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writes:About two weeks ago I sent a card in the mail to a guy I used to date. I saw him out with his little daughter when I was driving in my car. He was up my street by my place. He always used to talk about how special that time was when he got to see her. He's expressed he's got a difficult situation with the child's mom. I decided to send him a card telling him happy early father's day and that I saw him recently in our neighborhood and wanted to wish him well. I haven't heard anything from him. Did I do something wrong?
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 June 2011): He's probably a bit wierded out. Fathers Day cards usually come from your kids. Getting one from someone else is a bit odd. Getting one from an ex is a bit stalkerish.
He might even worry that you are trying to send him a message that he has more children than he thinks he does. Or that you'd like him to be the father of the child you are planning.
Next time, buy yourself some nice paper, a nice pen and write a short letter. Then the only messages you send are the one's you intend.
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