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writes:Is it possible that a guy can originally want you purely for sex and then for some reason want more?or am i just being completely stupid? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 June 2011): Why buy the cow when you get the milk for free? (and no I'm not calling you a cow).
It happens but it's rare. Free sex without having to commit to a girl is a pretty sweet deal.
OP it really is very rare, the chances are so small as to not be worth it in my opinion. FWB's are one of those things that seems to hurt women more, I don't know why it is but it seems they're the ones to fall in love for the most part. It happens to guys too but not on the same scale. It's similar to how the "friendzone" rarely happens to girls, you know what I mean? Girls rarely get put in the friendzone and guys rarely fall in love with their FWB.
They're the same types of situation just different aspects. FWB is usually fulfilling the guys need for sex without the hassle of dating the girl because you don't really see yourself having a relationship with her. Friendzone is fulfilling the girls need to be desired by a guy, a guy who will do anything for her but she said "just friends" so she's off the hook when he wants more.
I would never get into an FWB situation ever again, they're just not worth it, the risk is not worth the reward because the odds are so slim.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (5 June 2011):
 It happens. Guys fall in love just as easily as girls do. However, I wouldn't hope for too much, that will only make you disappointed. It can happen, sure, but often it doesn't. You can't help who you fall in love with, but you can't make someone love you either.
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reader, Dorothy Dix  +, writes (5 June 2011):
Hi there. Yes, it is possible.
I am assuming that you are talking about an FWB - Friends With Benefits - type friendship.
If that's the way your relationship started, it often stays FWB and doesn't go any further, because of the nature of it. As you know, FWB's are only based on casual sex between two people. But nothing serious - usually.
Of course, there are always exceptions.
If that's what has happened with you, well then you must have gotten to know him better and likewise with him.
Friendship and feeling emotionally connected are what really keeps any relationship going. While sex is important in a relationship, it's not the most important thing by any means.
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