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female
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes:Hi everyone - please could I have some help. I met a guy at a party last week and we did some stuff together (he wasn't drunk at the time, I was a little bit). Nothing major, but it was like really intense and I felt more like connected to him than I have most other guys. He was really lovely and let me take the lead - like he didnt do anything unless I said it was ok first. The thing is, I haven't talked to him since. I made an attempt to contact him but he didnt reply....I really liked him and I don't want it to have been a one time thing, and I got the impression he felt the same, so why isn't he talking to me? Do I persist, or just except that he took advantage of me and its over? I can't help feeling like I've been a complete slut for thinking he actually liked me and doing stuff with him, if he was just using me. What do i do? x
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (25 July 2011):
I think if you tried to contact him and he didn't reply, he's probably not interested. Sorry, but maybe it would be better for you to move on so you don't get hurt even more. You're not a slut, and you've done nothing wrong. I think you put your trust in someone, and you were used. It's happened to a lot of other people before you.
In the future, I would always recommend getting to know a man more closely before you do anything, if you're looking for a relationship. It just means there's less chance that you're used.
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