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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I like a guy but my best friend loves him too!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4928 days ago

25 June 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I like a guy but my best friend loves him too, he liked my best friend before but now he says he love me again. But he don't know that I love him because I do not want my best friend learn that and the guy once told me on facebook ' I'm gonna try to talk to you less because i ... (87 words)

So does she fancy me or is she just being super friendly?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4927 days ago

25 June 2011 (M)

- Hi I work for a big organization (1000+ workers) , anyway for the past two months or so i've been emailing a woman that works here. I cant even remeber who started the emailing, but i've got to know her quite well, she has told me about her favourite films and music she like... (171 words)

Is it normal to be this worried about sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4926 days ago

25 June 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, my best friend has had sex with 3 guys and she's the same age as me. I've only gone to 3rd base, which made feel very vulnerable. So, sex scares me. Not just the pain stuff. It's being that close to someone. Also, that you can't take it back. I've had many guys say th... (187 words)

I've made a mess. How do I tell my best friend I had sex with her boyfriend?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4926 days ago

25 June 2011 (?) age 30-35 - I have been dating this guy for two years. (Lets call him, Kyle.) And everything was perfect. He would send me flowers just because... not many guys do that! He also is very big on his religion and respects me. Kyle is sweet and amazing. All my friends approve, but i've ... (279 words)

Women only, I need your advice.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4927 days ago

25 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello ALL!! I need some help, this is aimed at women only!! A little advice would not go a miss. It's about the dreaded pubic hair...im a teenage girl and i choose to shave my pubic hair. However, i have never once been able to shave without the unsightly bumps, red... (186 words)

What can I do to cheer up my friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4927 days ago

25 June 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear Cupids This is not a Bf/Gf relationship thing but a friendship thing. My best friend, E, told me that her first friend, C, lied to her, like: she planed all this stuff that she knows E is not allow to do and went on doing stuff without inviting her. What can i do to chee... (61 words)

I told him the friendship was over, but I regret it. What's the best thing to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4928 days ago

25 June 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - i have ended a friendship with a guy ive known for 3 years. at the start he was amazing and was a caring attentive friend. as time went on i knew i had feelings for him but never showed, then i started noticing other stuff like he would tell half truths and lies. i thought at ... (249 words)

I am confused by his behavior. Can someone help me figure out what is going on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4928 days ago

25 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - hi please can someone give me some advice? i met this guy in march. we split up after 2 months. i would text him he wouldnt reply. then he said he has been hurt in the past and so have i so could we just have sex and nothing more. so i told him no i deserved better than that. t... (149 words)

Help! I need to persuade my boyfriend to come back to me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4928 days ago

25 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Please help, me and my boyfriend of 5 months (doesnt seem long, but 5 months being official, we loved each other long before we went out.) We are perfect together, he always speaks to me morning and day, always making sure im okay and random calls, texts saying "iloveyou" and ... (281 words)

Three weeks since the break up, is it too early to date a new guy?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4928 days ago

25 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hmm so this is the situation. I recently broke up with my bf...we'd been together for nearly 2 years..(22 months to be precise). I was the one who called it off...it was going no where, we were making each other miserable... So its been about three weeks since the b... (236 words)

Scared by my ex!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4928 days ago

25 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i broke up with an ex-boyfriend like 6 months ago. we were one of those on again off again couples, so it wasnt our first break up. I ended the relationship around january due to some of his behaviour that i really really didn't like. But we chose to stay friends. We kept going ... (1048 words)

What can I do to get my boyfriend to stay with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4928 days ago

25 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Please help, me and my Boyfriend of 5 months ( doesnt seem long,but 5 months being official, we loved each other long before we went out.) We are perfect together, he always speaks to me morning and day, always making sure im okay and random calls, texts saying "iloveyou" and ... (277 words)

He has hit me before, but it was a accident...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4927 days ago

25 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I need advice, My live in boyfriend is a great guy but he has a very bad past. His father beat him and his mother all the time till she divorced him. I am scared he will turn out like him because he is very mean to me at times and he has hit me before but it was a accident. I ... (151 words)

Why shouldn't I be embarrassed about being a virgin?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4596 days ago

25 June 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey, I just have a quick question. I asked everyone here a while back whether I should tell my girlfriend that I'm a virgin or not and people kept telling me I shouldn’t be embarrassed about it. Why? Why shouldn’t I? Most guys loose their the vcard between 15 and 18, and I'm ... (74 words)

Every time I see a beautiful girl, my mind takes me to her and I always feel she is the best girl I have ever seen and is ideal for a girlfriend/wife!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4928 days ago

25 June 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi All, Hey guys and girls, please help me out. I am in a situation where I need your opinion/help. So here is my story I work in a organization for past 2 yrs . An year back I saw a girl who just sits at some distance from me . First time I saw her in the lift and develo... (491 words)

Why can't I keep a man?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4928 days ago

25 June 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I am an attractive woman, independent, loyal and have a big heart. But for some reason I cannot keep a man. I have had several relationships and cannot seem to keep a man. I am good in bed, cook, take very good care of my children, keep a clean home but my relationships never ... (273 words)

He said I should text him and then gave me his number...what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4927 days ago

25 June 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - So there's this really cute guy at my school. He's seriously perfect. The other day we were waiting for the bell to ring and he asked me if I wanted to take a walk with him and his friend. We walked for a while then we sat down. First he asked me if I had a cell phone with me. ... (144 words)

My husnband sucks my breasts in his sleep

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4928 days ago

25 June 2011 (?) age 36-40 - hello i have a doubt, my husband and i used to sleep naked at night, every thing is perfect, but in sleep he use to suckle my boobs, like baby, i suddenly woke up and asked whats wrong, he tells i am sorry, after a while he again starts sucking,i checked out whether he is actin... (135 words)

What to write?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4928 days ago

25 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Im getting my man one of they giant cookies the heart shaped one What the heck can I get written on it lol He knows I love him I tell him all the time lol Looking for something funny but sexy or aw a dunno lol Sounds really daft I know but a dunno lol Thanking you's x... (64 words)

I like to know exactly what my plans are for the weekend and for the first time, he was busy!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4928 days ago

25 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - what would you do in this situation, my partner and i of 3 years, have the routine of seeing eachother for a whole weekend, and have maybe one night (fri or sat) to hang with friends. EXCEPT this weekend he told me he was going out on friday and said he would see me on ... (470 words)

He says I don't make out like a girl?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4928 days ago

25 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - While making out (not sex..we havent yet..) my boyfriend says I dont seem like a girl..and I dont have that kinda feelings...what does that mean?? What should I do to be like a girl??... (34 words)

Will a fun car help me get a girlfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4928 days ago

25 June 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - alright its time that I get a new car or at least something fun to drive in the summer/weekends. I am looking at sports cars which isn't making my insurance company happy seeing as I am only 17. Well I have found two very different types. 87 Ford Mustang LX Notch or 93 ... (302 words)

Genital warts and sex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4928 days ago

25 June 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - if you have gential warts and you have sex with your partner with a condom. will he catch the std to even if the warts are gone ?... (28 words)

How can my girlfriend not feel anything?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4928 days ago

25 June 2011 (M) age 30-35 - my girlfriend says she does not "feel" anything when i touch her vagina...what does that mean???!! um so much worried...what should i do??? ... (23 words)

When I didn't want him he was around, and now that I want him, he's never around!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4927 days ago

25 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - When I didn't care about this guy, he'd constantly call/email/im me, now when I'm starting to really care and think about him, he's not doing it as much. Do you think this has something to do with the universe. LIke now that I want it, I can't get it, versus when I was going ... (146 words)

Boyfriend says my sex drive is craven, not glutenous. What does that mean?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4928 days ago

25 June 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear all,your views please! I have a high sex drive,and have been seeing my bf for four months. We had tons of sex at the start with both of us initiating. However,it now seems to be me starting things. Over the last few weeks,he has made me feel self concious about my sexual ... (156 words)

Random guy I met said he'd call but he hasn't. Why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4928 days ago

25 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I met this guy randomly on the road and he was interested in me, he asked for my number I took his. I called him 2 days later, we talked and my girlfriends and I had a party to go to, so I asked him if he could give me a ride to one of my girlfriends house. He was suppose to ... (141 words)

Why are guys intimidated by curves?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4928 days ago

25 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok, I know this sounds strange as most guys do like curves, but I feel as though mine are just wasted and I might as well lose weight and become a stick insect! lol! I was basically talking to a guy friend of mine, and he said most douche bags go after chicks who have bigger ... (243 words)

After 3 years, shouldn't he know if this relationship is going somewhere?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4928 days ago

25 June 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - i am going out with this guy for 3 years and 2 mos. now. six months ago we had a conversation about plans in life and marriage. well, he said he was planning of marriage with me but he was not promising anything. I thought the reason why he is not proposing yet is because i was ... (126 words)

He's Un-Contactable And Somehow Impossible To Be Friends The Least!!!!!!!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4928 days ago

25 June 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - There's this guy from a party. He seems to like me. He talked to me, we had fun.. etc. He didn't really talked to other people, more to me. (According to my friends) He even said to a friend that I was still a minor. So he said that probably next year he would start c... (289 words)

I want to lose weight but not become too thin. Any advice?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4928 days ago

25 June 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Sooo this isn't really a relationship question, but I just need some advice. I'm 5'3, I use to weigh 5 stone. I went to hospital and put on 4 stone, the medication I was on had a side affect of weight gain. Since then I've lost 1 stone; so I now weigh 8. I'm slim but cu... (246 words)

I don't want to feel like an ugly outcast anymore!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4928 days ago

25 June 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi. Ive got abit of a problem i have really low self esteem and i am adiment that i am pretty much fuck ugly. Its kinda holding me back i know looks arent everything but in like socity these days unless you are pretty your not really treated the same as other people, I think ... (616 words)

Trying to know how to deal with a friend (whom I have feelings for) from making the worst decision of his life!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4928 days ago

25 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm just really upset right now over this guy(how typical), say Ned. We met at the beginning of the year at the start of our course. I'm 19 and he's 21. We're both touchy feely people, so when we hugged alot, I never got to think twice and I basically treated him as a best ... (477 words)

Its rude to ask my sexuality, right?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4928 days ago

25 June 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - any idea why people just randomly ask my sexuality??? that is rude right? or i just "look" gay or something wrong with how i project myself to them??? seriously? how do you even know who's gay/lesbian who's not? and homo vibe or sigh...is that event accurate? don't you t... (65 words)

Does he still want to marry me even though he knows that's not possible?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4925 days ago

25 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello.. well my boyfriend is Christian and i am a Muslim girl and we have been together for over 2 years. lately we have been talking about marriage and kids, but the problem is that i cant marry him because his not Muslims. lately we both been reading the quran togeth... (112 words)

I'm afraid of sex! What to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4928 days ago

25 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - The idea of sleeping with someone scares me. Whenever such a possibility arises, tons of questions start buzzing in my head. What if he'll be put off by my inexperience? What if I don't know how to please him? I'm also very insecure about my body. I'm working on the l... (161 words)

How would you know your boyfriend is cheating?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4926 days ago

25 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - How would you know that your boyfriend is cheating on you??? What strong signs that he is doing it???... (19 words)

Do I have any chance to get my ex back?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4925 days ago

25 June 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - My ex broke up with me nearly 1 month ago and to be honest i'm still struggling, feeling wreck, we were together for 2 years, physically 1 year and 10 month and we're in long distance now.... So this is one of the reason that she broke up with me i think but she gave me several ... (783 words)

He obviously wants more. Can I keep him as a friend? Or just tell him it was only sex, nothing more?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4928 days ago

25 June 2011 (?) age 30-35 - About 5 to 6 years ago I dated this guy Joe for about a week, I was his first and only girlfriend. I was the new kid still and he made me laugh. For whatever reason I broke up with him and over the years I have been hearing things that solidified my descison. A couple days ago ... (239 words)

My jealous brother is try to break up my family. How can I stop him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4928 days ago

25 June 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - my question is how can i keep my jealous brother away from me and my family. He is trying to break use apart? ... (25 words)

What is wrong with me? Two months now. Will I ever get over my ex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4928 days ago

25 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - What is wrong with me? when will I get better? I loved my ex boyfriend so much. He was so nice and sweet. I was so happy with him. But he broke up with me saying he doesn't want a relationship. Two months later he rang me saying he wants us to be friends cos he thinks I am a ni... (198 words)

Is he lying? Am I over reacting? Or how could this problem happen with the phone?

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 4927 days ago

25 June 2011 (?) age 30-35 - Hey Everyone, I have a serious problem ....Ok myself and my fiance are in love and we live together hes a great man I never once had him cheat on me or anything. but today I found something that really upset me and he says he didn't do it, what happened was I washed his pants ... (584 words)

I need to know how important is it to guys that your Gf/wife is a virgin? And why?

This question has 40 answers - newest was posted 4907 days ago

25 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I was just curious... Does it really matter to guys that the girl they want to marry or want to spent the rest of their lives with is a virgin or not??? I mean I don't see the reason why this has to be a big issue with couples.... For me all I ever wanted would be a trust ... (136 words)

Why was she so nasty when there was no reason for her to be jealous?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4929 days ago

25 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Shortly after my bf and I had a huge fight and pretty much broken up one of his friends who is a girl came up to me. She thought she knew all about me and the situation. She started calling me ugly and other putdowns. She said she might as well admit that she likes him and wa... (139 words)

Should I try to fix this or just move on? We both have trouble compromising.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4928 days ago

25 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My bf and I have been in this situation for few months and we are still fixing it. Well the problem is neither of us wants to give way and compromise. He has been rude to me lately and out of my anger in return I'm being stubborn and don't listen to him anymore. We have trie... (256 words)

What can I do about this unbearable pain in my vagina during sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4928 days ago

25 June 2011 (?) age 36-40 - Whenever my fiance and I are having sex I have unbearable pain inside my vagina. It's feels like cuts inside and also hot. What can I do to stop this pain because it's really interfering wit my sex life. Please help. ... (45 words)

Should I keep waiting, hoping she will change and eventually like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4929 days ago

25 June 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I know they say you cant change anybody, they have to want to change. But then I read the stories about the guy who waits 100 days in front of a girl's window to prove his love, and eventually she comes around. I have been friends with a girl for a long time. She's real prett... (308 words)

How can I tell the difference between a nice friend and a guy who wants more?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4929 days ago

25 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone, I'm currently 20 years old and still unsure of men/relationship stuff so I thought this site was perfect to ask something that's been on my mind for a while. I've been friends with this guy for about two years now, but its only been within the last year that I... (655 words)

Is my gf still in love with her ex??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4927 days ago

25 June 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I can't stop thinking my gf is still in love with her ex. They were together for like 3 years. She tells me she's not and that she loves me but she has told me she wants me to meet him (wtf--why?) And I said I didn't want to. She hung out with him at the park the other day ... (222 words)

Boyfriend says he needs a short break from our relationship, but his silence makes me think it's over for good.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4927 days ago

25 June 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I just want to ask for your thoughts. I terribly miss my BF. We've been off for 2 weeks. He asked for a space 2 weeks ago coz we've been arguing on some things and one of these really touched his ego. He was asking for a 1 week space but on the 5th day, we met ... (228 words)

Should I risk quitting my government job for a boyfriend who I haven't ever met in person?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4924 days ago

25 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Aunts, I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 18 months now. We met online on facebook and started it out by being friends. I know it kinda makes no sense coz we live a world apart and never seen each other in person before. But anyway it is quite complicate... (380 words)

Husband cheated on me with 2 girls and has babies with both, but refuses to leave me. What should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4926 days ago

25 June 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, I have a question. I have been with my husband 11 years. We have 2 kids. I just found out at the end of the year he has cheated on me twice and has two kids with two different girls. I feel betrayed and don't know what to do. I don't know if I should leave him we just ... (147 words)

Am I right in wanting more of a commitment from my bf, whom I've lived with for 2.5 years, other than moving to a new place and buying our furniture?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4712 days ago

25 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, Would really appreciate some advice as I cannot find any useful articles online. Ive been with my boyfriend for a few years and we have lived together for two and a half years. In the past, it wasn't too serious and we rented places that have furniture. Now we are movin... (343 words)

Should I tell my neighbor that her husband is probably cheating on her?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4928 days ago

25 June 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi Goodpeople, I need some advices here... The couple and my family used to live in same neighborhood. We go to the same church, but we are not that close. They are at middle of 50s and have several grown up children, and grandchildren. About a year ago, my husband and... (200 words)

My BF doesn't want to go for my niece's christening and doesn't want me to go either. If I do, he would break up with me. What should I do?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4928 days ago

25 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - What would you do if you were me? Hello. Some advice please. I come from a very close family and we are not religious at all. My sister however has decided to get my niece christened. When my boyfriend found out about this he was totally against it, he is a complete atheist... (241 words)

If this guy who I met through an online dating site didn't like me, then why did he keep calling and texting me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4926 days ago

25 June 2011 (F) age 36-40 - I met a guy through an online dating site, but he lives in another state. For about two weeks, we talked on the phone everyday for hours at a time and texted and emailed each other throughout the day. He talked about moving to my state eventually and he planned to come see me ... (444 words)

How did I get myself into this? My dream girl on one side and my GF and kids on the other side!1

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4928 days ago

25 June 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm currently in a 7 year long relationship w/ kids but here goes I met this girl on fb started to chat, she didnt look too good but was funny and was making lots of sexual innuendo and she caught my eye at some point. I invited her to the beach and to my surprise she is absol... (387 words)