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Why was she sitting on his lap? is it all as innocent as he makes out or was he cheating again?

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Question - (25 July 2011) 1 Answers - (Newest, 25 July 2011)
A female United States age 30-35, *nderTow70 writes:

Last year my husband finally told me the truth about what really happened when he was involved with another girl before we got married. We have been married 4 years, together 10 this year, and about 5 years ago he cheated on me with a coworker.. So I was on the net this past weekend looking at on pictures online photobucket from about 5 years ago. Our old friends we havent seen in years. I stumbled across this picture of my husband with a woman setting on his lap with my sweat shirt on. The previous pictures were of him and his best friend the same night drunk off there butt. My husband did not know about these pictures because he was to drunk to remember. He swears up and down she was cold and let her were my sweat shirt and they was hanging out watching movies drinking. Just the three of them. This girl supposely like his best friend. Why was she setting on my drunk fiance lap? I was out of town and when I got home he said nothing about it. I remember speaking to him on the phone with a girl laughing in the background and I was very curious to know and his best friend got on me and told me he assured me that night they was just hanging out... The picture says more though, and since my hubby just came clean last year about the time he cheated on me after going so long not telling me the full story should i BE worried? I am hurt and betrayed, my expectations of him was far high that night i believe. i have never cheated or took a picture with another man. i am faithful he is my first love. i am not sure how much i can take. thank you so much for your replies!!

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A female reader, VSAddict United States +, writes (25 July 2011):

VSAddict agony auntWhy does the picture from 5 years ago matter? They were drunk and it propably meant nothing. What should be more important is your husband admitting he's cheated. Why would you stay with him when he didn't respect you enough to stay faithful?

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