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writes: There is this guy who works at this store that i used to visit three times a week for half a year because of my work. It was obvious that we were both attracted to each other, just too shy to do anything about it. You know how sometimes the way the guy looks at you, how they act or make you feel you can just tell it's both of you are feeling the same attraction.Well thing is i never did anything about it, which now i regret! Because i keep thinking about him, wondering so many what if's? And i've passed so many guys up before and forgotten about it after a while, but this time i really feel like i shouldn't with him!? I just can't shake it!There's a job going at his work and since i really need a job, i don't know whether to apply for it and hopefully if i get it, then we can get to know each other more. And even if i he isn't right for me, then hey i have a job! I just want to know, whether i am making a stupid move, I mean it sounds smart because it's a way to get closer to him, but then is there any way it could go wrong?
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (25 July 2011):
 If you need a job, and if you would apply anyway even without the guy working there, go ahead.
But if the only or main reason you'd apply there is the boy, don't. Haven't you thought that he may have been attracted to you and not acted upon it, because he already has a girlfriend ?
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