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male
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:so my lady is less and less interested in sex, she has never been one for foreplay and she hasnt let me get her to orgasm in just under a month and i am finding that my own self confidence is crashing because i feel like my gf is just going through with sex to make me happy and not actually getting any enjoyment out of it... whenever i try to be spontaneous and passionate it will get shut down. the only time we will have sex is at night when she asks if i want sex.. it honestly just feels like she does it because she knows i have a really high sex drive.. i know she can be dirty in bed as i have seen it before but i have not seen that girl in a very long time. the passion she used to have is dead and anytime i try get it back i get shot down. suggestions anyone??
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (25 July 2011):
 Go look for what caused the change to occur in the first place. She changed, something caused that change.
That you didn't even consider this but only talk about the effect it has on you may be part of the issue. She isn't the one to have an orgasm in sex for a month but YOUR confidence is crashing?
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