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writes:We always chat. Like, whenever he comes online, he'd message me immediately (even when he just woke up). We'd talk for four hours or more. We talk about random things and we even have our own private jokes!However, whenever the conversation takes a serious route about me or him, he'd immediately change the subject. And after maybe five hours, he'd tell me he's off to play Black Ops or watch something and that he'd be back later. We don't flirt.Does this mean he likes me as a friend or more? My friends have threatened him a couple of times to back off of me (because they think he's a "player", but he and I had a hearty discussion about that) and he hasn't listened to them. At all.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 July 2011): If he doesn't flirt, doesn't ask you on dates, or have serious getting to know you discussions...why again would you think he likes you more than a friend? Some guys like to chat online..no more than that.
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reader, Lucky786  +, writes (10 July 2011):
 You're never going to know if he is a player or not until you meet him, chat to him face to face and get a fuller view of what he is all about. Online messaging is fairly anonymous and trying to work out what someone is really about just from messaging won't give you the full picture.
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reader, Madalo 1  +, writes (10 July 2011):
Sounds to me like he has found himself a good friend!
He might come around later romantically but for now that's not on his mind considering that he doesn't flirt and evades any discussion concerning you two having a relationship.
Not a bad thing just being friends. If it progresses into something else, well it's alright too.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (10 July 2011):
 Why not just ask him. You don't flirt therefore it is hard to tell if he thinks of you as more than a friend. You should tell your friends to keep out of it, I know they are only looking out for you, but you are entitled to make your own decisions.
Try flirting with him lightly and see what he does. Or maybe just ask him if he sees you more than a friend and at least then you will know the truth.
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