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writes:My boyfriend wants me to get with another girl cos he thinks it will be such a turn on. I don't mind I said il do It but is it classed as cheating if he was there? And where can you meet a girl who will wanna do it? ( no escorts or anything like that) Thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 July 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionNo he isnt cheated. We are open about who we fancy and we trust eachother. I trust him 100% I know he won't ever do that to me. I wanna try it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 July 2011): OP, your reply wasn't posted when I originally answer your question. I'm the anonymous female who 'cheating is using deception...'.
With this added information I believe your boyfriend IS cheating (I suspected he was, but now I'm certain). He is trying to gain access to your friend, a woman he fancies, in a way he thinks will most likely produce a favourable response. He isn't telling you HE wants her. He's telling you he wants YOU to have her. This is deception.
I strongly suggest you decline and re-evaluate this relationship. A man who has no qualms about trying to get into another woman's pants right under your nose, no less, has very little regard for you. He is defintely not a keeper.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 July 2011): Cheating is using deception to obtain or achieve something that would not have been obtained or achieved by being honest.For example, if your boyfriend is using a threesome as an opportunity to have sex with another woman while trying to convince you he only wants it for you, knowing that that is the only circumstance in which you would agree to it, then that would be cheating. If you are both completely honest with yourselves and each other about your motives then that would not be cheating. It might be called something else, depending on what the motives are and your regard for one another, but it wouldn't be cheating.Watching two (or more) women together is very exciting for many men, and they may be content with that in the beginning, but eventually they do want join in. They're hoping that you'll enjoy yourself enough to relax and allow it. No one fantasizes about sitting on the sidelines while someone else has all the fun.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 July 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHe does and I'm not impressed. It's my best friend and I know he fancies her but it doesn't bother me cos he wouldn't cheat at all. Just trying to think who we can do it with. :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 July 2011): If you both consent to something it is not cheating. Ask your boyfriend who he has in mind. There is usually someone they are 'interested' in when they bring up that topic.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 July 2011): Not sure where you can find someone, but I believe that if he is there and you are both ok with it, then it is not cheating. Good luck
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