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writes:Hello,I just turned 25. My gf (been dating for about a month or so).....didn't hang out with me on her birthday. I think she hung out with her friends. I feel kinda down......I hung out with my cousins instead. I really don't have that many friends....and I didn't want to get drunk (because that's what we would have done). I wanted to hang out with her.....but it seems that she wanted to hang with her friends (I guess she doesn't hang out with them that much). I'm disappointed though. It's not like I have an easy time picking up chicks......if I did, I'd dump her. But what should I do?
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reader, hannah76  +, writes (10 July 2011):
 Hello,
It's only a month so don't worry. It;s too soon for her. However, next year will be different.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 July 2011): Why did she hang out with her friends? Because you two have only been dating a month, that's why. You aren't a huge fixture in her life yet, and she wanted to spend her birthday with people who truly are.
You should take a deep breath and realize just because she's your girlfriend doesn't mean everything she does should be centered around you.
You need to seriously consider your fundamental relationship principles, here. Because she didn't hang out with you on HER birthday, you would dump her if it were easier to find a new girlfriend? Would you expect her to dump you if you didn't hang out with her on your birthday? Sorry, this isn't how mature relationships work.
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reader, sammy1986 +, writes (10 July 2011):
i wouldnt worry about it i mean you,ve only been together a month you are still getting to know each other maybe she didnt realise that you wanted to see her on her birthday
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