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writes:My LDR boyfriend abruptly deleted his facebook account yesterday and I think it's very weird. But maybe I'm just over-reacting ?He didn't even mention it during our conversation. Only later when I text him to ask did he text back that it was getting to be too annoying with everyone Requesting him and he didn't want to be a jerk and reject people. This is very strange to me and makes me suspicious for a couple of reasons: 1) for the last two weeks he was becoming friends with a ton of porn stars and fetish models. I didn't say anything but it annoyed me. 2) Hes an entertainer and was living in Arizona for a few months and is now traveling home. He does NOT have Internet access on the road and doesn't have a FB mobile app so he has no way of monitoring it. 3) when we first started going out 9 months ago - he refused at first to link our accounts saying he wanted his privacy and didn't want any crazy fans to contact me. So the paranoid part of me thinks he's been flirting with someone online or cheated w someoene and he's afraid they'll write on his wall when he can't monitor it for days or he's afraid they'll message me since we're linked. He did say he'll reactivate it when he's back home here in Pennsylvania. Totally over thinking it? Or listen to my gut?
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 August 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell he's home and left his FB open. Guess what I found? He's been flirting with girls online in private messages - even giving one of them his cell phone # and saying "let's chat". When SHE asked "what about your GF?" he said "yeah I belong to her but let's see where this feeling between us goes" and encouraged her to call.
Lesson here: trust your gut.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 July 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionBlonde30s. He won't be home for another 2 weeks so I can't talk face to face about it til then.
I just asked him about it over the phone and get got defensive - saying "look it's not like I got rid of a kidney. Why are you making a big deal. I just got tired of it. I don't even want an account anymore. It's too much pressure.".
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reader, matureflowerx  +, writes (25 July 2011):
 Listen to your gut. It all sounds a bit fishy to me xx
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