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36-40,
*ainbowrowe
writes:Hi just looking for a bit of advice. Im 26 and was dating a man for 3 months, we told eachother we loved eachother and everything was good until he started acting cold and i practically pushed him away because i wanted to know why. I do feel like an idiot for pressuring him but i deserved the truth. I know he isnt seeing anyone else and its pretty much happened pretty suddenly. He does suffer from bipolar and i dont know if that has anything to do with it, his moods are pretty extreme.Anyway he cut contact with me for 7 months completely, obviously i was really upset i really thought we were meant to be together but i was also angry and after about 4 months of feeling awful and dwelling on everything i decided to move on. Now coming onto the 8th month of no communication atall. He changed his number and email. I have now recieved an email from him asking if we can talk and how messed up he was when he ended things with us and that he wish he had never let me go. I find this so hard to believe because when he ended it he was so adiment he didnt want me anymore, he told me he didnt think he loved me and that it was lust. He also said some amazing things to me in the time we were seeing eachother also but the bad outweighs the good really. I just want to know what his game is!, i realise i could ask him but that isnt going to make anything better, i still love him and he could tell me whatever he wanted. Just looking for advice from anyone who has been in this position. Is it the bipolar?, is it that he really has realised what he had, or is he just an idiot??Would really appreciate some advice, thanks, oh and he is 30 x
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 July 2011): i think maybe that came out wrong, what i meant by bad outwweighs the good is in the way he ended it with me not in the way he was with me for 3 months because that was perfect, i am madly inlove with him just wanted to see what you thought. I really want to reply but dont want to get hurt again if he is just playing on my emotions x
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