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female
age
36-40,
*amselInDistress3
writes:There is this guy in my office...Very good looking,intelligent and dashing...but flirtatious...I was attracted to him...the first day i saw him...but that is it...i was very much happy with my 3 yrs old relationship...he always tried to strike a conversation me...or get friendly...but i always ignored and resisted...in one of my assignments i had to work with him...he was very helpful during the whole assignment..and that's how we became friends...i kind of like him now...he has now relocated to a different center of the organization...we just chat over the office communicator...i happened to visit the center where he has relocated...he messaged me and asked for lunch with him...but i had lunch with another friend...then he insisted that lets have coffee...we had coffee together...and spent some nice time together...he kept asking me if i had someone in my life...i never told him about my relationship....after a week...i felt i should tell him about my relation...i told...and then he stopped pinging me on the office communicator....weirdest thing happened after that...i broke up due to family issues...about a month passed i was not in touch with him...one day we happened to chat on Facebook...he was again the usual himself... flirtatious as ever...i told him about my break-up...and again he started to be friendly...but sometimes i feel...he tries to ignore me...i think i am falling for him...somehow i feel...he is not interested in a relationship...and just enjoys flirting....he is 30...had 3 breakups in his life...and is very mysterious...what should i do???should i be serious about him?is it worth chasing him?how can i find out if he is interested in me?is he interested in a relationship?Please help!
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reader, jass +, writes (11 July 2011):
Don't chase him. leave him, he'll never be serious, he is just a flirt.
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reader, DamselInDistress3 +, writes (11 July 2011):
DamselInDistress3 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhow do i make him fall for me....i think the distance between us is the main obstacle!!!
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reader, van1llabeeen87  +, writes (10 July 2011):
 Don't chase him. If he is interested, he will chase you.
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