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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

 

We're planning to get married, but he wouldn't put me up for a few nights??

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4 June 2011 (F age 36-40 - I need help! I have been dating my boyfriend for a year and a half. I'm 25 and he's 32. Recently, we have been looking a houses and setting plans (in the belief that we would be getting married in the near future). We went ring shopping almost a year ago, I know he purchased a ... (419 words

Guys: What do you like to hear during phone sex?

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4 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - I need help loosening up durning phone sex i'm not a prude by any stretch of the imagination and i've had phone sex before, many times, but i don't know i just kind of froze up durning phone sex i was nervous about how he'd react to what i was saying how can i relax more... (99 words

Can he want me for more than sex?

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4 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - Is it possible that a guy can originally want you purely for sex and then for some reason want more? or am i just being completely stupid?... (30 words

All my b/f wants to do is take naps and have sex!

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4 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - I feel like my boyfriend takes me for granted and has gotten way too comfortable in the relationship. All he mostly wants to do nowadays is to take naps with me or have sex (nap and sex usually go hand in hand). I've tried many times to suggest doing other stuff like watch ... (184 words

Help with the dating game

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4 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - There is this guy, and we both like each other. We're in the new throws of dating, still it's all very new and mysterious. Here's my problem- I tend to give my heart away fast. Im never ouvertly clingy, but I tend to fall really fast and unconsiously lose my mystery. I've watc... (241 words

B/f said "I used to have a skinny girlfriend, now I have one with big boobs!"

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4 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for a little over a year and it's pretty much perfect. He does a lot for me and I know he loves me a lot. Now about my problem; I have PCOS along with a thyroid issue. I don't consider myself obese but I'm not skinny. My boyfriend has obviously seen ... (131 words

Romantic love stories?

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4 June 2011 (M age 26-29 - Hey has anyone got any amazing and romantic love stories that they want to share I would be most grateful to hear them Thanks... (25 words

I kissed his best friend and now he doesn't acknowledge me! What did I do wrong!?

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4 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - Last week i was caught in the moment and kissed this guy that i really liked. But what i didn't know was his best friend who is my friend, liked me!? And now he (not the one i kissed) is being off and doesn't talk to me or even look at me!? In fact, last night i was hang... (262 words

Much older boyfriend's family doesn't approve of me!

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4 June 2011 (F age 36-40 - My boyfriend is 20 years older than me. He is 45 and I am 25. His family has excluded me from family events. My boyfriend got upset because recently his family had a reunion but didn't invite me. Now.. he realized on his own that his family does not approve of our relationship. ... (152 words

Sexy surprise for my b/f who has been away?

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4 June 2011 (F age 36-40 - Hey, I'm looking for some ideas for a sexy surprise for my bf who gets home tomorrow after being away for a week. He's been on a stag holiday, doing surfing, sky diving, those kind of activities, and has texted me throughout to say he's been missing me. So, I want to give him ... (142 words

How do I rid myself of the pain because of a selfish person?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4917 days ago

4 June 2011 (M age 30-35 - Hi,can anyone offer me good advice on how to rid yourself of the pain,hurt and anger you feel towards someone you loved deeply as they ended your relationship because they are plain and simply selfish... (35 words

Is it normal to be this in love without meeting someone?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4611 days ago

4 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - Help! for nearly a year i have been talking to a turkish guy online and i can honestly say that i really like him. Hes so lovely and although i have never met him in person, im sure i will like him. he is really like my dream man and he honestly seems to like me too. ive seen ... (211 words

Why has my ex turned mean again?

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4 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - I have asked quite a few q's about this, each one being a little different. Anyway this person used to be my boyfriend but it didn't last long because we both didn't really know what we were doing and we both (even though he denied it) hurt eachother. It has been over 1/2 a ... (488 words

Lost interest in Sex. Wife angrily says I will get it back with another woman. Is this true?

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4 June 2011 (M age - I have a sexual dysfunction ,what started 8 years ago. The doctor couldn't diagnose me with any condition,what can cause this. Not even after several specialists visit. As strange as it sounds ,I don't know why do I have this problem. That I lost interest in sex, and I lose ... (185 words

I Don't appreciate family's racist remarks. How can I deal with this?

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4 June 2011 (F age 36-40 - Hi Aunts and Uncles, So, here's my problem. I'm of white-Asian heritage and my (white) father's family is racist. In the past, they've made derogatory remarks about my "dark" features, and tend to make a lot of negative generalizations about Asians. For a long time, I did... (236 words

Addicted to Gay Porn - What can I do to stop?

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4 June 2011 (M age 36-40 - Dear Aunt, am addicted to gay porn but i want to stop it how can i do.... (20 words

Not Into My Girl - but am Interested in Guys. What should I do?

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4 June 2011 (M age 36-40 - am 27yrs,man engaged but i don't stay with my lover,some times i feel like having relationship with fellow men.men get attracted to me whenever i pass over them,some ask for my contacts.but i feel i want to stay in relationship with my girl .so help me ... (46 words

She's fine, but I'd kinda rather be single

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4917 days ago

4 June 2011 (M age 26-29 - Hey guys need some help here, me and my gf have been together for about 2 months but I dont know if I should stay with her. I mean I like being in a relationship but I also miss being single. There is nothing wrong with her and she is my first real girlfriend, she had problem ... (103 words

Is this a trust issue or just PMS?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4918 days ago

4 June 2011 (? age 30-35 - I need help my girlfriend always thinks wrong. Today i woke up and called her but she wasn't picking up so I kept calling then she finally answered and she was mad because she thought I was talking to another girl because I called her late. Now she thinks I'm cheating on her ... (90 words

My friend doesn't use facebook or her phone. How does she do it?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4918 days ago

4 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - I find it very strange that my best friend doesn't have facebook and hardly uses her mobile!? She's 18 so it's werid enough she doesn't have facebook, but the other day i realized she isn't a fan of using her phone either!?? It just is VERY rare of someone our age to do!?! ... (167 words

I want a guy with drive and ambition -- and he's not looking like that guy

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4916 days ago

4 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - Ive been with my boyfriend for 3 years (on and off). I have never cheated on him, nor i never would. I would never lie to him either. We met in high school when I was 15 and he was 17. When I first met him, he seemed like the character that would grow into being a sucessful ... (457 words

Unattractive, no confidence, how do I talk to girls?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4904 days ago

4 June 2011 (M age 30-35 - Basicly i am a very unattractive guy, i have no confidence whatsover in myself or my appearence , i want to change how i look but do not have the guts to do it and i want to know how to talk to girls, and i dont know if i girl is genuinly interested or just nicely saying no. s... (64 words

Hold in my emotions or let them out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3316 days ago

4 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - Lets say something happened to you, something that frustrates you, eats you inside, fills you with anger and makes you so upset... Do you think it is better to keep how you really feel to yourself. So that you can deal with it in your time, or learn to block those feeling an... (235 words

Come on, sister, get your own life!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4917 days ago

4 June 2011 (F age 51-59 - i've been married for a long time now and have 1 huge complaint about my husbands sister. Honestly, she calls him at least 10-12 times everyday and I find it extremely annoying and would love to tell her so; i have dropped hints by the tone in my voice. Every morning, during ... (173 words

I'm scared they're going to think I'm a slut or easy!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4917 days ago

4 June 2011 (F age 26-29 - I feel like a slut because in drama class these guys I was sitting next to were feeling on my boobs I kinda like it but I kept on her my friend voice in my head telling me to stop so I said do go in there like my shirt but if one did it the other one had to do it to so the ... (122 words

What does 'mxm' mean?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4915 days ago

4 June 2011 (F age 26-29 - does any 1 have an idea what a guy means by 'mxm' cause my bf wount tell me and i realy realy wantto know ... (27 words

Can anyone explain to me why she would follow and watch me like that?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4918 days ago

4 June 2011 (M age 30-35 - Okay so I broke up with my girlfriend a few weeks ago, haven't seen or talked to her since, I find it better this way, easier to move on. But last night I was out with friends, and one of them told me she was sitting right outside. I do not feel ready to see her again, as I'... (230 words

I'm really fond of her. How do I go about this without losing our friendship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4918 days ago

4 June 2011 (M age 30-35 - I am 18 and interested in a girl who has joined our friendship group [the same age]. She is quite flirty, especially the second time we all went out together, where she was keen to dance get quite close. Nothing has happened, although I pecked her on the lips jokingly on the ... (150 words

I love my guy but we fight a lot and he doesn't seem to care. What should I do?

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4 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - HI....its wid great pain i type this..my guy and me are in love since a yr and quarter and for recent months we are in frequent fights about him being so careless to me.i talked a lot several times to him but nothin changed.problem is he seems to spend more time with his ... (103 words

Found a lump in my right breast, but I'm too scared to go to the doctor!

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4 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - i know this might seem a bit weird, but iv noticed a lumb in my right breast, at first i just ignored it as i thought it may just be beacuse i lost weight and they are changing, but know i am a bit worried. i am to scared and ashamed to tell anyone, and to embaressed to go... (82 words

Help! I've lost my motivation in life. How can I get it back?

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4 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - hey, my life is falling apart and i nothing is helping. i only have a part time job and although i am greatful that i got a job, i never have enough money. due to this im losing all my friends as they go out and do things and i cant because i never have money. i dont dr... (188 words

My friends children are spoiled and misbehave all the time! How can I get her to see that this isn't normal?

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4 June 2011 (F age 41-50 - Parents out there please help!!! I need some advice so I can help my friend with her children who are a nightmare! I don't have children myself so I apologise in advance if I offend anyone . My friend has 2 children- a 10 year old girl and a 4 year old boy and they ar... (393 words

I read that sex without a condom increases risk of cervical cancer. Is this true?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4918 days ago

4 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have sex without a condom. We were both virgins when we met and I'm on the Pill so there's no risk of STD's or pregnancy. However, I was reading my pamphlet for the Pill and at one point it said sex without a condom increases the risk of cervical cancer, but ... (85 words

I'm trying to move on from this girl, by seeing her friend. She found out and now she won't talk to me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4918 days ago

4 June 2011 (M age 30-35 - I need to know if I am being a jerk her or not. So I been and exchange student for a year and after I came back home I started to have feeling for my female best friend. She had a boyfriend of 1 year at that time. I wanted to surpress my feelings for her at first but I ... (536 words

So was it really my ugly self this whole time? :(

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4 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - [Moderator note: Users own title] I am crying so bad as i right this i feel horrible right now, so my boyfriend looked at porn and i found out about a year and a half ago and i came online for help because i have such a low self esteem and i felt like i was not good enough w... (629 words

Xt Is it unrealistic to want a relationship where you never argue?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4918 days ago

4 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - If arguments are to be expected in a relationship, how do you meet someone who has the same level of tolerance for arguments? I once had a boyfriend who would argue with me all the time, I could set a timer on and he'd argue with me at that exact time, like a habit. I told him ... (490 words

In a long distance relationship, and we won't be able to meet again until 2012!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4914 days ago

4 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - i am in a ldr committed relationship since 2 years. last time i met my bf was december 2010. now my bf said that he will meet me on may 2012!!! this is because he has to study hard this year to go to a good college next year.he's taking one year drop. but m going to go... (119 words

Should I get to know this girl better? Does she like me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4912 days ago

4 June 2011 (M age 30-35 - hello, i'll get straight to the point. There's this girl at my school who is known as the slut of sluts and the b!tch of b!tches. Anyways, in the past she has always treated my friends and i badly. She called me a nerd once, and im not, i do two different sports(rugby and... (517 words

I am so confused about girls!

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4 June 2011 (M age 30-35 - well i really like two girls. one goes out with my friend and she does flirt abit with me and the other is single like me and we have both told each other that we like each other. i decided to take the girl who likes me outand it was a little awkwardish but i guess she was ... (159 words

We are not blood related. But can we go forward together? It's awkward due to our parents previous affairs.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4915 days ago

4 June 2011 (F - Hey Aunts! I have a really strange issue on my hands here. I met a guy about a month ago, we have been chit chatting and getting to know each other over the phone etc. His work hours make it challenging for us to meet up too often...but we try to at least. We are both looking ... (414 words

What does this man mean by these questions?

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4 June 2011 (F age 41-50 - MODERATOR'S NOTE: Two questions from same asker combined. Q1. What does it mean if a guy calls you a piece of ass? A guy I chat with online and text recently called me that. We have only seen each other a couple of times. Have not slept with him yet. We do like each other th... (118 words

Started taking the oral contraceptive Microgynon 30, and have started bleeding. Does anyone know why?

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4 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - I started to take my first ever pack of Microgynon 30 (oral contraceptive) 3 days ago. I wanted to delay my next period as I'm going on holiday, so took my first tablet before I had my period (my chemist said this was fine!). I'm not using this as a form of contraception - it's ... (122 words

Ever since I started dressing more like a woman, thus guy I like began looking at me like a sex object. Why??

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4 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - Hi people, I've got this stupid problem that shouldn't really be a problem but I don't know..Well, when I was a young girl like..13 I used to dress up, like really take pride in my appearance and people would notice me. One day I heard a bunch of guys saying that I was a tease, ... (411 words

Told my best friend I couldn't take just being friends with her, and now our friendship is in danger. What should I do??

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4 June 2011 (M age 30-35 - Here goes, I've been best friends with this girl for over 5 years now. Nothing has made me happier than she has and she has completed changed me as a person for the better. When I'm with her and also when I'm around other people as well. She first started bringing me out and I ... (1295 words

It's my party and I can cry if I want to! Would you cry too if this happened to you?

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4 June 2011 (F age 36-40 - It was my birthday last week and I arranged for friends and some work colleagues to go out for a meal. In total there was 19 of us and I just feel the evening was a disaster! Because we were such a large group the restaurant asked us to all be there at 7.15pm promptly.... (399 words

Girl I like was really quiet on our date. What does this mean?

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4 June 2011 (M age 30-35 - Hi cupid, This girl told me she liked me by saying that as long as I'm at her party than that's all that matters. So because I liked her as well I decided to ask her out. We went to the cinema and for something to eat. She was really quiet whilst we were eating and i was... (191 words

My friend and my fwb were flirting and I am jealous and angry. What should I do about it?

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4 June 2011 (F age 36-40 - I had a fwb/bc. Its just something we have between us, no one knows. In the eyes of some of our friends, we just met. The day we "met" we played it off fine. We were drinking with our friends. He drank a lot. There was a point when I asked him if he was drunk and he said yeah. ... (258 words

My gf doesn't want to have sex anymore and I am wondering if it is because she had a traumatic experience in the past.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4918 days ago

4 June 2011 (M age 41-50 - My girlfriend and I have had a very bad sex life lately. It was good at first, but 3 years in she basically stopped wanting it at all. Ever. We talked about it tonight and she said that it's not uncommon for women to want to stop having sex after a couple of years. The exam... (396 words

Is my gf cheating on me?

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4 June 2011 (M age 30-35 - Basically what I want to know, is whether or not my girlfriend is cheating on me. After a bad break-up my fiancee and I got back together, against many friend's wishes.. But lately she is texting ALL the time when she's with me, it's either with her friend "Sue" or a guy s... (467 words

Should I try to rekindle an old love or just stay in my comfort zone?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4918 days ago

4 June 2011 (? age 30-35 - Warning: it's kind of a long story/soap opera..... I have this ex boyfriend. He's Jamaican...like, he was born and grew up in Jamaica, and he's older than me, two things that made my mother very suspicious and disapproving of our friendship alone; she never even knew tha... (656 words

Is it ok for my bf to still talk and remain friends with someone he has slept with?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4918 days ago

4 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - So today my bf got a text and I asked who it was just curious and he was, like, what's it matter. And then he told me. It wasn't nothing but a simple "hey" but it was a girl he has had sex with before didn't date or anything just wanted some I guess. She has the same group of ... (149 words

Was Shy and Diffident - now Strong and Confident: Can a guy outgrow his past with someone that knew him then?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4918 days ago

4 June 2011 (M age 30-35 - I am a very careful person when it comes to relations , I dont wanna date anyone until im married because i believe in pure relationships . There was a girl whom i knew 2 years ago in highschool she is definitely the woman of my dreams everything i hope for in a girl is in her. ... (153 words

How do I get my man to be more romantic without outright telling him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4918 days ago

4 June 2011 (F age 36-40 - Is it bad to have a list of things in your head that you wish your man did?? Like i wish he gave me foot massages and brought me flowers out the blue and things like that, but my thing is i don't want to have to mention to him and then he does it cause then i will feel pushy ... (110 words

Our relationship was built around drugs - now we are clean we don't know what to do.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4919 days ago

4 June 2011 (F age 36-40 - I have a very serious issue that has been on my mind for a long long time now, When me and my Boyfriend first got together for the first 2 years we both did Drugs together and then when he finally went to jail for 6 months and he got out we both started up again for a very ... (229 words

Guy's only talk to me to get close to my friends. How do I deal with this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4919 days ago

4 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - two of my best friends are very pretty. people are always noticing them when they're out and it's something that i've just gotten used to and accepted. i just feel like slowly my self esteem is growing even smaller, because guys are friends with me are so shallow and only seem ... (131 words

Moving to BF's town- He wants tme to Stay with him - Our culture will not allow our marrage!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4915 days ago

4 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - I am committed with my boyfriend since 4 months. We both love each other very much and also have trust on each other. But we are of different caste and we know surely that our parents will not allow us to tie a knot, anyway. Now, in this month only i am moving to his city for ... (129 words

How can I sweep this guy off his feet and away from his girlfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4918 days ago

4 June 2011 (F age 36-40 - I have this cute neighbor who lives beside me. He is so cute and handsome. I like hardly ever see him. The other night I was going out with some girlfriends of mine and he was waiting at the elevator with a female who I thought was his friend. I was looking at him and he was ... (226 words

Too scared to say "I love you"

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4919 days ago

4 June 2011 (M age 36-40 - Dear People who may possibly help, I have known this girl for a long time... Its easy to say that I love her, but she doesn't know that, she said she liked me.... But now she thinks I hate her for not showing any thing back.... Im just to damn shy to say I love her, She is the ... (104 words

If something develops will it ruin our friendship?

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4 June 2011 (M age 26-29 - hi people. i need some help. there's this girl i really like that's in most of my classes at school. we are really good friends and we text each other and talk on facebook a lot. i asked her out a few times but i never got a straight answer. i really want to go out with her. ... (82 words

My guy friend left for another school, and now I cry whenever I think about him. Is this normal?

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4 June 2011 (F age 26-29 - so i have this guy friend..... the thing is we just graduated and we are going to different high skools....i feel horrible knowing we wont be going to the same high skool....our moms were friends we were friends...we really didnt talk..he went out with my best friend..and they ... (122 words

Boyfriend help please...my boyfriend has a lot of girlfriends. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4918 days ago

4 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - Boyfriend help! My boyfriend doesn't get along with men/guys well. So he has alot of "girlfriends." I usually, am a jealous girlfriend, not overly jealous, but average jealous for a girlfriend. However, recently, one of his "girlfriends", he has, chose alot over me, and whe... (326 words

Tremendous sexual tension with this guy at work, we got together against all odds, and now his dominating ex (who he broke up with, for me) claims she's pregnant. He's back with her, says I was just a shoulder to cry on!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4916 days ago

4 June 2011 (F age 36-40 - Hi, all and any advice will be greatly appreciated as I've gotten myself into a bit of a emotional pickle. In May last year I started a new job. In September a flirtation began between a colleague and I, one who unfortunately was in a 3 year relationship. This colleague i... (1327 words

Every time we speak to one another I feel like the past two years have been wasted. Can our relationship be saved? Or should I end it, before it gets even worse?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4919 days ago

4 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - Alright. I've never really been one to make my personal problems public (even on the 'Net), but I'm really at the end of my rope, here. Maybe it'll be better, asking it with this Internet sort of animosity, but I really feel like I need another's opinion on this before doing ... (887 words

Did she start having a crush/feelings?

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4 June 2011 (M age 26-29 - I think young ppl tend to make lots of mistakes especially when it comes to dating. Well I was on chat and before I even met this girl I used this hot surfer male model photos. She thought it was me. The whole time she'd flirt and even compliment them. I didn't expect to ... (290 words

I hate myself for letting someone get close to me after doing fine being single for ages... Grrrr!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4918 days ago

4 June 2011 (F age 41-50 - I hate my ex (not because we split) but the way he was with me before we split. The last two weeks he avoided me (apart from texts) I eventually invited him round one night (to have it out with him),said I wanted a chat with him, he came (but said he had to go to blah blah ... (271 words

Should I pay my boyfriend or should he work for free?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4918 days ago

4 June 2011 (F age - I have been dating my boyfriend for a year and six months. He has a handyman business. I need electrical and plumbing work done should i pay him to do the work?... (33 words

Please help me get over my jealous feelings?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4916 days ago

4 June 2011 (M age 41-50 - My wife has started a new job recently that is very exciting and potentially lucrative for her. She works from home a lot or from the offices of others. The problem is that the people she works with are 90% male. She would say she is a very strong person, a man-hating femin... (911 words

My husband says he is not in love with me anymore and hasn't been for a long time...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4919 days ago

4 June 2011 (F age 41-50 - My husband says that he is not in love with me anymore and hasn't been for a long time. We have a five year old and a three month old. He says that he wants to work on it, as of right now he is here for the kids but is working on his feelings for me. Is this a waste of my ... (84 words

I don't know really how to have sex and I know she's wanting missionary!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4918 days ago

4 June 2011 (M age 30-35 - I have a couple problems I hope to get help with. Me and my girlfriend for a year now are in a log distance relationship and our only means of sexual pleasure is phone sex we use to do it all the time now very little but she will always tease me and turn me on then just leave I ... (264 words

I sent my ex-boyfriend a card for father's day, but he didn't reply...Did I do something wrong?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4919 days ago

4 June 2011 (F age 41-50 - About two weeks ago I sent a card in the mail to a guy I used to date. I saw him out with his little daughter when I was driving in my car. He was up my street by my place. He always used to talk about how special that time was when he got to see her. He's expressed he's got a ... (108 words

He doesn't want to have children or get married, but this is my dream

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4 June 2011 (F - Okay so my boyfriend and I have been together for a year this month I'm 21 years old and he is 10 years my senior. We don't live together or anything but as he's told me I am THE woman for him I thought it was time we had the talk about marriage/children etc and basically all I ... (183 words

Why did I get this urge to kiss my best friend?

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4 June 2011 (F age 26-29 - So today I was sitting with my friend and she was sad. And then I had this weird urge. This friend has been my best friend for a long time and well I had that "we are going to kiss" feeling. She was really sad and wasn't telling me why so I was trying to get it out of her. But ... (108 words

Why can't I stop spying on my boyfriend's ex?

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4 June 2011 (F age 30-35 - I am a 20 year old beautiful woman with a great boyfriend to compliment me. But I have a dirty secret, I spy on his ex girlfriend. It really roots from her calling him and trying to see if we were still together when she got bored. Everytime she would call him she's ranting ... (156 words

My girlfriend has no friends!

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4 June 2011 (M age 30-35 - i am 18 years old and i have been seeing the same girl for 2 years, and i have noticed that she has no fricken friends! well she does but she never calls them and they never call her. i have alot of friends in a variety of communities and clicks, i like being around people. ... (208 words

Third time lucky?

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4 June 2011 (M age 30-35 - Here's the story; I was going out with this girl last year, and throughout our relationship I had felt small feelings towards one of her best friends. When we broke up, a couple of days later I told her best friend that I liked her, and that I had felt feelings for her ... (258 words

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