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How can I sweep this guy off his feet and away from his girlfriend?

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Question - (4 June 2011) 5 Answers - (Newest, 4 June 2011)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I have this cute neighbor who lives beside me. He is so cute and handsome. I like hardly ever see him. The other night I was going out with some girlfriends of mine and he was waiting at the elevator with a female who I thought was his friend. I was looking at him and he was looking at me eye to eye for awhile and my heart nearly came out of my mouth.

Turns out the friend that was with him is his girlfriend or so I heard. When she saw us eying one another she started laughing. I looked so good that night too. I would love to get his attention he is very very handsome. I can't stop thinking about him...I have children and none of them do. Do I have a slim chance of getting with him? How could I get him to see me? I'm not looking for anything serious. I've been there and done that already. I just want a little fun with him. I know there was a connection.Please Tell me how I can see him again cuz I never see him for whatever reason...even if we cant be casual I would love to be his friend; if u could tell me how I can do that too that would great.

Thank You Cupids

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A female reader, auntyR United Kingdom +, writes (4 June 2011):

leave him alone and find your own single man! There is nothing worse then interferring annoying immature girls who want to steal other girl's boyfriends. He is with her because he obviously loves her and is not interested in you. Stop putting yourself through the drama and just go out and find a nice single guy!

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A female reader, Honeypie United States +, writes (4 June 2011):

Honeypie agony auntGrow some morals, honey.. and maybe a conscience....

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 June 2011):

So, you're willing to break a girls heart because you want a bit of fun with her boyfriend?

What kind of example are you setting for your children? If you want sex then pick a guy up at a bar don't ruin someone else's relationship because of your selfish desires.

I hope this post is fake because if it isn't you're a horrible person.

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (4 June 2011):

So_Very_Confused agony aunt

So you think just because you WANT something or someone you have the right to have it???

IF he wanted YOU he would go after you.

My bf looks at women all the time even when he is walking arm and arm with me... and I find humor in it and laugh... and they see me.... and wow he looks about 25 and I'm 51 and look it and these girls stare at him blatantly and we go home and LAUGH at them together because we know he's not going after them he's with ME.

Get this glimmer of hope out of your head that you could HIT THAT... people in relationships are committed not dead... it's human nature to look at a pretty thing...

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 June 2011):

Is is really worth trying to ruin his relationship just for "a little fun"?

Personally, I would stay away. Having a girlfriend means he's off-limits. How would you feel if some other girl was trying to take your boyfriend?

If you can't do that, tell him how you feel, then leave the ball in his court - if he wants to act on it, he will. if not, at least you tried!

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