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writes:hey, my life is falling apart and i nothing is helping. i only have a part time job and although i am greatful that i got a job, i never have enough money. due to this im losing all my friends as they go out and do things and i cant because i never have money. i dont drive and dont have the money to learn.also me and my boyfriend split 3 weeks ago, this really hit me hard and this is went i started to reflected on my life and realise how down i am about it. there is nothing i can do in my area such as classes or clubs as i live in a small village and due to not driving cant go out of my village to find somthing. i hate my life so much, all i do is wake up and mop around the house. i hate it but dont know what to do, please help, i cant stand this life no more, i feel so alone??
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reader, 83puremage1 +, writes (4 June 2011):
I think the most important thing is have a break now. During this break you should disconnect yourself from the world almost completely and more importantly to let your brain to have a rest. When you are out of that break you can come back and set a new goal for your life. For example, get a new boyfriend.
Best of luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 June 2011): Of course you can stand up. Instead of thinking about clubs and others first stable youreself. Save as much money as you can every month. Do what you're doing and look for a new job. If you think the new job is better and you get it. Then work there. People come and go. Don't worry about you're ex anymore. If he truly loved you he would never left you. So, there's no point of being hurt because its over.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (4 June 2011):
 You need to take control of your own life, nobody else will do that for you. You are full of negative excuses as to why you are stuck moping around the house. But sweetie if you want something so bad you can make it happen. The sky is your limit and you can achieve anything you set your mind to. Ok so you dont drive. There is always public transport or even your own two feet if things are that bad.
I see you are glad that you have a part time job but obviously you dont have much money because of it. Are you living alone and having to pay all the bills by yourself? I know this can be stressful. But with your free time you could keep looking for work. Go to job centres and try your hardest to get a full time job. If there are no prospects in your area, well then why not move?
I think the real reason you are so down at the moment is the break up of your relationship and I guess it has just made you think about all the other parts in your life. But hunny you need to take control. If there is no prospects in your area well then move. Its the summer coming up sometimes there are exchange jobs for camps in America or elsewhere. Maybe it would be a good time for you to travel. Look in to these different kind of projects. There are lots you can do. Just think positive.
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reader, angelDlite +, writes (4 June 2011):
 why don't you get a second job for the evening and weekends too? a few hours a week working in a pub maybe? - its sociable and you'll be earning money - plus tips if the customers like you. i did it when i was younger as well as my part time job, i thought it was fun and it really helped me to be more confident in talking to new people too
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