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*atson1
writes:am 27yrs,man engaged but i don't stay with my lover,some times i feel like having relationship with fellow men.men get attracted to me whenever i pass over them,some ask for my contacts.but i feel i want to stay in relationship with my girl .so help me
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reader, Boonridge McPhalify  +, writes (5 June 2011):
 it sounds like you dont know what you want. like you want two mutually exclusive things.
you fancy men, but do you fancy your girl?
that should answer your question.
i sense a marriage with random cottaging on the side which is doing nobody any favours. are you with her because you want kids yet fancy men?
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (5 June 2011):
 Well which is it dear?
You state you don't want to stay with your lover (meaning the girl you're engaged to?) and then you say you want to stay in a relationship with your girl. I believe you're either confused as to what gender you want..OR you want to experiment with both, but don't want to hurt your finance.
Well straight, gay, confused, you can't have your cake and eat it too. It's not fair to anyone and when one finds out about the other....Let's just say you won't have anyone then.
I suggest breaking your engagement off and being honest with your now ex fiance. It's not fair to you or her to get married knowing in the back of your mind that you want to have a relationship with men. Hopefully she'll understand and the 2 of you can still be friends. Then proceed to explore other interesting options.
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