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writes:I feel like a slut because in drama class these guys I was sitting next to were feeling on my boobs I kinda like it but I kept on her my friend voice in my head telling me to stop so I said do go in there like my shirt but if one did it the other one had to do it to so the both of them were holding my hand one then they took my phone but I got it back then they went back to my boobs everyone who was around us and people talk I scared they're going to think I'm a slut or easy . What should I do because I'm starting to feel that way?
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 June 2011): What I mean was "don't go down my shirt " sorry if their was any miss understanding . And I will respect my body more thank you.
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reader, based51  +, writes (5 June 2011):
 You're learning a basic point right now about relationships.As a general rule (but not always and not for every man), it is women who control how much sexual contact there will be and when. Normally, whenever a girl feels like doing anything sexual (including the odd, weak moment), there will be a boy or a man to assist her. Unfortunately, the way society is it's considered okay for a man to throw his boy around but a woman is expected to have a lot more self control and only allow contact with a selected few.If you feel bad about yourself because of this or scared of what other people will think then you should start putting your barriers up and not let this happen. And don't worry too much though, there will doubtlessly be other girls in your school at your age who have done much more advanced things.
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reader, deirdre +, writes (5 June 2011):
ehhh how about setting boundaries and not letting others grope you?
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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (4 June 2011):
 Hunny you need to respect your body more. Yes you may like the fell of someone touching your boobs, that is normal, but a guy has to work a little harder than that to touch you up. Actually when someone touches you intimately without your permission they deserve a slap. Respect your body and those boys will respect you so from now on tell them they do not have a right to touch you like that and stick to your word. Keep that for when you are in a loving relationship.
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reader, AuntyAlexxmo  +, writes (4 June 2011):
 You should put this behind you and most importantly NOT do it again!
These boys should not treat you in this way, and you need to learn to respect yourself and not let boys just use you or you will get a reputation, which you dont want as i am sure that is not who you are at all. So if you dont do this again, you shouldnt worry about this one inciednt too much, people will forget.
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