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I'm worried he'll want me to go on top, and I feel so uncomfortable! Any tips?

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Question - (10 July 2011) 1 Answers - (Newest, 11 July 2011)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I dont know if this is a bit crude, but im currently single out of a 5 year relationship ive met someone new and i havent yet had sex with them.

I worry that when I do have sex with them they will want me to go on top, I don't mind doing that but I always feel nervous like i'm hurting the poor guy! i'm a rather large lady and I always feel awkward trying to bounce when I just cant physically do it? i'm only a size 16 but still i'm very chubby.

How can I make it easier to be on top? how exactly are you meant to move about!? this really is a serious question, I dont know how.

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A female reader, SeriouslyStephanie United Kingdom +, writes (11 July 2011):

SeriouslyStephanie agony auntGo reverse cowgirl (face the other way) its easier top "bounce" or lean forward loads so your face is nearer his and then its easier to do the motion. I know how you feel, I'm a size 16 and my boyfriend is tiny he only has a size 28-30" waist lol so I always feel like i'm gonna crush him but don't panic, the only thing he will be bothered about is your boobs bouncing around hehe good luck and don't feel too nervous about it!

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