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26-29,
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writes:I think young ppl tend to make lots of mistakes especially when it comes to dating. Well I was on chat and before I even met this girl I used this hot surfer male model photos. She thought it was me. The whole time she'd flirt and even compliment them. I didn't expect to develop crushes on some random girl online. I used to laugh at ppl who said that until it happened to me. We talked almost everyday only for 2 or 3 months. She said she was only there for fun, that most long distance relationship don't work out though she'd flirt with me and we'd *kiss*. She'd act one way around me but when her friends were also online I heard she'd say things about me like that I'm always on when she is to talk to her etc. Plus when I talked about chatting on the phone she didn't seem intersted. Because of all of that I thought she doesn't really like meWhen she found out a few months later that I wasn't some hott male surfer model she was furious! She yelled at me in chat in front of ppl, then one of her friends who I don't even know did too. Then she said not to talk to her againNow I know I'm an idiot and it was a stupid thing to do that tbh I dont want to hurt girls and I'm not at all proud of. My question is do you think she started having some kind of crush and that is why she reacted that way and got so upset?! I don't understand, girls can be so confusing
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reader, Capri2  +, writes (4 June 2011):
Well. For a start she should be aware you can never know who is the person in the other end. That's internet. Plus, she said she was there for fun, not for on-line dating.
I don't believe you hurt her feelings. I think she liked the pictures you sent her and she liked the way you are. Now she knows you aren't that hot guy and she is pissed off. In the future send your picture or avoid sending a picture at all.
She seems to have a double standard about on-line dating. Anyway sending another guy's picture wasn't a good idea. Specially if you like her too. I don't think she will talk to you again. Just apologize to her.
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reader, Dear Mandy  +, writes (4 June 2011):
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no she was just furious because you lied to her, It's never a good thing to try and be someone your not, to impress girls.Just send her a private message, apologise, tell her she will not here from you again, and just except this as a learning curve. In future be yourself, because thats who a girl would want to fall inlove with, not a fake. Why did you feel you had to pretend to be someone else? do you lack confidence in your appearance? If so try working on that first, as you have got to be happy with yourself before others will be happy with you too .xx
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