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writes:Ok so i havent really dated much in the past. Ive only had a LTR which ended about a year ago and i havent gone out with a girl since. Just recently i met a couple of girls and i was needing some advice.Theres this girl i met and i am extremely attracted to her. She is really nice and good looking and we have been talking for a couple of weeks but just as friends of course. Im really starting to like her and i want to ask her out on a date and see where that goes. She gave me her number and it seems like she kinda likes me too.But.. theres also this other girl i met and she is nice too. I am not really that attracted to her but shes nice and funny. She asked for my number and invited me to the movies. Well with all that being said, what do you guys suggest i do? go on dates with both of them and see who i like more? I dont know if its wrong to date 2 girls at the same time. Reply to this Question
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reader, k_c100  +, writes (25 July 2011):
 I think it is fine to date them both and see who you life the most. Especially in the US, it is far more acceptable to date a few people and then only when you really like one person is when you stop dating the others and go 'exclusive' with that one person.
Go out with both of them once, and see who you like the best and take it from there. I dont think it is right to allow that to carry on for months, but if it is only 1 date with each of them and then you make your decision, that is totally fine. Just dont have sex with either of them, that would be wrong. No sex until you have made your decision.
I hope this helps and good luck!
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reader, ayeshaH +, writes (25 July 2011):
well if you want to date them both then you must let them know and see if they are ok with this idea.
if you started dating both of them and one was to find out it would be a bit upsetting to her.
as a girl i would not feel comfortable if i found out a guy i was dating was dating someone else at the same time.
i would also feel wrong about doing it to a guy.
my advice would be to date the girl you are more attracted to and have been talking to for a couple of weeks. if that doesnt go well then you can always pick up where you left off with the other one.
im not judging you in any way but just telling you my opinion from a girls point of view.
hope it goes well.
xx.
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