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female
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36-40,
*_maldita
writes:I have finally ended my 7 years relationship with my bf and I don't know if It is right. I didn't cry at all and it feels strange. He blames me for everything that happened between us. He said that he run away because I have pushed him so hard and he keeps on explaining the same thing everyday. But non of his words I can find to believe.I'm very hurt but not depressed....I don't want him back and I'm just thinking of revenge and how to hurt him too. I feel so selfish but I can't help it be because I no longer feel love for him but hatred. He lied to me in so many ways and now I found out all of it. He took off and he said he didn't want to talk to me since it will be useless cause I don't listen to anyone anymore.I blame him because he still talks to his friend w/c I'm so jealous of but he said to me for more than a thousand times he is not talking to her anymore. All I know is I need to tell it to his face that he was wrong of leaving me next time we meet but I don't want him back. I just wanted to see the regret in his face and I'm working to hard to take my sweet revenge from both of them. He said if the right time comes and I have fully changed and heal he will comeback.I just can't accept the fact that he blames me why he run away and why the relationship didn't work. Now i really have proven that no matter how long you have been with the person if you are not meant there will always be a way that you will get separated. Should I be blaming myself or keep proving to him that he was the one to be blamed????
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reader, a_maldita +, writes (25 July 2011):
a_maldita is verified as being by the original poster of the question I don't feel alone and depressed I still have a lot of things I can do with my life.
But I really want to prove to him he was wrong to just took off and didn't explain.
Today I got new job a really great one and I think from their I will keep myself busy.
I want to look pretty and sexy next time we meet and show him that I did survive without him.
I think I have found peace of mind cause I don't have to worry about anything but myself.
I guess your right I should move on,
After all lots of good things come to me after our break up
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reader, VSAddict  +, writes (25 July 2011):
 It's not right for him to blame you for everything as he propably had his faults too. He couldn't have been the perfect one. But I don't think you should care about who's responsible for it ending. It's over, it wasn't meant to last and you don't want him anymore so stop trying to figure out who was right and wrong. And there's no need for you to think about revenge. You will feel temporarily satisfied but it's not something an adult should be doing. Just move on. His revenge will be losing out on someone special. Hope I helped.
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