm at the age where ill start to get sexually active. I never had a boyfriend during high school or anything and never have done anything more then kissed... (609 words

Why would he act so differently towards her, when there is not history of an altercation?

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1 June 2011 (F age 41-50 - I am a friends with a man and his wife. we are a part of a social group. However since I knew them, I noticed that there is one young girl in the group that he barely talks to. he almost seem hatfefull towards her. She was a part of the group before I was. They are just ... (151 words

I want to call the other woman, should I?

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1 June 2011 (F age 41-50 - How can I ask another woman who my boyfriend cheated with if there still communicating due to the fact that I noticed the number on his phone contacts..I feel so dumb for even forgiving him cuz now my trust issues are out the window. When I actually confronted him he told me ... (141 words

He wants a break but not a breakup?

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1 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - At the beginning of the conversation we had, he emphasized that he did not want us to break up completely. He has communication problems and I have issues with selfishness that I need to work on. He never would tell me when he was upset with me and it caused us to have problems ... (530 words

I am scared of being alone

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1 June 2011 (F age 41-50 - Hi I am scared of being alone and always desperately trying to be in a relation even though my ex-bfs never treated me right. I know the problem should be with me, since i was always been treated as a doormat. I am currently dating a guy whom i am really not attracted to, bu... (125 words

Pregnant and found out my fiance has been talking to another girl

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1 June 2011 (F age 36-40 - My fiance and I have been together for 2yrs. We have a 1 yr old daughter and one that will be here in 2wks and I just found text messages in his phone to another girl saying that he still wants to be with her and that he wants to do what ever it takes to make her happy..i ... (205 words

My period is late, but I've never had sex before. What is going on??

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1 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - Alright. I'm 18 and a virgin but I haven't had a period in over 2 months. I'm not sure what's going on and I'm really afraid. I called my mom and asked her about it but she was no help as usual. I know I can't be pregnant because as I said... I'm a virgin. So then, what does ... (88 words

She says she loves me but won't date me!!

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1 June 2011 (M age 30-35 - so here I am again... looking for help because it seems like you guys are the only people I can rely on for this kind of thing. I love this girl who happens to be one of my neighbors just a street over. I found this out somewhat recently because I didn't know she was my ... (527 words

3 weeks later and still not over him...

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