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writes:Ok i had written a problem before but i forgot to mention some stuff. Ok to begin with, ive been with my girlfriend 1 1/2 years, i feel under appreciated. She doest show effort, love. talks to her friends more easliy than she does with me. She has ignored me for her friends. We dont kiss any more (in other words no physical love). I try flirting with her, but it doesnt work all the time. I feel bored with her and at one point my frustration with her almost lead for me to break up with her. Im her first b.f and shes scared to try new things but cmon she doesnt tell me how she feels about me other than on the phone. Ive told her about everything thats bothered me and she has noticed that i get the attention i want from other people therefor she has said she would try more (shes said this lord know how many times) but she always goes back to her usual ignoring ways. I feel like a friend.....but speaking of friends, she has a friend (that they really dont talk at all) and she talks to me and i find myself wishing that my g.f would be like her. I mean i really like this girl. Shes cool, funny, very pretty, and she makes efforts to talk to me even thru text (my g.f doesnt talk to me until 9 p.m everyday). I feel part of her world and now that its summer, i recently went out with my friends and she was there and i had loads of fun with her.I guess i feel happier with her because i feel like a third wheel with my g.f. Shes hard to get to but this friend of hers makes me happier. So ive talk about my girlfriend about taking time and breaking up but she doesnt want to because she said she would try and i belive her but it goes back to the usual way.I think i still love her but then again i miss her friend. Do i break up with my g.f?? I'm torn apart, frustrated, and anxious (to talk to her friend). What do i do? (again im adding to a previous question)
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reader, Welsh Uncle Dave  +, writes (9 June 2011):
Sort your relationship out before going after others (especially friends).
It seems however that it may be time time to move on from your current gf and it doesn't seem to be working and you have tried without success.
Jumping straight into another doesnt always work either and if they are friends of a gf or ex then don't expect an easy ride from those around you.
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