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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:hi everyone so here,s my problem i have been friends with a man for about a year now we meet up a couple of times a week on his nights off from work and mine the past couple of times we have arranged to meet up i have had to cancel due to a lot happening in my life at the moment here,s the problem las night he started texting me asking if ive got a boyfriend and saying i must of ive blew him out the past twice do you think he see,s us as more than just friends and if so how do i break it to him gently that i don,t like him in that way thank you
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reader, hannah76 +, writes (10 July 2011):
 Well, his text asking about a boyfriend leans me towards believing that he is sounding things out for more. He is probably interested and is finding out if you are available. In these situations it is best to be honest. If he asks you to be his girlfriend possibly just say you are not looking for a relationship at this time. If he persists then I'm afraid you will have to pull away from hanging out. From the point of view that he hasn't said anything yet, and bare in mind he may not be wanting a relationship, it's not a good idea to say anything. Afterall, he may not want more. In any case, hang out with him for now but if things get uncomfortable you will have to pull away I'm afraid.
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