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Was Shy and Diffident - now Strong and Confident: Can a guy outgrow his past with someone that knew him then?

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Question - (4 June 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 4 June 2011)
A male Canada age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I am a very careful person when it comes to relations , I dont wanna date anyone until im married because i believe in pure relationships . There was a girl whom i knew 2 years ago in highschool she is definitely the woman of my dreams everything i hope for in a girl is in her. until now i never loved or even liked anyone else although she is now out of country. The problem is when i was in highschool i was pathetic, no personality no confidence or anything so she didnt really like me but she was still VERY nice while showing it. now i have grown my personality a bunch im now even a teacher on university level in front of 50 students with all confidence. But i dont know what to do. I feel like I messed up in the begining and i cant make up for it.

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A male reader, wiseoldman United Kingdom +, writes (4 June 2011):

"im now even a teacher on university level in front of 50 students with all confidence."

Something doesn't quite ring true here....

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A female reader, ClearSorted India +, writes (4 June 2011):

Its very admirable that you believe in purity of relationships and act in line with that (continue with that). Its great that you have developed confidence. Coming to your question, the girls usually pick up the hints. Thanks to social networking, you can build contacts with those who have dissappeared from the scene. However I think that you should keep your mind open to possibility of finding someone nice. Because there could have been a possibility that you went with her and found with time that she is not the image you build of hers. All the best friend.

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