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I hate not being able to sort this out right now! How should I play this?

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Question - (25 July 2011) 3 Answers - (Newest, 25 July 2011)
A female United Kingdom age 41-50, *1llybabes writes:

How can I say sorry more than I already have?

Ok lets cut a long story short: -

-Been seeing this guys since March he lives about 2hrs from me and I am so in love with him its untrue

-I still live with my ex as neither of us have anywhere else to go until the house sells

- had a really bad day yesterday as ex has stopped me seeing my niece and nephew

- didn't tell bf about it as I was trying not to include him in all the rubbish of the ex stuff

- should of told him as I ended up taking it out on him and had a massive row. Why do we push away the ones that mean the most

- was constantly calling him last night when he put the phone down on me like a crazed woman for hours ( he ignored me)

- sent a mail of apology this morning explaining everything and how I was sorry and what had happened etc

- he just text to say in a meeting talk later- i said when? he said didnt know.

How do I play this? What do I do? I hate not being able to sort stuff out right now and it drives me crazy. I think this makes it worse though yes? Should I be patient now? I never argued with my ex but I do with him every now and again and this is new for me. I figured it showed my passion for him but I am worried of scaring him away

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A female reader, VSAddict United States +, writes (25 July 2011):

VSAddict agony auntJust because he says it doesn't mean you can't do it. He needs to stop being immature. Go and see your niece and nephew.

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A female reader, g1llybabes United Kingdom +, writes (25 July 2011):

g1llybabes is verified as being by the original poster of the question

He was doing this to hurt me. Says as we are not together anymore they are his blood niece and nephew not mine. So why should I be able to see them

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A female reader, VSAddict United States +, writes (25 July 2011):

VSAddict agony auntYou've explained yourself and apologize, so you should just wait for your boyfriend to come around. May I ask why the ex kept you from seeing your family?

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