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writes:im 18/f and my boyfriend is 19/m I lost my virginity to my boyfriend 2 and a half weeks ago, it hurt a lot at first but the pain then subsided. I was very very tight, i was extremely wet and everything, and my boyfriend was gentle with me. We had sex again the next night, and again it hurt, he had more of his member inside me before it began to hurt that time however, and again the pain subsided. ive heard of pain at the beginning of sex lasts for the first two or so times, we had sex again today and it hurt really really bad. It has been two and a half weeks since the last time we had sex, so i dont know whether it was cause my body wasnt used to it again or something. The pain took longer to subside this time and im just wondering if this is normal and if this pain will be expected everytime i have sex now? I was extremely turned on and wet so dryness isnt the issue. is it normal?
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reader, prettygirlsmakegraves  +, writes (10 July 2011):
From my experience, when i did it for the first time it hurted REALLY bad.. and it kept hurting the next 4 or 5 times. But after that everything was ok ... just wait, some people take longer to stop hurting. Hope it helps.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (10 July 2011):
 It wont be painful everytime you have sex, but you've just had sex three times. On average it probably only hurts the first two times, but it's just an average because for some women it doesn't hurt at all, while for some the pain lasts longer. The pain itself also varies a lot! There's no "normal" here at all, each and everyone is different. But one thing is for sure, it'll stop being painful soon, you just sound like you are very tight by nature and will need a little longer. Maybe he should be extra careful, and maybe you should use some lubricant in addition to your own wetness to make things even smoother. And, maybe he shouldn't go at it for a long period of time since you're still fresh at it. Maybe have sex for 5-10 minutes and then stop?
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