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male
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36-40,
*adox
writes: I have a girlfriend who i love very much..she told me that she was a virgin (she never lie to me + i've known her long ago) but last time when i fingered her, my finger was loose as if she had had sex several times and feels no pain...could it be because of something else or she is lying to me????
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reader, Anonymous 123 +, writes (11 July 2011):
Look Mr 'Is she lying to me'- at least brush up on your biology and get some basic common sense before you go around doubting every body function of your girlfriend.
Because you, sir, are as misinformed as can be.
Giving birth can cause the vagina to stretch out, having sex can't. It's possible that she's just more comfortable with you, so her vaginal muscles are more relaxed as well.
But now in order to convince you, she should actually be in pain and clamp shut for YOU to have faith in her morals! Funny how incredibly ruthless and steeped in ignorance men can be!!
You dont mind discussing her vagina in public and yet you dont trust HER, when not only has she never lied to you, (by your own admission), but you've also known her for quite a while.
You're a keeper for sure!!
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reader, hannah76 +, writes (10 July 2011):
She says she is virgin so accept this. As for the looseness, perhaps she enjoys what you are doing!
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reader, chigirl +, writes (10 July 2011):
Could it be because you are fingering her perhaps?
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (10 July 2011): it is proven that a girls vagina actually gets looser by not having sex if anything, because when a girl has sex she is exercising her pelvic floor therefore making it tighter so the more sex the tighter she goes.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 July 2011): Well maybe, just maybe, she was so relaxed and enjoying sex and welcomed you.
You obviously do NOT trust her or you would not be doubting her and asking a bunch of strangers questions about the size of her foo foo. Funny but this is actually a BETRAYAL in some ways, dont you think?
spunky monkey
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reader, van1llabeeen87 +, writes (10 July 2011):
girls don't get loose from having sex. this is medically proven. i really wish people would let go of that annoying little myth...a girls vagina is very elastic and always goes back to it's normal size...if it didn't then women who have babies would have some issues later don't ya think??
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reader, Tyedyedturtle +, writes (10 July 2011):
The circumference of a single finger and a penis are two very different things. Not to be graphic and gross, but I masturbated long before I ever had sex and one finger never hurt me and fit just fine, but when I had sex for the first time I was in a load of pain. Two very different sizes and I don't think that you have any basis to believe she isn't a virgin. Besides, vaginas come in all sorts of sizes. She might naturally be wider down there. Who knows?
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