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writes:I told my separated husband I'm pregnant. He still wanted to make it work. I asked him if he was sure. He said yes. We continue together for a month, within that time I took him to interviews he needed help with his car I help him get it fix. After the car he said he confused and he ended it. We said will talk if needed and watever. Well we have been at total odds, he has cursed me disrespected me and everything. We came to argue all day. He wants me to leave my daughter with a stranger he just met while he is not there. Then to pick her up at a strange person's home I never met. The divorce has not been filed, he hasn't done anything for our daughter in three years and he left us. How can I handle this situation calmly.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 July 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionToday my husband says he wants me back
He been acting poorly because i got pregnant
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reader, VSAddict +, writes (26 July 2011):
 It's great that you two are getting a divorce and you no longer have to be disrespected. Well even if he might cause a mess, don't you think the unbron child deserves to get to know their father?
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 July 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell im keeping the baby im six months now. I saw him yesterday and im so confused i cuz i still love and care for him. I let him see his daughter supervised. He text me and said that this is all new and that he is hurt and thought that i would hurt him and step out again. Then he called me this morning wanting to talk and said it was hard seeing me. If he could call me later. You guys im so lost and confused. Since he said divorce the unborm child father has step up been there for me. Its just that we i told him i was going to make it work with my husband. He flipped driving by his hone etc...so my husband decided that divorce will save us a headache and him out of jail cuz my unborn child father will cause a mess in our lives.
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reader, VSAddict +, writes (26 July 2011):
Forgot to ask, have you decided to keep the baby?
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reader, VSAddict +, writes (26 July 2011):
File the divorce, order child support, and figure out custody arrangements(maybe he should get supervised visits, if any at all). Move on, supoort and love your daughter, and find someone better than him.
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