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I loved her but we broke up because I graduated our university. Am I wrong not to re-friend her on Facebook?

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27 June 2011 (M age 36-40 - Me and my ex broke up after 5 months together just over 4 months ago, reason being I was leaving the town where we studied at university. I was finishing my degree, she was just starting hers. I loved her and I wanted the relationship to continue, she told me she loved me but ... (328 words

In a lesbian relationship and my best friend is a straight guy. He told me he loves me and now she wants me to end the friendship but I don't want to. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4884 days ago

27 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - My lesbian partner and I have been together for over two years now and have had our ups and downs but we are now on a high and are thinking about becoming engaged and our future however there is one thing thats getting in the way and i just want advice and to know if in your ... (359 words

In a lesbian couple with differing sex drives. How can I make myself want it more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4895 days ago

27 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - Ok so i am a female with a female partner, aka. we are a lesbian couple. Our sex is great and i love it, just not as much as her. She wants it every second. I am lucky if i want it at least once a week, and it's getting me down as, although she will not show it, i know it's ... (108 words

Me and my lesbian partner want to have a baby, how would we go about in vitro fertilization?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4887 days ago

27 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - hi i am a female and i am in a serious relationship with another female. We have been togeather for just over two years now and we have just been starting to think about the future. We plan to have children however we do not want to adopt but go through IVF. I have tried ... (221 words

Did my boyfriend pamper his ex better than he does me because she was prettier?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4894 days ago

27 June 2011 (F age 36-40 - Be honest guys, do you treat women who are prettier better/nicer/ with more respect than average looking women? I ask because my current partner of four years spoiled his partner rotten! Bought her anything she wanted and got into a TON of debt and was left humiliated when ... (250 words

I think I might be bisexual or gay. How do I overcome my fear of asking a guy out or accepting a guy's advances?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4892 days ago

27 June 2011 (M age 30-35 - I dont know who I am or what I want. For years I tried to push the gay thoughts and desires from my head. Eventually I decided I was at least bisexual, if not gay. Now, however, it isnt the labeling that bothers me. I want to try having a relationship with another guy, but... (180 words

How to dance for my man

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4895 days ago

27 June 2011 (F age 41-50 - I am a 31 year old woman. My husband and I were watching a movie from 1996, The People vs. Larry Flynt. At the end, Woody Harrelson's Larry Flynt is watching a video of his late wife doing a striptease for him. My husband says he wants one of those for his birthday, for me ... (124 words

Are all men like this? He says I make it too obvious we are dating when we are out togther. My parents don't like him either.

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27 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - hey. ok here goes. i have this bf for almost a year and i love him a lot, my parents do not want me to have anything to do with him cause he's from a different country to mine and they do not trust people from his country. They say they are all bad, also they are quite possesiv... (580 words

I have been touched but not ready to reciprocate, what should I do/say?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4895 days ago

27 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years and yesterday he touched me 'down there' (just outside my clothes) for the first time. I'm not ready to reciprocate just yet, but I feel selfish because I'll receive but not give. I was getting to that stage naturally, but now ... (103 words

I want to be a proper family but he can't commit!

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27 June 2011 (F age 41-50 - I want to be a proper family but he cant commit. My partner and i have been together 7yrs, we have 2 young kids who are 6 and 3. The problem is we have never lived together properly. My kids behaviour isnt good and i blame this situation for it. He has always lived with his ... (259 words

Three weeks ago, she was all for my buying a motorcycle. Now, she's acting resentful!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4895 days ago

27 June 2011 (M age 41-50 - So it all started 3 weeks ago when I decided to by a motorcycle, she was all for it! I got it a week ago and now everyday seems to be a battle! I work 50hours a week so I have little time to do anything! We have been together for just over a year and she has two children with ... (135 words

Why didn't he jump at the chance to get my number? Now what?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4895 days ago

27 June 2011 (F age 36-40 - Hey guys and girls Just needed a bit of advice as I'm really confused! 2 months ago a new guy started working at my local cornershop, he only works weekend evening, after a few weekends, we'd have strong eye contact And smiled at each other and eventually he started up a con... (257 words

Do I deserve the same second chance I gave her?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4895 days ago

27 June 2011 (M age 30-35 - I have been dating a girl for 21 months. Back in November, I found out by looking in her laptop that she had been talking inappropriately to other guys. That hurt me a lot and I forgave and forgot so we could move on after she apologized. Now, she found out by looking ... (152 words

He is my FWB and now he tells me that he cares for me and likes my company, what's that about?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4895 days ago

27 June 2011 (? age 41-50 - Hey Cupids, I've been having this friend with benefits for nearly 6 months now. We meet twice a week, watch a movie, have dinner or lunch, we talk a lot and basically have a good time- with some sex involved. I'm a little confused though because today as we were talking, ju... (114 words

What can I do to get him off my mind?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4895 days ago

27 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - well I break up with my boyfriend like 2 days ago, I reazlie that I did not love him anymore so....we both did agree to break up and think it was for the best because it was not working out but I still always thinking of him and I do miss him and the times we have together, we ... (130 words

How do I get my ex of my mind?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4894 days ago

27 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - well I break up with my boyfriend, I realized that I did not love him anymore so....we both did agree to break up and think it was for the best because it was not working out but I still always thinking of him and I do miss him and the times we had together, we've been together ... (126 words

I don't trust her, how can I build up that trust?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4895 days ago

27 June 2011 (M age 30-35 - Okay. I'm not going to get into specifics but my girlfriend basically ruined my trust in her. I guess technically she's my ex girlfriend. She showed up on my door step the other week saying she realized how horribly she treated me and she missed me and would like to try to make ... (134 words

Ex-Boyfriend Still Interested?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4895 days ago

27 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - Though we clicked immediately, we had a pretty messy breakup half a year back. No screaming or tantrums but we simply stopped speaking and haven't spoken since. Trouble is, we both both participate in a volunteer group and are constantly mixed in the same circles like every ... (143 words

Is Oral, sex ?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4885 days ago

27 June 2011 (F age 26-29 - Here it goes.. I was saving myself until I got married for the right man. I was making out with my boyfriend and I ended up giving him oral sex. Does that make me a non virgin anymore?... (38 words

How do I keep my past from ruining my future?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4895 days ago

27 June 2011 (F age 36-40 - So Ive dated every type of man out there.. the hopeless romantic, the badboy, the future urban outdoorsman, the vain, and the abusive. But if you were to ask me to conduct a relationship with a "geek", I wouldnt know where to begin. To make a long story short, Ive recently... (256 words

How can I help her get over him?

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27 June 2011 (F age 26-29 - How can I help my friend? Lets call her A. All last summer, she was in a relationship with a horrible guy. Lets call him J. J treated her like crap around other people, cheated on her, stared blatantly at other girls, wouldn't even pay for their dates--he mooched off his best ... (369 words

Did I make the right move or is it time to leave?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4894 days ago

27 June 2011 (F age - This is the second time I have moved for a man to another state that I have met through the internet. It's a very complicated situation for me. I have a low self esteem and I am so insecure. My boyfriend has a 16 yr. old son that he sees every other weekend and once a week. I ... (638 words

How can I keep everybody happy ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4895 days ago

27 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - I'm getting frustrated and need some help! I'm a sophomore in college and live at home even though I desperately want to move out. I can't study well here because my younger brothers are always loud and disregard me. My parents work a lot and I feel like I have so many things ... (202 words

He brought his ex but not me !

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4895 days ago

27 June 2011 (F age 36-40 - Hiya, I have a problem that I'm not sure if it is a real problem or not!! My Fiancée and I have been dating for two years, living together for one year and getting married next year. He has just dropped it on me that he wants to go camping with his buddies and has suggest... (355 words

How to make a move ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4894 days ago

27 June 2011 (F age 26-29 - So I'm nearly 16, and a few days ago, I got my first boyfriend! My bf has never had a girlfriend either (he's the same age as me) so we're both new to the whole relationship thing :P Okay, basically, we're both really shy. So far, we haven't hugged, held hands or kissed, ... (136 words

I was a wild child, so he begged me to change and I did....now he thinks I'm boring!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4895 days ago

27 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 years. When we first started dating i was a wild child. I partied drank an smoked weed like every other day. I always tried to get him to go to the club with me or get his friends together for a night of drinking. And he hated i... (319 words

What is he trying to tell me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4895 days ago

27 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - ok, so theres this guy who ive liked for 2 yrs now. We talked we hung out and then it seem like he fell off the face of the earth. Then about 5 months ago we ended up hanging out with mutal friends and he was telling strangers i was his wife, but we went our seprete ways and i ... (300 words

I'm so confused! What are the real reasons behind his behaviour? Does he still have feelings for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4895 days ago

27 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - He's liked me for almost 6months. I tried to open my heart, got to know him, and after a while I fell for him a little more and more each day. Besides, seems like some of my actions got him confused and hurt as well. Suddenly right when I thought we could start new, he wa... (466 words

How do I stop feeling so sad and to stop myself for feeling like it was my fault?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4891 days ago

27 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend of two years told me yesterday that he was distancing himself from me because he hates talking to me now and he wished I never loved him because he stopped loving me and then he finally told me that he cheated on me. I took off the promise ring he gave me and he ... (190 words

I love my FWB but he is flirting with other girls! What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4895 days ago

27 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - Me and this guy have been friends for ages and we both decided to be friends with benefits he is 3 years older than me, anyway i was supposed to see him on a certain night but i couldn't get to him so i told him and he got sorta ignorant with me, the next day i heard he was ... (145 words

I want to marry him but not his kids!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4891 days ago

27 June 2011 (F age 36-40 - I love my boyfriend hugely and we are engaged to be married. He has two children from a previous relationship ,5 and 4. Though the children are relatively well behaved and love me I find it really difficult to accept. I never want children (though i am not ignorant to say never ... (95 words

I don't want to lose my virginity just like that, but I am getting to restless waiting for sex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4895 days ago

27 June 2011 (M age 30-35 - hello friends im a 20yrs old guy and being a virgin is eating me up,, i mean i dont want to lose it just like that,, like waiting for some special person,, but sometimes i get too restless,, but i dont feel like going to a prostitute. i dont know what to do. i dont even know ... (72 words

My boyfriend has changed his mind about keeping the baby, and now he and his family are ganging up on me forcing me to have an abortion!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4894 days ago

27 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - my boyfriend and his parents are 'forcing' me into an abortion but i dont want to go through with it. what should i do? im 17 years old and im 5 weeks pregnant. my boyfriend told his parents i may be pregnant before we even knew. when i found out my boyfriend was really upset... (223 words

Should I just continue to ignore the problems? Or, if I confront them, how should I do this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4895 days ago

27 June 2011 (F age 41-50 - I should preface this whole thing by saying that my boyfriend is a really nice guy. He's sweet, and kind, and sensitive. He's not an asshole, even though some of these things might make him sound selfish! However, there are some things in our relationship that worry me. ... (559 words

It always hurts when he first goes inside me, is this normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4895 days ago

27 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - Hi well im a bit worried about my health. Me and my boyfriend started having sex about 2 months ago, im 17. Well everything was fine and we were having great sex, then one day it was taking him a while longer to orgasm and so the sex went on for longer and during that time i w... (194 words

Are men responsible or women for the fact that women don't look inside themselves for true integrity anymore?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

27 June 2011 (M age - I want some female feedback. I see a lot of women freaking out about their guys interest in porn. I like porn. And if i had a partner I'm sure she would hate it as I would if she liked porn. I tend to like soft porn and i don't get an erection. I hope thats not too much ... (121 words

He lost his erection during sex - was it my fault?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4895 days ago

27 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - My man once lost erection when we were having sex.is there something wrong with me?... (15 words

Should I give him a chance and see where it goes?

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27 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - I need some advice before i let myself get involved with this guy. I met him a while ago but when i told him i liked him he said he was already seeing someone but that it isn't anything serious he has only seen her a few times. And then said now he knows i liked him that out of ... (180 words

How can I get the spark back into this relationship or has it gone for good?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4895 days ago

27 June 2011 (M age 36-40 - My girlfriend doesnt likes sex and hasnt for past 2 years. On the rare occasions we have sex, once a month if i'm lucky, she does it for me. There is no emotion, feeling or love from her during sex. She says its just the way she is and she would be like this with any man. ... (317 words

How can I cope with my fear of losing my boyfriend? Its eating me up!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4895 days ago

27 June 2011 (F age 51-59 - Dear all, please help. I came out of a horrible year long relationship wih an abusive guy that used to disappear for weeks at a time and give me the silent treatment. I completly lost my confidence, and got depressed. Anyway,it;s now over and I have been seeing a new guy for ... (518 words

Is the relationship completely ruined or do I have any chance of being with her again someday?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4886 days ago

27 June 2011 (M age 36-40 - My sweetheart (I'll call her P) and I were together for four months. It's not a lot of time but we have a really eventful story: We both came from five-year-long relationships, we were both cheated on by our partners and we both had trust issues as a result... But sh... (841 words

Any advice/stories of your experiences of taking a decision about an unplanned pregnancy and ways in which can affect your relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4895 days ago

27 June 2011 (F age 41-50 - Hi, my bf of 10 months and I have found out we have an unplanned pregnancy, and that i'm probably 2-3 weeks pregnant despite taking the oral contraceptive pill. We found out last week and have been talking things through. Neither of us has a child already. We don't live ... (388 words

I don't know if my partner is emotionally abusing me or whether I need to get a grip and stop causing arguments...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4824 days ago

27 June 2011 (F age 36-40 - im 28 weeks pregnant with my first baby. My relationship with my partner has been up and down the past couple of years, we have had some amazing times and also some pretty upsetting times, typical of any relationship. My partner runs his own business as a builder, he works... (756 words

My partner is addicted to online gaming and he has no interest of putting any effort into our relationship.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

27 June 2011 (F age 51-59 - Hi, My partner who i live with, is addicted to online gaming. Not only that, but when he does deign to spend any time with me, it's generally him wanting to "get it on", he cannot seem to understand why his behaviour and attitude towards me and the ways things are, is i... (609 words

My BF has cheated on me so much and half the time it was when he was intoxicated and at parties, that I just can't trust him to go without me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4895 days ago

27 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been dating on and off for a little over 2 years. I am 17 years old and he is just about to turn 21. We met when I was a freshman and he was a senior so obviously, the age difference didn't really matter to us to the extreme. He has cheated on me a lot, ... (374 words

I cant trust men because of my past! Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4894 days ago

27 June 2011 (? age 30-35 - I need help I cant trust men at all...My real father would beat my mother and he cheated on my mom and left us,I always had BAD relationships with men and I was cheated on by a ex a yr ago when I was 17 and he lied to me a lot and bullied me. I need help and answers im ... (253 words

I right to feel this betrayed by this guy? Should I be even considering him as the father of my 1st born?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4896 days ago

27 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - Dear Cupid I dated this guy in 2009 but we broke up after a few months because he told me he wanted to do "some soul searching" basically he dumped me, we were however, still pretty close and we slept together every now and then(after the break up). Neither of us had a ch... (286 words

Should my married friend text with another guy who loves her?

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27 June 2011 (F age 41-50 - My friend is married and have two kids. She said she have some problems with her houseband. There is this another guy who told her he love her but she didn't accept his proposal. She told her housband and he told her to cut her contact with him as much as possible. The other ... (164 words

Why are women less likely to give a blowjob or hand job when your in a relationship with them?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3193 days ago

27 June 2011 (M age 36-40 - why do women let me finger them and have sex with them but they wont give me a blowjob. I have gotten blowjobs from women without even asking, these females where either friends or strippers or random drunk chicks and the strippers didnt even make me pay.. I was at a friends ... (560 words

Still hurting over my ex and cant give myself fully to my new boyfriend.....what's wrong with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4896 days ago

27 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - Broken up with my ex earlier this year then again started dating for pleasure anyway. the problem is that whenever my current boyfriend is around i dont feel him its like he is annoying and boring me inside but i do love him so much its just how i feel and i really feel bad ... (341 words

I just need closure!

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27 June 2011 (F age 36-40 - how do i get closure without talking to him? i text him but he never texts back. i am still sad but not as bad as the day it happened. i was literally in so much physical pain i just couldn't do anything but sit there and cry. now i am doing better going to work putting on a ... (85 words

Really low sex drive or addicted to masturbation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4895 days ago

27 June 2011 (F age 41-50 - We've been together over three years and are getting married next year. He has never been crazy about sex. The first six months, we had sex about 3-4 times/week and about twice/month during the rest of the first year. After that, it became once/month. The longest was 7 months ... (421 words

What would be your interpretation of this man and the possible motivations behind this behavior?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4894 days ago

27 June 2011 (M age 41-50 - I have a good one that I found flipping through the various internet pages. In fact it is a context to a story I had read but yet poses some interesting fodder for all of you aunts if you would kindly oblige. What would be your intereptetation of this scenario? A m... (394 words

Helping an insecure girlfriend feel secure.....

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27 June 2011 (M age 36-40 - Hello Question: My GF wants me to delete all my pictures of my ex. Erase everything completely. I love my GF very much, but I don't want to do this and don't believe she has the right to ask this of me. She is very hurt though and finds it difficult to continue. How ca... (613 words

15 and might be pregnant......Help!

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27 June 2011 (F age 26-29 - i need help . i am 15 years old and there is a big chance that i may be pregnant . i come from a very strict household that doesn't even believe in sex before marriage we. my boyfriend and i have been together for almost 7 months and i know we aren't breaking up ... ever . h... (475 words

Family drama!

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27 June 2011 (F age 41-50 - Okay. I am having so many family issues its driving me nuts. My husband (30) and I (34)try to just keep too ourselves and the DRAMA still comes to us. We have had out times of adding to family drama because of our own marital issues that we turned to my parents for guideance as ... (1580 words

I love my kickboxing teacher but he has a girlfriend, what can I do to get more of his attention?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4737 days ago

27 June 2011 (F age 41-50 - I really like my kickboxing teacher he is really fit and dreamy he always laughing with me and hugs me a lot which i love. i defo love him but he has a young girlfriend, so does he love me and what can i do to get more of his attention ? X ... (53 words

Boyfriend is suffering from PTSD and won't seek professional help, any suggestions?

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27 June 2011 (F age 36-40 - My boyfriend is a Marine and worked in Bosnia back in 1999 as a "peacekeeper". He's 33 now and is still having some issues...he can't go into cities, he still carries a gun on him, and he has horrible nightmares time to time. I'm the only person he's ever opened up to about it... (394 words

Break up or stay together?

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27 June 2011 (F age 41-50 - My boyfriend of 7 months left a six weeks ago to live in another state for work for a few months. The first 3 weeks he was calling every day and then the phone calls started to come less frequently. During the 4th week, I went to visit him. The trip was my idea, my plannin... (410 words

I cant stand him pushing me away anymore! Should we take a break to show him what he is missing? Or just end it all together?

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27 June 2011 (F age 36-40 - I love my boyfriend to death and would do absolutely anything for him,and i do, but i'm just not happy anymore. I don't feel appreciated, wanted, or loved. There is absolutely no affection, when I try and be affectionate with him whether it be cuddling or just sitting close to ... (223 words

What are the signs of a man who has fallen out of love with you?

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27 June 2011 (F age 51-59 - What are the signs of a man who has fallen out of love with you? My husband never seems happy any more and even though he says he loves me (sometimes but not often) and we still have sex, he is constantly harping on me about something he perceives as careless, or not done to ... (100 words

My troubled circumstances have been preventing me from dating and making friends.....

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27 June 2011 (M age 36-40 - Hey everyone, I am a 22 year old man with some very serious social issues despite the fact that I have been very successful otherwise. although this may be extremely hard to believe [it is for myself quite often] but I have never dated, hugged, held, kissed or had sex with ... (595 words

How can I stop people from asking when I'm getting married?

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27 June 2011 (M age 41-50 - I got a question. i have friends and a few family members who want to know when i'm getting married. i have already told them that i am NEVER getting married. but for some strange reason, they keep pestering me about it. how can i put a stop to these kind of questions? how ... (176 words

Dating advice for someone new to America?

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27 June 2011 (M age 30-35 - I m really down. Hi everyone. After being dumped by my gf of 4 years for another guy 5 months ago and after most of the healing process, when I tried to look upon someone whom I thought could be a date, it turned out that she was with someone else. I shook my head and tried to ... (353 words

Want to have oral sex but worried about the smell coming from my vagina!

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27 June 2011 (F age 26-29 - I have an issue. My boyfriend wants to give me oral sex but i'm afraid of what he'll think because lately i'v had a wierd smell coming from my vagina. He keeps insisting but i'm too nervous! Advice please?... (39 words

I don't want to be the psycho ex girlfriend trying to get him back, but I really miss him! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4893 days ago

27 June 2011 (F age 26-29 - So me and my ex boyfriend broke up after 2 months but we moved kinda fast because it was love at first sight pretty much and we're still trying to be friends and talk every now and then. Anyways it's been about 3 months and I thought I was over him but lately everytime someone ... (145 words

Guys: What's your type?

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27 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - Im just morbidly curious, other then men who are into the size 0 does it really matter if the girl has a bit of a belly, Im not talking like three hundred pounds really just a little bit of extra chub. And what would be your ideal girlfriend, is it really someone who play... (113 words

I kicked him out when I found out he was married, but now I'm pregnant and I don't know what to do!

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27 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - I was dating my ex for about a year and i was happily in love until i got a phone call, this lady asked me was i screwing her husband? i asked what was she talking about and i just could have died when she explained to me that she was doing an investigation and told me exactly ... (112 words

Boyfriend wants me to gain weight!

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27 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend of 2 years told me today that he wants me to gain weight because I'll look more beautiful. He has always told me before we started dating that he's into bigger girls. I have a small bust (wearing only a 32B). My measurements are 33-26-37, I'm 135-ish pounds and ... (111 words

Has anybody else dealt with feelings of resentment? What did you do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4893 days ago

27 June 2011 (F age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been together for over 4 years. I travel a lot for work, and for the last few months when I return from a trip, instead of enjoying each other's company after the long break, we seem to just be arguing. I think the trouble really started when I m... (340 words

He's nothing like my ex, so how can I get over this fear of being controlled?

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