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writes:I'm 19 and thinking about contraception for the first time. Having done a fair amount of research on all types available, the (non-hormonal) IUD sounds the most appealing. I'm wondering if I could have one fitted though - am I too young? Some sources say that the younger you are the higher the risk of side effects, all the more so if you've never given birth and/or are a virgin. Although the Pill is much more popular I'm reluctant to take it because of the possible adverse reactions, especially since blood clotting problems run on my mother's side of the family and high blood pressure and cholesterol levels on my dad's. I know from past experience that my own body is very sensitive to chemicals too. What do you think? Thanks a lot in advance for any advice!
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reader, Battista +, writes (10 July 2011):
Defo get a doctor's opinion. They will be able to advise you properly, especially as you note a bit of family medical history.
As for my experience I haven't had any adverse effects from being on the pill but everyone is different. The same goes for the IUD. Get a qualified medical opinion because no matter what we all say here, you will need to do what is best for you based on individually tailored advice.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (10 July 2011):
 You can. They typically don't do it, but if you have good enough reasons or want it badly enough then maybe.
You still need to talk to your doctor about this, and why you want contraception in the first place. If you aren't having sex you don't need it really.
If you get one fitted while still being a virgin I can imagine it will be quite painful and uncomfortable as well, and no doubt your hymen will break if it is still intact. This is why it is normal to get a IUD after giving birth to a child.. you're a bit bigger down there.
Wouldn't you rather have your vagina pressed out, with all the discomfort that comes with it, with a man you care deeply for, rather than at the doctors office in grim light with a complete stranger..? I really doubt they will do it as you are a virgin, unless there are good reasons for it. Besides, it isn't the "safest" contraceptive either.
If you worry about the contraceptive pill, use condoms instead.
Talk to your doctor about the contraceptive options available for you.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (10 July 2011):
You'd be much better off making an appointment with your GP. Always be wary of medical advice on the internet - because whilst we're all kind and want to help, realistically a Doctor's advice would be much better, especially given that there are some medical issues in your family.
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