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female
age
30-35,
*oveinghim
writes:We talk often enough. We go to the same college but right now are in different cities because of internships. The only thing is is that I don't know how much he is into me because we'll have long conversations that can last hours but for the most part i'm the only initiating contact though he contacts every now and again. I'm still worried about wether he is actually interested in me or if i'm just annoying him by contacting him so much. Is it possible it's just because he's a shy type of guy or that he's just not that into me?
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (8 June 2011):
 you can stop initiating the conversations and see if he starts them.
in the beginning of my LDR I was the one who nurtured and started all the emails etc. I was the primary phone caller for a long time... he was receptive however... it was just that he was not ready to put his heart on the line... after he was, it became way more 50/50....
but if you think you are the only one rowing your relationship boat, stop rowing and see if it moves forward or stands still, then you will have your answer.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 June 2011): Hey this is simple.
You just stop initiating and the proof will be in the pudding.
If he contacts you then its positive.
If he doesn't then its negative.
Trust me on this one. Stop initiating and wait however long it takes for him to initiate.
UKLifecoach
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