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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Is she just wanting to take it slowly? Am I completely missing her signals? What's going on?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4891 days ago

30 June 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Just been out on a 2nd date with a girl I'm interested in. We met online so this was literally the second time we've met. Much like the first date conversation was free and easy. We laughed and joked a lot and seemed to be enjoying each others company. Unfortunately the night ... (335 words)

Question for the ladies: Do you find that there's a lot of variation from one man to the next in terms of how good the sex is, or do the vast majority of men tend to fall roughly in the middle range?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4612 days ago

30 June 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Question for the ladies: do you find that there's a lot of variation from one man to the next in terms of how good the sex is, or do the vast majority of men tend to fall roughly in the middle range? As a man, I'd have to say the old saying that "sex is like pizza -when it's... (162 words)

How do I pursuade my b/f to break the boundaries that we set up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4890 days ago

30 June 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Im 15 and me and my boyfriend were makingout. I dont know why i did this but i pressured him into touching my breast we both thonk we took it to far but i want it more now. How do i perrsude him to break the boundries and also why did i have the urge to pressure him into doing ... (62 words)

Second chance..do I deserve it with this guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4891 days ago

30 June 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - When i was 14 i was really close with this guy, we were so close for about 1 and a half years, then he asked me out. He would have been my first ever boyfriend but because of that i freaked out and said no. After that for a while it was awkward beween us but after a month we ... (152 words)

Crushing on a guy 4 years younger than my father! WHY?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4886 days ago

30 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok,This is really complecated,I'm having a crush on a guy who's like 20 years older than me.I don't know why? I had like 100 crushes and all were of My age.But this is new. I never had a relationship and My father and mother got devorced and he left me with my mom,but that's ... (220 words)

Can I kick start puberty?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4891 days ago

30 June 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - Well! I'm nearly 14 and I have had no signs of starting puberty and its getting embarresing! I have had no growth spurts or anything and I'm getting self councious about it now and I was wondereing if there was anyway to kick start puberty and what symptoms should I look out ... (55 words)

Can't make friends or make any impact on anyone. No-one cares for me as I do them.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4892 days ago

30 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there, I have a problem with making friends with people. I get nervous around people and don't know what to talk about. I don't do much minus work and sleep and it takes a second to say I went shopping at the weekend or went to church. People i did call my friends w... (464 words)

Is my ex still upset about us breaking up?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4890 days ago

30 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Do you think my ex is still upset about us breaking up ?. He sent me a message a couple of weeks ago out of the blue saying " well, i hope your life is better, and that you are happy, i really do " . We've spoken again a couple of times since then, and at first he said he would ... (232 words)

I wanted this online guy to respect me, but was it all just fun for him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4892 days ago

30 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I need some help. Recently I started talking and flirting with this guy online and he lives about 3.5 hrs from me. He saw my pictures and thought I was hott but he didn't have any up. We talked for awhile and I was 'charmed' by his personality. He eventually posted some ... (350 words)

Why do people resort to lying?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4865 days ago

30 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hello dear cupid, a quick question - why do people resort to lying? why are some people complusive liars? And even when you know the truth and they know you know the truth, they still lie and try wriggle their way out of it, even if it makes them look stupid? Is a compulsi... (224 words)

To threesome or not to threesome...mature answers only please!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4890 days ago

30 June 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for a little over 2 years now. Recently, we've hit a few rough patches and I'm trying to spice up and revive our relationship. One of his fantasies is to have a threesome with a woman that neither one of us know. We have discussed how we ... (169 words)

After 7 years of online friendship we are going to meet, but now I am worried!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4892 days ago

30 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been talking to a guy online for 7 years, we'll call him Adam we talked pretty much constantly, I had a boyfriend for 5 of the years and I have a 11 month old little boy, me and my boyfriend split up because of problems between us and his anger issues. I've been talk... (480 words)

Should I send my ex a text to show him I care or leave the ball in his court?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4892 days ago

30 June 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok... so i dated my ex for 2 years and i broke up with him about 10 months ago. Throughout the past 9 months, he's been trying to get back with me, but i didn't think it was something i wanted. I recently saw him out with his 2 friends- one of whom he told me he's "hanging" ... (284 words)

Can a relationship work if both of you alienate your entire family?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4892 days ago

30 June 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - One question....Can a relationship survive/work if you alienate your entire family on both sides?? Anyone been in the situation where you have been in a relationship and your entire family are against you?... (34 words)

Girlfriend always thinks I'm going to repeat what I've done in the past!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4892 days ago

30 June 2011 (?) age 30-35 - I need help me and my gf are going through a major fight she thinks I will never change when I already have she dwells in the past thinking I will lie to her and cheat on her when I won't I love her to death I would do anything for her I never want to loose her I know I've done ... (102 words)

Every time I go on a diet I end up putting back on every single pound

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4892 days ago

30 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I know this isn't a relationship question or anything, but I could do with some help? I'm 20 years old and having some insecurities with myself. I'm 5ft 4 and 10st, a UK 12-14 and hate it. My breasts are a size 34G and and cause me constant pain in my back, neck and shoulde... (190 words)

Should I believe there is hope or he just lying?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4892 days ago

30 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay, I have another big question. So I call him yesterday and we talked for about 14 minutes, and he tells me he still loves me. I ask him if he thought we could ever be again. He says well you'd have to straighten a lot of your crap out. Then he says I need time to think. ... (126 words)

This is not your typical FWB situation... I'm in desperate need of advice and insight.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4891 days ago

30 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Well, it all started a few years ago when I met this guy. We became instant friends and we have been really close ever since we met. Since we met we have almost been inseperable. Sure, we've had our fall outs, but what longterm friendship wouldn't? I guess our friendship was ... (613 words)

The past is ruining our future, how can I leave the past behind me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4892 days ago

30 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, I've been in a great relationship for five years with my boyfriend. I love him a lot, and most of the time things are really good between us. Unfortunately, we've had a long distance relationship because he moved back to Argentina to go to medical school. He cheat... (337 words)

Seeing him each Friday is the greatest 10 minutes of my week! So how do I stop liking him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4886 days ago

30 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - so, where to start, i am 17 and am in love with a man who is quite a lot older than me (he is 38) and ironicly i met him through his wifes' parents and he brother, who are all family friends. i see him on a friday night when i get dinner at the chip shop he owns and thoses are ... (115 words)

Should I leave him and look for someone who puts in more effort?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4892 days ago

30 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Should I break up with my boyfriend? He has great wonderful qualities, and I do love him, but I feel like he doesn't put a lot of effort into our relationship. I don't know if my expectations are too high, but are there guys out there who really put more effort into ... (78 words)

How do I stop from always fighting?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4892 days ago

30 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - DEAR CUPID and everyone else, I've been with my boyfriend for two years now and things are going great I love him with everything but he sometimes does alot of stupid things that really irk me for example he was suppose to meet me and said he was on his way but lied cause he ... (173 words)

Boyfriend doesn't need me as much?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4891 days ago

30 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I chat online everyday, but sometimes work gets in the way, and days go by. My boyfriend rarely uses his phone, and he doesnt like texting me often, because we're LDR and its expensive for him, though I've offered to help pay. I'm hurt he doesnt want t... (125 words)

My inlaws hate me I've never done anything to them, what can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4892 days ago

30 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Since I found out my SIL is moving closer to us my anxiety is outta control. We moved states away from the Inls and I was so relieved for years. My Inls hate me they do not do anything for our son. My husband has stood his ground to these people about them disrespecting me and ... (247 words)

How can I drop hints to let her know that I like her and how can I prepare for possibly asking her out in September?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4892 days ago

30 June 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Alright so there is this girl i had met at university who i really liked and coincidentally she lived in the room next to mine in residence so we got to know one another by the end of the year. So here is my problem, for most of the school year she had a boyfriend which wa... (275 words)

My son is taking after his aggressive father. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4892 days ago

30 June 2011 (?) age 36-40 - I have a son who will be turning 4 at the beginning of September. He is a sweet little boy and loves giving hugs and being silly; however he is very agressive the past few months. He primarily likes playing alone, occassionally he enjoys playing with the other children. When he ... (154 words)

Huge strain on our relationship because BF still talks to his ex and I don't know what to do about it.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4892 days ago

30 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi my name is Mila, I am in a relationship and I am not sure what to do. In January I started talking to a guy in my college, I had seen him before but did not think much of it. After the first day of talking to him he seemed like a good guy howeveri had already stereotyped him ... (654 words)

I allowed an out of town friend to stay at my house and now my boyfriend doesn't trust me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4892 days ago

30 June 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My friends, am back again yet with another issue, what happened last saturday is something i did without thinking and i didnt now the outcome,we were having drinks with my boyfriend and two of his friends and one of his friend brought another friend from another city, then my ... (280 words)

Why do so many girls, such as myself, go for complete JERKS?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4889 days ago

30 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - A general question, for everyone out there. Why do so many girls, such as myself, go for complete JERKS? I'm meet these lovely, kind, hard-working and attractive men, who have similar interests as me and whom I can really talk to, but I'm just not interested in them! I k... (209 words)

Questions regarding a threesome...

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4872 days ago

30 June 2011 (?) age 36-40 - My boyfriend really wants a threesome. It will be me and him (obviously) and one of his friends, who is male. I have told him i wasnt interested but he is kinda talking me into it. however i do need some questions asking. Is it a good idea to be having sex with one of his frie... (155 words)

She doesn't believe that she's beauiful! Should I ask her out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4892 days ago

30 June 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - hi i'm 16 and i am a lesbian, and i am friends with a girl who is also a lesbian (she told me) She is beautiful but doesn't belive me when i tell her, slim, athletic, smart funny and really nice, And she just got dumped by her ex, and she is really depressed and wants to find ... (70 words)

Does anyone else sneeze when they get horny?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4344 days ago

30 June 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - Does anyone else sneeze when they get horny? I have had this happen to me for many years. Whenever I get really horny, or think of something very erotic, I often start a sneezing fit. It's like the blood or adrenaline rushes to my head and sinuses, tickles them and I just ... (76 words)

Should I send online boyfriend poem? Or wait till we meet?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4892 days ago

30 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I met this guy a year ago online on a dating website. We're getting along so well. We are from the same country but he lives abroad! So we have the same cultural background and everything. At the beginning he used to call more than once each day . Later his calls became... (176 words)

Boyfriend wants to know WHY exactly do I love him! What do I say?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4889 days ago

30 June 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have not been dating my boyfriend a long time but I have fallen in love with him. I told he recently. We have a strong connection and chemistry since the day we met. He means so much to me and I dont think he understands. Im thankful for the day that he approached me, and the ... (303 words)

Emotionally abusive, untrusting, 10 year older boyfriend wants kids with me NOW, or else he's gone.

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4889 days ago

30 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone. Some background info for my question: I'm 22, my boyfriend is 32. We've been living together about 2 years. We have had some problems in the past due to his emotional unstability. He has been jealous and paranoid, he has been emotionally abusive. He still is... (266 words)

First time kiss, what should I do when it happens?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4892 days ago

30 June 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm going to see a movie with my boyfriend tomorrow and I'm kinda worrying that he's gonna kiss me, well, because this will be my first kiss :/ I'm nervous just thinking about it, what should I do? I want to kiss him, but I just want to make sure it goes right.. ... (65 words)

I love being fingered and it doesn't hurt, will sex still hurt?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4892 days ago

30 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, i was wondering, im still a virgin but my boyfriend fingers me, i love it and i dont feel any pain. Is this good? does this mean sex wont hurt so much for me?... (41 words)

Will going on the pill mean I will put on weight? Or should I see a gynacologist instead?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4892 days ago

30 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm currently in a relationship with an amazing guy. he's the first boyfriend i've ever had and the first person iv'e had any sexual contact whatsoever with. I also recently lost my virginity to him as well, and he wore a condom both times we've had sex. Since we've starte... (380 words)

How to make tossing off a boy special

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4892 days ago

30 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend have decided to wait a couple of months till sex, but we are doing other things, i want to make tossing him off extra special or nice for him, any good tips or tricks that they like? ... (41 words)

B/f has no understanding of my feelings! I don't want to be with a man like that!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4892 days ago

30 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I love my boyfriend so much and i know that he loves me too with all his heart but my problem is he cant understand me! my feelings(emotional),why i sometimes cry w/out reason,when i say nothing,when I'm in silence..everything! he cant understand what a woman feels in short,we ... (233 words)

Why is my husband comparing our marriage to my best friend's?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4862 days ago

30 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - hi there, i've been married for merely two months and already I'm miserable! For the past two weeks we've beem arguing none stop. last nite he told me that I should be more like my best friend (who also recently got married) and be more of a woman and grow up! nw we've been dat... (281 words)

Is he a player? Does he love me? Or is it all just a joke?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4892 days ago

30 June 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, well i have Question .. There is this guy i met, and im not shure if he likes mee .. On his facebook it says he is in a relationship, and there is this girl that writes on his wall, ' i love you ' . and he said it back, and then when i talked to him he was like, ' ... (309 words)

No pregnancy options?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4887 days ago

30 June 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I haven't had sex, and I don't plan on it anytime soon, but I am curious. If I were to be on the pill, have the guy have a condom on, make him pull out properly, and take the morning after pill...what are the chances I would become pregnant? Is it possible that even through all ... (120 words)

Guy I like broke up with me after seeing blood from my period during sex. What can I do??

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 4889 days ago

30 June 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I had a huge crush on somebody that I met 3 years ago. He was so cute and from another state. From the first time we met, we knew exactly that we were attracted to each other. He stayed at the hotel and we exchanged our cell phone numbers. The sex was so wonderful, until one ... (177 words)

Does the guy I have feelings for really like me, or should I just go date the other guy who I like less but for sure likes me??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4891 days ago

30 June 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, please can you give me your opinions on this situation. I met a guy in March this year. We started seeing each other or so I thought. I asked him after 8 weeks how he felt about me. He said it was just sex so I broke contact with him and told him I felt used. We didn't ... (153 words)

Friend's brother is ignoring me because I like him and there is an age difference between us. What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4892 days ago

30 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a really close friend , She is perhaps one of my best friends. But every time I'm with her i think of her brother.He's the problem. She has no problem at all with me liking him well except she calls it gross and you know the family thing. We just laugh it off. Her ... (273 words)

If he likes me, why is he flirting with other girls??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4892 days ago

30 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So my best friend recently told me that her older brother likes me. I have always liked him so i started flirting w/ him a little; nothing too obvious though. She told me he wanted to make a move. But for the past couple of days now it seems like he has been talking/flirting ... (101 words)

I am 16 and obsessed with sex. What is wrong with me??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4875 days ago

30 June 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - So I'm having a hard time: I'm 16 and all i want is sex. I am so consumed with the world of sex and the sexual community since i had sex for the first time last year. Sex is all i think about. I don't know whats wrong with me. I want sex all of the time but i feel so dirty and ... (165 words)

If I tell him how I feel, will it ruin our friendship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4892 days ago

30 June 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - So, this guy and I have been texting for about...a year now. He goes to my school, and is a few months older than me. He's in a younger grade (only because I went to school early.) Anyways, a few months after we started texting last year he admitted that he had an interest in ... (176 words)

Am I abusive to my bf?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4884 days ago

30 June 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a girl, but I come from a long line of very similar men. I take after my father in personality, and that personality includes some obsessive behavior and addictive behavior. I'm worried I may have also inherited some of the family abusive behavior. I'm currently in a r... (156 words)