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I haven't heard from him since Thursday evening, after I loaned him money!

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Question - (10 July 2011) 1 Answers - (Newest, 10 July 2011)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

hi all at cupid

Im sounding very stupid hear but theres this guy who im very gond of he said a few months ago he loves me and i kinda feel the same we get on very well and was even talk about us moving in together in his house,

And i know i really shouldnt have but i lent him 25 pound to put down a deposit that he was putting down for are holiday ( i have seen what we was going to book)

But now since thursday evening bout 6.30 i havent heard from him which i usually have heard every day,

i havent rang him and havent txt since friday nite but im worried hes not gonna talk to me anymore and i cant stop thinking every txt i get mite be from him but its not

there mite be a reason why he hasnt contacted me.

Any advice on what i should do

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (10 July 2011):

Oh dear! You really shouldn't have given him a penny! If he is such a gent why did he not put the deposit down himself? Its fair to say you saw the holiday but ussually deposits are 150 per person? I'm curious to know why he felt the need to ask you for £25 if he wanted this holiday.

Learn from this please, I've been there myself. Don't be taken for a fool anymore, I doubt there is valid reason why he hasn't been intouch. Sorry to half empty your glass but this doesn't sound like a man I personally would want to be with.

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