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female
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anonymous
writes:There is this guy, and we both like each other. We're in the new throws of dating, still it's all very new and mysterious.Here's my problem- I tend to give my heart away fast. Im never ouvertly clingy, but I tend to fall really fast and unconsiously lose my mystery.I've watched myself very closely with this guy and I've been playing the game. It's working. I wont always text back, I occupy myself with my friends, family, schoolwork and my job, and I talk to other guys when he's around. But at the same time, we have feelings for eachother and we've both confessed. It's really in chase mode right now because we haven't even kissed but I can tell he wants it. I'm teasing him and dangling the string and pulling it away, and he continues to chase me.We will often have heartfelt conversations until all hours of the morning. I really like him and he really likes me and I know this is going to progress further.My question is, how can I fall for this guy and let him fall for me, while all the while keeping a little mystery and keep him wanting me? I don't want him to get bored of me because I want him really badly.What are some things I can do within a new romance to keep him on his toes?THANKS xx
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reader, fi_the_tree  +, writes (5 June 2011):
 This is not about playing games. If you play games he WILL get bored of you very quickly.
I have this same problem, i tend to fall very quickly and easily for guys, it's just the way i am. It sounds like he's into you already, the most important thing is to just be yourself!!!
People play games all the time, and it gets them nowhere, if you want this guy so badly, then don't give him any reason to walk away from you. The games start off small, but get more and more intense over time and it'll just drive him away if you're giving mixed signals.
As for mystery, well he's not going to know everything about you and your life in a short time! So there will always be an element of mystery about you to him, and vice versa.
Quit the games, and enjoy getting to know this guy for now. The dating game can be scary, but a lot of fun aswell!! Hope i was of some help anyway!!
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