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Is it normal that I feel awkward around her knowing she slept with my boyfriend?

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Question - (10 July 2011) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A female United States age 36-40, *ovemeright11 writes:

Okay so last night my boyfriend opened up everything to me about his life, told me his story from beginning to end with what he could remember, even the detail of what girls he dated or maybe randomly slept with and I had no problem with this. I am actually very happy he wanted to tell me everything, but there was a point in his story and I would guess it has to be 3 or 4 years ago, where he was dating someone and made the mistake and cheated on them with someone, and the someone just so happens to be one of his friends. her name is Taby and she is a friend still to this day. Now is it normal to feel kinda awkward that I know her but never knew she had slept with my boyfriend? in past he told me it was only a one time thing that happened and after it did he had no interest in her ever again, and that it only happened when he was drunk, vulnerable, and depressed so when he said that I understand him. My problem i guess would be is if she still has feelings for my man. I always thought there was a weird vibe about her like there was something I did not know and now I do, but do you think I should just let it go? She comes over to my bfs house all the time and has sex with his roommate and I know now a days she is very very slutty cause she brags about having sex with a lot of people but do you think I should worry ? ANd is it normal for me to feel a little bit strange around her for a while? She actually is having a birthday Party that she invited me too and its going to be at my bf and the guy she has been sleeping withes house. I am not sure if I want to go and my boyfriend even said we could go find something else to do. What do you all think?

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