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writes:I am bi and i am really confused,because i like a friend that i know a long time ago and i'm not sure if he likes me. It all started a couple years ago after an unsuccessful relationship with a girl and then i suddenly fell in love with him. He is not gay,because he likes girls but i'm not sure if he is bi. I am trying to show him my feelings all the time and i get positive signals sometimes. For example he lets me cuddle him,massage his feet,touch his abbs,,we are going out together,even he invited me to the cinema,we got to bed together 2 times when he was at my home,but nothing more happened there ;P ,but sometimes he acts completely different like pushing me away when i try to touch him etc.I really want to know if he has any feelings to me but i don't want to ask him directly.All your help would be appreciated.
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reader, crazybeast  +, writes (8 June 2011):
 I've had your same problem (to a lesser exstent anyway) he sounds like he is into you, he also sounds really confused and scared, one of my ex bf's was closeted and only just coming out to himself and een though it was a good relationship he would still at times push me away and act really off. Some people just dong want to admit they have slight homosexual tendencies or are attracted to the same sex.
He is probably easing himself into something like that since he will do all these things like touch and lay in bed etc. And then kind of push away the next minute it will just take time.
I wish you the best of luck with this friend of yours I think here is deffinatly a future there :).
Xx Beasty xX
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 June 2011): My guess is he likes you, and probably quite a bit. However, if he says he's straight, and he's pulling you closer sometimes and pushing you away at other times, then my next guess is he's scared shitless about liking you. And honestly, if that's the case, he might not ever admit that he likes you, even to himself. If you're bisexual, I don't need to tell you how freakin scary it is to admit that you like someone who's the same gender as you. I'm a lesbian and I used to have this best friend who I was in love with. She knew I loved her and she would always flirt back and we even had sex once. But in the end, she never told anyone she was into me and stopped talking to me for months because she was afraid of what people would think. She never even admitted it to herself, I don't think. It is possible that your friend will come around and admit his feelings, but if you're prepared to wait for him, just be really patient, because it's not going to happen overnight. I hope I helped out a little bit.
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