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41-50,
*laineflo
writes:My husband says that he is not in love with me anymore and hasn't been for a long time. We have a five year old and a three month old. He says that he wants to work on it, as of right now he is here for the kids but is working on his feelings for me. Is this a waste of my time. Can you really fall back in love. If so how do I make him fall again? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 June 2011): How awful, quite a bombshell for you.
First - yes it is worth giving it a go,everything changes once children arrive, you have to adjust and maybe he's missing the relationship you had before children. Date again, be flirty, make alone time to show him what you had before, that your not just mum. Do things as a couple, or as a family, something fun, camping for the weekend or cycle somewhere. Get out of the daily routine sometimes
If you really can't ignite that spark then sit and talk about the future, decide whats best for you and the children
Remember its not all about him
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 June 2011): well first i know its rude but u should be glad he stayed and told u about this and now u will be able to fix this and if not then dont leave him for your kids but i bet u can put something together to make him like u again i mean its not that hard to get someone attracted to u again especially if its a guy like me me and my wife had this problem and well i got her back
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