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I just don't know how to stop 'trying so hard'!

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Question - (10 July 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 10 July 2011)
A male South Africa age 30-35, *av3R!K writes:

Hey Everybody.

Okay, I screw up everything I do or try to do. And I don't know why or how. I find myself unhappy 24/7. I don't know why I don't deserve happiness.

I had a girlfriend who dumped me. She said I 'tried' to hard. That I should stop 'idolizing' her. Apparantly I should not do this. But I always try too hard when I am in a relationship. I mean, I write long SMSs, long letters, poems etc. But I just don't know how to stop 'trying so hard'. I try to stop, but it doesn't work. I just don't know what to do.

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A female reader, van1llabeeen87 United States +, writes (10 July 2011):

van1llabeeen87 agony auntJust relax and be yourself! You sound so wound up...ever thought of aroma therapy? just a suggestion...

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A female reader, jess111 United Kingdom +, writes (10 July 2011):

jess111 agony auntjust chill , you sound like a nice guy but take it easy theres no need to write poems and stuff all the while. good luck

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