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writes:I've been with my boyfriend for a little over a year and it's pretty much perfect. He does a lot for me and I know he loves me a lot. Now about my problem; I have PCOS along with a thyroid issue. I don't consider myself obese but I'm not skinny. My boyfriend has obviously seen my body and always says he likes it. I've even asked flat out and he's always said he loves me no matter what. Today we were talking about other girls and he said something like "well i had skinny little girlfriend and now I have one with big boobs" He said nothing about me being "fat!" But this still hurt my feelings a lot. Should I bring it to his attention or just forget it?
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 June 2011): in my opinion i think you should just ask him what he meant by it? in a concerned matter and if he says why just say that it sort of hurt your feelings but say that you know he didn't mean and just have a grown up convo about cause it might have just slipped out of his mouth or something
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 June 2011): There was a litle survey here on this site. All guys said they don't like skinny girls, but they definitely like curves and boobs.
So, I think he just blurted out that he is happy to have you and your big boobs, but it didn't come out right.
I was only very thin when I was in my teens, then after I had a baby, I went up to size 6-8 and never went down. And I can tell you despite the fact that some might say I have a little extra here and there, my boobs always won the battle.
Just take care of yourself, hit the gym,if you don't already, try to eat right, stay healthy, be happy that you have your boobies. Many,many women outhtere pay lots and lots of money, go through painful surgeries to have what we have.
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reader, based51  +, writes (5 June 2011):
 I don't think you should bring it up.
Your boyfriend was obviously trying to give you a compliment and make yourself feel better about you boyfriend, he just went about it in the wrong way. Most likely one of those situations where the words sound good in your head until they come out of your head.
Your boyfriend's intentions were good, so I think that bringing this up would just lead to an unnecessary argument.
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